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myLot reputation of 92/100. TheHawkBat (627)   ranked 311 out of 6,381 in politics1 year ago

Lately there has been a lot of talk about the Edwards affair. But it really seems there is constantly some talk of a politician and some moral scandal. Are these short comings more common among those in positions of power? Or does it just seem this way because of all the media coverage? I really have no idea how prevalent affairs are in the typical marriage, but it seems really common among politicians. But if these are prevalent among the general population too, should we be surprised by what we hear about "morally bankrupt" politicians?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 79/100. spalladino (9032)   ranked 175 out of 6,381 in politics   1 year ago

I don't think scandal is limited to politicians. I think that there are many women who are attracted to powerful men and that many of those men choose to take advantage of the many opportunities that present themselves. So, no, I'm not surprised that politicians have affairs. John Kennedy was the first president I paid attention to because I was a child when he was in office. When I first heard about his (alleged) affair with Marilyn Monroe I was shocked but, when I think about it as an adult, I realize that he was more than just a president...he was a flesh and blood man so, when the sexiest woman in the world presented herself to him, he did what most men would have done in his shoes.

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2. myLot reputation of 77/100. mscott (1754)   ranked 397 out of 6,381 in politics   1 year ago

I think it happens to many people but often people with money and some power. people who travel a lot and are away from their families like politicians and athletes and even people in entertainment seem to get themselves in trouble more often. I don't think this should be an excuse. true they might have more temptations but it should be a chance to prove they faithfulness not give into temptation. Society is very forgiving of these types of things, maybe because so many people do it. I think it shows a general lack morals in our society. sad

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. cobrateacher (4223)   ranked 121 out of 6,381 in politics   1 year ago

John Edwards said he thought he was invincible, and that nothing could take him down. Well, he's certainly learned that lesson! We've always known that power corrupts, and the power a politician has is not just huge, it's totally in the public eye. They become stars, and they seem to think it's OK for stars to do anything at all -- as if it's coming to them.

I don't think "ordinary people" have as many weaknesses, but there are many who think whatever they're into is enormous power, and they ride that power for all it's worth. Corruption among regular folks can certainly result in any number of affairs and other improper behavior, but most of us, thank God, are happy to remain in monogamous relationships. Loving somebody doesn't require power or riches or anything else -- and love is really all that matters!

How Edwards could do this when his lovely wife is going through torments is beyond me, but I guess he's pretty callous! thumbdown

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4. myLot reputation of 65/100. anniepa (9252)   ranked 375 out of 6,381 in politics   1 year ago

I posted in another discussion sort of similar to this one and I think this is something we'll never really have the correct answer to. I don't know how any kind of poll or survey of people to find out how many of us in or out of the public limelight cheat on our spouses or what makes us do it. (Note: I said "us" and "we" as a general term; I've never cheated on my husband!)

I think if we did the actual math and figured out what the percentage of politicians who have been caught in an affair we'd probably find out it's on par with the general population. It's just that when it happens we hear about it - over and OVER again - and there have been quite a few but there are quite a few more politicians in total.

That having been said, my rather mixed view of this is on one hand, with all the scrutiny anyone in politics gets from the media and their opponents I can't imagine why they'd ever think they'd get away with it but on the other hand I think it's a bit like what Edwards said - they come to think they're so special and I think they may actually believe they can get away with anything. Why they'd still think that when they've all seen these same scenes played out over and over again, I'll never know.
Annie

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5. myLot reputation of 87/100. cripfemme (5737)   ranked 272 out of 6,381 in politics   1 year ago

They say that half of the marriages or relationships have adultery at some point so politicians of course are not immune to this. What I have more of a problem with is that they're always screwing around with their employees or their interns which I think is more of a moral problem than adultery in general. Don't get me wrong, adultery is bad but when it's someone you have authority over that is worse. And as a third bad point for Edwards, his wife is dying and he's off having affairs with a 27 year old girl who happens to be his employee. Could this get any worse? I feel so sorry for Elizabeth Edwards who I met in person once and seems really nice. If I were her, I don't care if I'm sick, I'm changing locks!


myLot reputation of 65/100. anniepa (9252)   ranked 375 out of 6,381 in politics  1 year ago

I'm certainly not sticking up for anyone who commits adultery and under these circumstances, with Elizabeth's illness, it's even worse. However, this wasn't a 27 year old girl, it was a woman over 40 and she wasn't actually an employee as I understand it, her production company was making web-videos for Edwards. I think everyone really likes Elizabeth Edwards and I think it's so terrible for her to be going through this. If anyone doesn't deserve it (which nobody does!) it's her.
Annie

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6. myLot reputation of 18/100. MntlWard (581)   ranked 1,900 out of 6,381 in politics   1 year ago

I'm certain that it happens more than we hear of it, but it's not really possible to say if it happens more often among politicians than the general populace. It might occur more among young, charismatic politicians like Edwards, though.

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. ShellyB (3008)   ranked 1,278 out of 6,381 in politics   1 year ago

I believe some of it is like you say media coverage, and that we fuel this by wanting to know more.
I do not believe we should be surprised by "morally bankrupt" politicians.
Especially on elections days when each party seems to be in a dirty laundry quest.

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. laglen (3798)   ranked 166 out of 6,381 in politics   1 year ago

This is very common among politicians. They are away from their families for long period of times. They work late hours especially during campaigns. I think they get caught up in the excitement and the pumping adrenaline, etc. That being said, should we excuse it? Most certainly not! I think there is no excuse, I find it sleazy. I do not think it is a democrat or republican thing. There are plenty from both sides that do this. On the same token, there are plenty that never do! These are the politicians I am more interested in.

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. ersmommy1 (10471)   ranked 1,180 out of 6,381 in politics   1 year ago

I think so. I believe it happens when they realize I have some Power here. It has been pretty common. Kennedy and Marilyn. That was the 1st real look at this kind of thing in front of the media. I don't think it is limited to piliticians though. We just hear about them because they are in the spotlight.

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10. myLot reputation of 67/100. nutanjain (467)   1 year ago

hi how are you hawk bathappy well i do not about the scandal that you are talking about but i know that scandals aredrool very juicy means everyone just has a keen interest in knowing who is the celebrity exposed and how good looking is his video and they also have body like humans i mean they have also the same organs that we you and other people have just let say celeb gossips will never stop and so the peole who make money out of itthumbup


myLot reputation of 22/100. kennyrose (4057)   ranked 2,865 out of 6,381 in politics  1 year ago

In my opinion when the government got their noses in to the private life's of the American people replacing decency and morals with law made by the few such as abortion,marriage,parental rights the moral decay of this country set in and even a blind person can see that horrible results of replacing good with bad.
All three of these made laws by a few in no way reflects the American people as a whole but they sure have open the door wide to people that really just do not care.
Parental rights state by state has been removed from parents our children became the children of the so called village which was one of Hillary Clinton's agendas for the United State.
Now not so many years later we read and hear about children as young as 8 years old killing their class mates or planing to at that tender age,we read about teenagers murdering their parents and entire family,teachers,class mates all across the United States.
Since the government step in to people private lives since Row VS Wade their has been far more then 40 million infants aborted in their mothers womb in the United States.
Mothers 7-8-9 month pregnant murdered and if not cut up then burnt and left like yesterdays trash.
To some people to murder one form of life is no different then murdering a wife,girl friend, unborn infant,mother,father,sister or brother,teacher or a strange on the street.
Reasons for a divorce was as well discarded these days their is no rules to a divorce it is done twenty-four seven on a wimp.
Marriage to many American's still is scared and married people do honor their marriage voes but many do not what so ever and John Edwards,Bill Clinton is just a little drop in the bucket.
What I'm against is John Edwards was in this affair he has gotten caught in with his pants down was in this same affair back in 2006 when the National Enquirer asked him about it,Edwards called them a gossip paper full of lies and denied having an affair.
John Edwards don't blink an eye as he lies out his butt and as he steals his supporter money donated to him during his democrat campaign to fund his betrayal.
Wifes of these S.o.b. men stay for the toys and big bank accounts and far as devotion and love that don't even enter the picture these women with stand great humility for the big toys and big bucks,my heart certainly dose not bleed for any on them they get just what they deserve,we all reap what we sow in this life.
if I was a betting person John Edwards got caught this time by good reporters doing their job,this by far was not his first affair.
John Edwards was running on family values and his wife knew her husband was running on a lie,their life is not the reflection of family values any way it can be cut.
In my opinion with both John and Elizabeth Edwards being they say they are Christians they both need to dust off the dusty bible on their coffee table and steady the holy scriptures and if nothing more learn what the meaning of the word Christian actually means.
To speak to nutanjain,this was not gossip and it has been reported a numbers of time the past two years.
Seems that these days some people have to have some one to believe in, had John Edwards supporters done their home work as voters then John Edwards would not had been stealing their donates.
John Edwards is a trial lawyer and has only 6 years experience if that,John Edwards has not put in enough time to have the keys to the white house handed to him in the first place.





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