My ex boyfriend called...

As long as your husband wants you to remain friends with him, I don't see any reason not to accept the clothing. Are you also friends with his wife and is your husband friends with him? Obviously, he is married now and has moved on, but considers you a friend and wants to help you out. I think it is a nice gesture that he wants to give you the clothing for your new baby.

Is there a particular reason you don't want to be friendly with him. It appears that you have both moved on so if your spouses are okay with you two being friends then I don't see a problem with it. The fact that he's giving you some clothes could just mean he's being nice or friendly. But I can understand not wanting to take anything from him since you don't want to be his friend. I think if you don't want to be friendly with him just be honest and let him know that you appreciate the offer to remain friends but it's best if you two aren't friends anymore and give him the reason why you don't want to be his friend.

If there are no strings attached and your husband does not mind, I don't see a problem with accepting the cloths from him.

Are they hand me down cloths or are they new. If they were new, I may have an issue with it. Hand me downs, should never be turned down.:D

if the friendship of exs is truly for friendship thats no problem. If the friendship doesnt trigger your relationships its okay i guess. If they are giving you some clothes be sure you have refer to your partner about it first before you take it. and if you dont thats your decision too.

First of all I think it is silly that you are unwillingly maintaining a friendship with him, but who am I to judge. I would accept the clothes and say thank you, but try not to encourage the friendship too much in the process.

I would take the clothes. They didn't do anything wrong, the ex did, and that is why he is an ex. I wouldn't care what he things, or says afterwards, I would take the clothes, say thank you, and that is it. Things are too rough these days to be thinking about pride. This is stuff that you won't have to buy later, which would be great. If I had a little money, I would send you all the infant stuff I had as well. Lawd knows I won't need it lol!

I think I would accept them. The cloths will come in very handy. I find it interesting that your husband asked you to remain friends with him while you do not feel the same way. It is usually the opposite.

Hello dear ersmommy. Since your hubby understands and supports your friendship with your ex-boyfriend, I think that it is ok for you to receive the clothing from him. If your hubby did not support you, then it would be a different story. So I think that I would certainly accept the clothing from him if I were in such a case. Enjoy your life, friend.

well, if you are still friend with your ex, i don't see any reason why you shouldn't accept his gifts... especially if he gives them with a good intention to you... i will receive it if i were in your position as i see nothing wrong with it... take care and have a nice day...

I think it completely depends on you. if your husband do not have any problem, then where is the problem? or can one dress for a boy make all difference? you have to take judgement.