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myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life 4 years ago

Are you afraid of being alone in the dark?

I used to be afraid being alone in the dark, when that time happen, I felt so nervous and I begin to chill, my eyes are open wide and every sudden movements in the dark makes my heart pounding hard.

That fear embraced me for over twelve years, till I found out a cure. It was friend who introduced me to a therapist specializing on fears. If its not for free I would'nt dare to be treated, to get to the point, I was used for study purposes. the therapist succeded in curing me by some hypnotism sessions alone. I remember a phrase he used to told me to repeat after him, "the night is wonderful, it makes me fell great".

Do you experienced thesame fear of being alone? or what fears holds you for so many years?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. badkat83 (1102)   4 years ago

I get scared when I am in the dark outside. The other day we went for a quad ride on a trail in the dark and my husband shut it off. It was so dark you could not see anything. It was really freaky. Then we heard coyotes and we took off. Sometimes when I am outside my house, it is like your ears hear every little thing. Especially now with the leaves falling. It sounds like someone is there.


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

You reminded me of my self during those times when I was very frightened being alone in the dark. Yeah its realy spooky when you felt that somebody's there watching you or might grab you. But those are just our imaginations, it was created by our subconscious mind, which we already recorded in it that we feared being alone, thats why we alone created some hallucinations that threaten us.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. missybear (3130)   ranked 4 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

I do get scared in the morning times.
When I leave for work it's still dark outside
and there is nobody but me walking to the bus.
Once i'm at the bus it's ok.


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Yes even I, before, I was so afraid of walking in the dark early morning.

I wish you do'nt get any trouble as you walk early in the morning to catch a bus to ride. Just take good care of your self, and do'nt forget to pray and ask for protection, or bring some with you.

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3. myLot reputation of 77/100. laxram (131)   ranked 4,281 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

When i was in my childhood i used to be afraid, but now
its not the case...
courage is just overcoming our fear
everyone gets fear but overcoming it is called courage


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Yeah LOL! you're right courage is the word for overcoming our fears in life, and we need a lot of work to boost that courage.

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4. tisty2008 (94)   ranked 5,158 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

I think many people will fear in the dark alone.In my childhood,I always have a nightmare about a drowning ghost in the water.It always make me suffering from insomnia.But with age,the more things up ,just like study and play with my friends.Also things like go to bed at night.I haven't dream about that since then.So just force yourself to be busy with something.It's a good way to eliminate the fear about the darkness or other things.


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

My therapist once told me that, we got those fears mostly from people around us such as our parents, that of which in order to make their kids eat or sleep they will told them stories that are fearful in nature. Young minds are well too easy to be recorded of any fears, cause they are most likely emotionly active.

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. kriskhedkar (818)   ranked 12,644 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

Yes, i am afraid of being alone. Not only in dark but also in daily life


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

You need not to be afraid of being alone in your life, look for more friends that you can trust, friends that will make your life grow positively. Or visit myLot if that time comes (but I hope not)and make your self busy.

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. tapnaroy12 (771)   ranked 4,069 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

Hi

Well, it was my childhood problem which I managed to overcome without major medical attention. Now, in fact, I love to be alone and if it's dark, i love it more. I'm no longer afraid of.


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

You know mine is different, my parents often find me unconscious if I was left an hour alone in the dark. That's why even I grew up, the fear still haunted me, thanks to my friend who introduced me to my therapist, now like you I enjoyed the dark specialy when I'm with my wife, Heheheheh!!!.....

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7. RenoMan (53)   4 years ago

I'm not afraid of being alone in the dark. If it's too dark to see and something happens, I'd rather be alone so I don't have to worry about someone else getting hurt and can concentrate on taking proper care of myself. I'm not really afraid of much, except my wife. She scares the hair right off my back.:)


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Same as I, I fear my wife, I think I need another therapy for that LOL hahahaha!.


RenoMan (53)  4 years ago

We'll go together buddy. There's strength in numbers I hear.:))

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8. Millie872 (42)   4 years ago

I'm not scared now (unless I've spent the evening watching a scary movie), but when i was little i used to be terrified, and spent alot of my time under the duvet waiting for someone to reach out from under the bed and grab my foot...


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

When I was also a kid,I never went under the bed, cause I'm afraid that those creepy creatures I imagined might grab me and eat me. Even when I go to sleep, I never turn off the lights, but that was before. Thanks God, I have overcome those fears of mine.

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9. myLot reputation of 76/100. sudais2006 (272)   ranked 12,157 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

hi frinds

alone in the dark i m very afraid

cos i have seen much much amazing things in darkness while i was child and from that time i m much afraid from darkness



Prince Sad


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Hello!

What particular things do you saw in the dark?
Before I saw creepy creatures with long pointed nails and very hairy body. Sometimes I saw elves with ugly faces, dirty teeth and green saliva running down his tounge, trying to lick my face.

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10. archana_g05 (45)   ranked 20,949 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

just like you even i am afraid to be alone and that too in the dark.....
apart from the fear of darkness , i am afraid of heights, water and even thunderstorms


myLot reputation of 97/100. omar0913 (329)   ranked 865 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

I'm not afraid of heights, but I know a friend who share thesame fear as you are. When I was in high school we have this military training for an officer, a friend of mine joined and died during the training exercise. Reports say's that my friend was brought at mountain cliff blind-folded, He knew he was in that cliff for his officers told him that. He was told to jump, he did'nt jump for he was verry terrefied that day, infact he had his pants wet by his own urine. His officers faced him not in the cliff, but because he was afraid he trn at his back and run , although some officers are in his back they never have the time to grab him until he fall down the cliff and died.

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