SHOULD I or should I not?

If you are ready to say goodbye to her then I would tell her this. You can not hold on to something that is not there. If you think that this is something worth investing more time into then I would say yes talk to her. It all depends on what you want now. She should be respectful of that.

Ah - this girl is playing a little game with you, Jhordie. She broke up with you, then you begged her to come back (which was what she wanted you to do) - then you suddenly stopped texting her (which she definitely DIDN'T want you to do)! Now she wants you back because she senses you are losing interest and trying to get over her. I think you should ignore the texts for a few days (make her sweat a bit, and have a good think about how much she really misses you). It will be hard not to answer the texts, but you can't make it too easy for her. When you finally DO forgive her and take her back, she'll be frightened of losing you again - so hopefully things will settle down and you can both be happy again!

What was her reason for the break up? You know some women tried to break up with men just for more attention or just for fun. And then they asked for forgiveness so they can have a relationship back again, this is one of the signs that they are not serious in handling the relationship. Based on what I have done, as a woman I sometimes say to my boyfriend that our relationship is over but didn't mean it. Maybe you need to talk so you can see the deepest feelings for both of you, try to give her another chance and observe if she is really serious with you. Good Luck!

Since it is your first relationship and you still love her, then why not give another chance? Stop ignoring her text messages. How will you know if she's sincere of asking forgiveness if you kept ignoring it. How will you know the truth if you let your self doubt about things in your relationship. In order to know the truth and clear your doubts, have time to have heart to heart talk to her.

Well, this is really a decision you have to make from the heart. You have to decide if it's worth it. You're never going to have a perfect relationship and you have to understand that there are going to be some troubles, many of them, but is this too much? What are her real intentions? What makes her keep coming back?

If you really decide that you don't want any more of this, you should make a final statement telling her, that's it. That it's done with. You have to realize that things aren't going to get better and that people don't change.

Hmm... Well, you should think first, why does she break up with you?

But you know what, give it time. I think if she keeps on doing it then she's not really afraid of losing you. Give it one week before you do accept her again. At least to let her know that it's not some game.

U are really even more heartless than her.. Most of the time, it's the other way round of guys texting the gal when they broke up, but now it's not the case here..

No matter what, u should reply to her messages.. After all, it's been just 2 days since u 2 broke up, and i'm sure that the feelings are still there right?? Even though u 2 cant be couple, but at least can stil be frenz.. Now is the perfect chance to listen to what she wanna say, and understand her decision for doing so..

DO not turn her away and she will appreciate it very much.. After which, all decision are yours to make..

Love is the relationship between you and your girl friend. If you have to solve the probelm between you absolutely, i think you should talk with your gril friend quietly. You two need to rap off with heart. Although you still love her, but she do not love you. Why not give her a chance to seek her happiness. If both of you love each other, that is the best.Cherish each other and i think you must have a good future and a happy family.

U are the 1 to answer your question! Think about it and decide whether you really want her for the rest of your life n if your heart says, YES. then, go ahead n if it says NO then, just ignore her messages.. Trust me, for some days u will definately feel uneasy but, gradually u will learn to live without her company and mave on with your life.. I was in a relationship since 5 years but, he ditched me atlast n stop contacting me n changes his contact details.. for some months, i was so restlesss but, now i had move on with someone else.....
Take Care

give more tolerance to love.ask your heart if you love her .if you do,nothing is serious.if you don't,then forget it.don't tire yourself so much.we live to be happy not to be so painful.even love don't have the right to give you pain.