A moment of sick satisfaction

Exactly! And that is what I am fearing now.. I wish I had not stumbled onto this discussion. It is most upsetting.

that poor boy without a mother that is very sad

I'm sorry but the woman WASNT THERE when she was alive anyway!...From what I'm understanding she was an ABSENT parent..

Ask any child. A BAD mother is better than NO mother. Whether she was there for her child or not, the thing is that this child's biological mother is dead. I'd put money on the fact that the child is hurting badly right now. Could anyone do that 'happy dance' in front of that child?

She didn't wish the woman dead, the woman died in a car accident. It was an ACCIDENT.

As far as a bad mother is better than no mother, no, I do not agree. There is another thread around here about how no dad is better than a BAD dad, and I wholeheartedly agree.

I never said I was glad she is dead. I said a long time ago I'm sure i wished she was dead but that was then. What I did admit to was that when I put two and two together (the news of her death and the details of which crash) I had a moment of laughter. Her death is not funny. The accident is not funny. What amused me for lack of a better word is that it was exactly 10 years ago that she was destoying my life and I sat watching the news the night of the accident feeling interested in the story because I felt a connection I couldn't explain. So when it all came together I was amused that of all connections I could have felt, it was that one. This entire discussion has not come ot right at all because i would have to explain way to much both past and present for any of it to make sense. I'm sorry you feel the way you do but I can't help my feelings either.

I certainly didn't know her Foxy... but after reading this I will remember it for years to come. I can't even watch the news or read about things of this nature because of the level of empathy I have... I have flashbacks.. memories of things that hasn't even happened to me. I won't come back to this discussion again... it's just way too painful. Sorry I am reacting this way, but I can't help it... any more than you can help how you feel. I'm sorry. I know I am over reacting... but it's the nature of the beast inside of me.

I beg to differ
not long ago someone here was being viciously attacked and you made a comment to them about how you thought they were getting exactly what they deserved
there are hidden connotations there that you wished they would somehow suffer for something they had done which you disagreed with
I have seen the darker side of you
dont try to play innocent here

Could you please find that comment for me? I really don't know how you can equate what I may or may not have said to someone here with that of a person being happy with someone tragically dying and then laughing over it

I wish I could but it was in a an email sent from you to someone else and I dont yet have permission from that person to post any contents ver batem
Just know that I am not the only one that has a copy of the email so I am not the only person that has seen this darker side of you

Could you do me a great favor zu...just give it a rest will you please..enough--you have my email...write me there

I will give it a rest but NOT because you asked me to
I will drop it here because i dont want to say anything else that might get me banned LOL
And I have no need to e-mail you
In fact I am DONE with you

What are you about Zukepr, do you go and bash and try to police everything here at MyLot?

I think YOU should give it a rest and not take yourself so seriously, no one else does.
I say that with all the respect you've earned here.

Get over yourself, and I mean that in the nicest way possible.

mario
you also give good advice I wonder where you got it from LOL
I AM over it
I had a human moment and lashed out
I apologise for bringing a personal unrelated issue to this discussion

Lets be friends and we can make irrelevant comments together on all of the discussions here.
You pick one and I'll follow. hehehe

you may follow me anyway who knows LOL
might as well be freinds while we stalk one another right?

Oh no, I would ask permission before stalking someone here.

So... Do I have permission or not. I promise not to talk to you while you are on the phone and I'll stay out of the bathroom when you are showering and I'll do my darndest to find those missing socks for you.
I want to help, really.

go ahead
you wouldnt be the first to stalk me and you wont be the last LOl

I agree with that DRMARIO. Ps, ask her how her dog is...

and to answer the question
NO I dont think you are a horrible person
i think you are a great person that had a breif human moment

Your husbands first wife stole his daughters away from him. Is that a criminal, or civil offence? And then they found him after 17 years, why, was he lost? Then the same thing happened with his second wife, how many years was he lost for that time? It would seem to most people with an ounce of grey matter, that your husband, made little, or no effort to be in contact with any of his children, it always makes me laugh, when I here this sort of garbage. But you thought it was laughable to here that his second wife was in a near death situation, and possibly his third daughter too. Shame on you! Did you never question why all of his daughters felt it prudent to disregard there Father in that way, and did you ever question your husband, why would he disregard his daughters in the same way.
I think that you should read the opening discussion, and it just might seem that you are no different to the lady that was killed in a car crash, it may just happen to you, after all, I'm thinking that your husbands second wife, and possibly the first too, are wishing that on you. Now that's Karma...

PS, Hows the dog, I hope it is as happy as you are!!!

it was a criminal matter and still is but right now we cant afford the lawyer to go after either one of them.
both ex wives moved out of state without telling him where they were moving the kids too.
and we yes WE He and I tried looking for all 4 of the kids for years but no one could tell us anything because of the child protection laws as he was not the legal custodial parent
even though he paid child support and had court ordered visitation he had no rights in the eyes of the child support or the prosecutors office
but now that the kids are legal age he can get information on them and we do plan to take both exwives to court for money that they owe him in the form of 17 years worth of child tax credit deductions
as far as the exwives thinking ill of me they have no reason to I didnt steal their man the first wife was out of his life 10 years before i met him and the second wife left him for a WOMAN
check your facts before you start spewing at the mouth
and my dogs are fine, never been happier in thier lives just like me

and we reap what we sow... so no, I don't think you're a terrible person at all!

Well if we reap what we sow..she may end up dying the same way and someone else laughing a sickly laugh at her death.

And I'm sure people will laugh and that will be fine with me. We aren't here just be rainbows and sunshine all the time, we are here to live. If that makes us enemies along the way, so be it.

Yup that's right Dancingfeather, maybe you'll die with a bar of soap in your mouth for as foul as you are in this discussion.

Great, fantastic, now that's what we want to here, true honesty, you hit the nail right on the head. No third party wrecks a marriage, we do that quite well for our selves, we just choose to blame some one else for our own short Cummings.

Sorry that was for Amstardam!!!

some mother she was... having an affair... nice influence, really.

yeah pretty sure that was before she had a kid, if you read it, they were 19 when this happened

and if YOU READ IT you'll see that all she did was give birth..it doesnt make her a parent IN FACT she chose NOT to be a parent...yea nice "mom"

Hey raven,
I am not bashing foxy in anyway.. but
i am just puzzled as to were it says the lady decided not to be a mom and so forth.
i think i missed it. or was that in another convo.. i think im ganna read it again..
cause i seriously missed that whole part.

hockey if you read the discussion you would find that the son is 11 years old. This whole emotional affair happened 10 years ago. So yes the son was around

Yes when all that happened he'd just had his first birthday and was living with babysitters except for a few hours on Sunday...between the Saturday night hangover and them going to bed early for work on Monday.

mikeswiffy, the now orphaned child, apparently was adopted by grand parents, its easy to see how you missed that, this is some discussion, a real can of worms.

MikesWifey, sorry, spelling never was a strong point