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Snailmail vs Email: Does anyone mail hand written letters/cards anymore? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 95/100. HeavenUnaware (989)   ranked 623 out of 6,433 in writing1 year ago

I've noticed that with the advancement of technology and the internet, it seems like less and less people write real hand written letters and mail them. Instead it seems like the new normal thing to do is send an email or an ecard.

Which do you prefer?

Personally, email is fine for keeping in touch but a nice handwritten note in your mailbox is so much better. It's more personal when someone takes the time out of their day to take a pen to paper and write a note and then place it in a pretty envelope and mail it.

I do a lot of emailing and I send eCards too but I try to remember to take the time to mail out letters and cards when I have the chance because it know it means so much to the person who receives it.

My aunts and uncles are older and some of them do not use email so they get left out by some of the younger relatives who only seem to use the internet to keep in touch. I try to send them a little handwritten card once a month and they always send me one back.

And I wonder.. do people ever send "thank you" cards anymore? It seems like manners have gone down the drain with the current generation. My son is 17 but ever since he was born, I made writing "thank you" notes to people a priority when they give him something. When he was too small to write them himself, I would write them for him. As soon as he was old enough to write, he was writing his own. When I give gifts to my nieces and nephews .. I have NEVER received a "thank you" note from them. My nephew is a brat and won't even say thank you when he opens his gift in front of me but you would think his parents would make him write a note. He's 6 years old and old enough to start learning how to appreciate people and the things they do for you.

Do you send "thank you" cards?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. anetteh (1463)   ranked 273 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

Well, no not much I have to once in a while. My kids grandfather and grand mother lives far in another town so I have to write a mail by hand no or then. But since as you say, there are more done online handwritten letters are rare. I even forgett that I have to make mail and send by mail. Seing your discussion made me realize it is some while ago I did send them a letter. So therefore, tomorrow I will take some time to make a letter for them.

I send cards for birthdays with flowers from the flowerstore. But for those who have computers and are online often they have a ecard.

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2. Haloman (49)   ranked 3,489 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

i know what you mean it's like people forget that mailboxes exist, i share a mailbox with the people that live below me and i have to often knock on their door and give them their mail cause they leave it there for like weeks at a time like they don't know a mail box exists i personally don't write or mail a lot of things out but it's only because the people i would be sending it to live in the same town i do i haven't travelled very far and i don't know many people who live far enough away that it would be neccessary to mail them things but i would love for someone to send me a letter in the mail and if they did i would be more than willing to return the favor

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. OOHCUTE2340 (457)   ranked 2,218 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

Hi HeavenUnaware, good topic. I agree with you, handwriting letters and thank you notes is quickly becoming a lost art. I try to write letters to friends and family, I know how happy and excited I get when I get a letter or a card in the mail, as oppossed to an e-mail or even a phone call. I am trying to teach my grandchildren the importance of sending thank you notes, I try to send thanks to everyone I can. It it is so nice to be remembered and appreciated. So a lot of times I will send thanks just for being you types of cards, along with birthday cards, I make sure to always send a handwritten sympathy card to my friends who have lost a loved one, so important and valued at very sensitive, and trying time. I feel sorry for your nephew, by not teaching this very basic skill, I feel he will miss out. It is an old cliche' but for me it is true, it is so much more rewarding to give then to recieve. Thank you for discussion, now I need to get off and send out a couple of overdue thank-yous from the holidays LOL! be happy, be joyful, be safe, be strong!!! oohcute2340

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4. myLot reputation of 100/100. jillhill (11824)   ranked 1,241 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

I still send cards because I make them....I bet I drive everyone crazy too as they get one for every occasion.....I am with you...where have the manners gone...the thank you's are almost nonexistant! My sister said that I am the only one who sent her a thank you for hosting our family Christmas...I always write a thank you..but even my own kids don't make theirs write one!

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5. myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7158)   ranked 196 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

I was just talking to my aunt about this earlier. She does not have the internet and she was talking about how expensive greeting cards are. I was telling her that now most people send e-cards for free. This past Christmas, I sent quite a few snail mail cards out.

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6. myLot reputation of 92/100. Erin88 (282)   ranked 3,487 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

I send more email than snail mail, but I do still write letters. It seems more personal. Some of the people I write to, prefer to receive handwritten letters. I don't send thank you's through email. I always send thank you cards.

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. muru1950 (583)   ranked 3,488 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

Hi HeavenUnaware

I only use Email.

Of course now I have become lazy to write hand written mail.

Even if I have to write someone who is not having a Email ID,I hesitate to write.
And I just talk to them over phone.

Even my hand writing has gone bad,because of no practice.

What to call this? The technology saves our time? Or technology make us lazy?

I am happy to note,you do write some letters to your aunts and uncles who are old.
Certainly those letters will give them more happiness.It is good that you have taught your son to send thank you cards.

I only find the younger generations failing to appreciate relationships.
They live in a separate world,the so called internet world.For them chating with unknown persons is more important than moving with family members and relatives.

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8. arvintot (70)   ranked 3,486 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

Here in the PHilippines... the hand written letters are still being mailed just for the reason that not all filipinos can do aaford or does not know about email.. but it is only on some provinces and some people.

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. hardworkingmom (819)   ranked 3,485 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

I still rely on snail mail, because with this technology theres always some kind of problems. Because I don't accept any cards or anything via email if I don't know who it is plus theres alot of my folks that just won't or try to get into HIGH TECH WORLD(as they tell me)(LOL) so I'm in between both worlds.

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. CharRay7 (899)   ranked 235 out of 6,433 in writing   1 year ago

Hi,

I do find that I do less hand writing of letters and cards than I ever used to. I even have given up on doing Christmas cards through the regular mail. It just seems like a waste of paper.

I used to make my son send thank you notes all the time when he was younger, just like you did. I will still send a thank you note if I receive something in the mail, but not if I see the person in person. I will just thank them while I am with them.

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