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myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people 11 months ago

I find it odd that other than personality my sister and i are so very different.
We were raised by the same parents, same lifestyle but...we are so different now that we are grown up.

My sister is the kind of person that she cant have anything second hand its got to be new and expensive. She's embarrassed to use coupons and get free samples. Shes gungho about mountain climbing and sky diving. Shes a very image conscious person - always on a diet even though she doesnt need to be...like i said the stuff she buys has to be the best or not at all. As a teen she used to demand having the designer jeans and then have a cow because the rest of us got more selections to take home because we were happy with the pairs of jeans for 20-30 dollars from walmart where as hers were 120 for one pair.

Me - I'm cheap I like to get second hand things and fix them up and be proud of my own handiwork...second hand means it costs less not that I'm poor. I dont care if someone sees me in my pjs at noon on a saturday, I could care less about makeup or fashion and designer clothes.

My other two sisters are very similar to me...
I understand that interest are different..but it just strikes me as so odd how from the same parents and such people can turn out so very different.

Are your siblings similar to you in life outlook or very different?

 

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tags:  family, siblings, sisters, differences, identity
 
1. myLot reputation of 88/100. busyB4 (792)   ranked 6,092 out of 24,072 in people   11 months ago

My sister and I were nothing alike either. We had very little in common. Then my daughters are all different also, as different as day and night. I have to say though you sound the most practical of the two of you, which will get you through harder times than someone who has to have the finest of it all. Each to his own I guess!


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

Yes, Each to their own. Soemtimes i wonder if the insistence on no second hand stuff is in part her husbands influence as he came from a family that was a lot better off than ours was.

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2. myLot reputation of 71/100. tonydollar01 (337)   11 months ago

What a funny question! For sure you and your sister can't be the same! You girls are from the d same parents that's true but you don't expect to have the same character, choice, attitude, interests e.t.c. It's natural! Its happens everywhere. In my House we are five boys and no girl. I am the eldest and we all have different characters. Even twins have the same character as well.


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

Its not the personality difference or the charcters difference that surprises me the most its the..attitude towards money and second hand things that really surprises me.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. allyoftherain (758)   ranked 7,759 out of 24,072 in people   11 months ago

It doesn't surprise me. Even though two people grow up in the same environment with the same parents, it doesn't mean they'll turn out the same. A lot of your personality comes from you.

My sister and I are actually pretty similar. We're both big readers, love to write, fun-loving, and kinda crazy at times. But we're not completely the same. She has more of an artistic side than I do for instance (I can't draw to save my life). She's a bit shier than I am, and she's much more sensitive than me. She'll cry for touching scenes in movies or books, and I won't. (I know... I'm such a weird female). I'm much more active than she is. I love to dance and run while she would prefer to stay seated all day. It doesn't have anything to do with the way we were raised or where we grew up... it's just us.


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

It sounds like you really love your sister.


myLot reputation of 97/100. allyoftherain (758)   ranked 7,759 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

Yes, I do. We're quite close.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. ravinskye (6503)   ranked 139 out of 24,072 in people   11 months ago

You know its funny, I was just saying the same thing to my husband the other day. My sister and I are pretty different too. She is the same way with some things. For her son she has tons of clothes given to her and she passed most of them down for me even though there was nothing wrong with them. Relationships are different too. We came from a stable home and our parents have been married for 30 years. I was always one for serious relationships where she jumped around quite a bit. She always picked these loser guys that cheated on her or took advantage of her and she let them do it. I wish we were more alike I would like to be closer to my sister.


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

I'm not close to this sister iether...she and i clash majorly. We lived together for 8 months in college and ended up almost hating each other to the point that now 3 years later we can actually talk nicely to each other and not instantly be at each other's throats. (shes a button pusher she will push my buttons til im so mad i could strangle her just cause it gives her a thrill to make me mad)

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. Opal26 (11200)   ranked 504 out of 24,072 in people   11 months ago

Hi saundyl! I don't have any sisters so I really couldn't say,
but I do know that it is very possible for siblings to be
different! I have friends that have sisters and they have
different personalities. They may be similar in some ways,
but not all! Like you said, two of your sisters are similar
and only one is very different! So that is very possible! She
wants to be the oddball! If she wants to waste her money on
designer names then let her! I personally feel that your way
is the better way! I am more like you! Can I be your sister
too? I would much rather buy a whole bunch of stuff for less
money then one thing for more money! I see no purpose in wasting
money like that! Let me know if your family can adopt me! lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

I like getting more for my money...if i take care of things they last just as long as something overpriced.

I like adopting new family members!

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. GardenGerty (22223)   ranked 747 out of 24,072 in people   11 months ago

Somewhat similar, somewhat different. My sibs and I are a little of both. My youngest sister is deceased. My oldest sister is a half sister. I would say that my younger sister, my brother, and I are alike we are all workaholics. My older sister is an excuseaholic. None of us are too proud to buy second hand. All of us have some kind of creative vision for our recycled treasures. My older sister, like my mom, holds on to "stuff" even when the stuff becomes trash or junk. I am cluttered, but I do not have to own things to feel wealthy. Sometimes the neediness is a sign of insecurity or a feeling that they lacked attention.


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

I hadnt thought of it as an insecurity...or lacking attention.

I hate feeling cluttered...I'm glad i dont like a ton of stuff around (i have garage sales to get rid of extra stuff of my own and other family members every spring i have fun doing it. Another thing my sister thinks is embarrassing.)

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. reinydawn (4234)   11 months ago

We're all kinda different - there are 5 of us, I have 2 brothers (one older and one younger) and 2 sisters (both younter). In some ways we're the same, but quite a bit of our tastes are different. Now, I did not live with my brothers and sisters from the timeI was 15 until my mid-twenties, but for our youngest years we were all raised the same.


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

I agree everyone is different i just have trouble with how different people can be and be raised by the same parents.

I could understand if my baby sister had such a vastly different attitude to money that my first sister has because shes 10 years younger than my 2nd sister (i have three sisters) and she is spoiled because shes the baby and the rest of us are adults...and we've almost lost her a few times to cancer so ...i can totally understand if she grows up with totally different attitudes...but the other one puzzles me lol.


myLot reputation of 99/100. reinydawn (4234)  11 months ago

You know, this got me to thinking about my sons... They were raised the same, they're close in age, had most of the same experiences and they've always pretty much been like night and day. One was always a saver, one was always a spender. One loves education, the other could care less about it... I have no idea why they're so different either.


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

I guess it always surprises me ( i know people are different) how two people from the same family can have such different values about things like money or even religion.


myLot reputation of 99/100. reinydawn (4234)  11 months ago

I guess it's a classic case of nature vs nurture.

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. crazyredhead (461)   ranked 2,676 out of 24,072 in people   11 months ago

I always found a correlation between the way the people were raised and how they viewed clothes and other such things so this is an interesting story for me. My only other sibling is a 8 year old little brother (I am 19) so I don't really know how to compare but it's interesting to know that you and your other two sisters are more alike where as this one sister sticks out as a very "gotta be new and expensive" person.


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

I just find it so odd that 3 of the 4 of us are so similar in that respect and then shes way different.

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. prinzcy (2169)   ranked 4,421 out of 24,072 in people   11 months ago

I am different from my younger sister. Our looks are different. I am the one with big eyes while she inherited beautiful chinese looks from my mom. I am always jealous of her straight hair while I have wavy hair. She is so skill with massaging while I can only make people laugh when I touch them. But I win over with cooking skills thumbup. Despite that we have the same hobby : collecting stuffs.


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

Thats the other thing with the one sister...the rest of us are blond haired and blue eyed like our dad. She is like our mom...actually looks VERY much like our mom did at her age. Shes also a terrible cook (her husband got her a fire alarm for and extinguisher for christmas as a joke)

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10. chastity7 (73)   ranked 5,549 out of 24,072 in people   11 months ago

All siblings are different. My sisters and I do share alot of similar interests, but we have alot of differences too. I'm more the shy, softspoken one, my older sister is more of a hellion, and my oldest sister is just kinda her own person. We all have different traits and qualities that make us who we are. I think that life experiences and the events that take place in our lifes shape us and our personalities, so the fact that you were probably more similar growing up is because you were in the same environment, exposed to the same elements everyday, but as you get older and you grow and mature, and go through whatever life experiences you do, that all shapes you into who you are now.


myLot reputation of 99/100. saundyl (4449)   ranked 49 out of 24,072 in people  11 months ago

That makes alot of sense - thanks!

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