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which hurts the most the TRUTH or the LIE? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life8 months ago

Well for me i can leave with the truth no matter how painful it gets but I can never leave with the lie.... I am not perfect person and I may not always say the truth by not answering when asked. For me it's better to keep silent then answer with a lie. How about you my friend which does hurt you the most the truth of the lie?

 
 
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11. myLot reputation of 98/100. tattylashes (4295)   ranked 33 out of 38,443 in life   8 months ago

i think they are a sequal as each other, lying can hurt and hearing the truth can hurt too...silence is golden


myLot reputation of 78/100. eyeneed30Gs (766)   ranked 5,076 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

yEAH.


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

well yeah thats why sometimes silence is important sometimes so no one get hurts.....

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12. myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4747)   ranked 699 out of 38,443 in life   8 months ago

I think both hurts. Because whenever there's a lie, the truth needs to be told and then the truth would hurt. I love complicated questions like this. It forms snippets of real life. cool


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

Well for me lie hurts for in truth you can only get hurt once but with lie you get to hurt twice first you got hurt with the lie then after that with the truth so much better to tell the truth. Truth always prevail my friend.


myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4747)   ranked 699 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

I totally agree with you, especially the last part.

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13. myLot reputation of 78/100. eyeneed30Gs (766)   ranked 5,076 out of 38,443 in life   8 months ago

The LIE.


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

lol w00tok short reply from you thanks

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14. myLot reputation of 39/100. kdmlrys (257)   ranked 8,432 out of 38,443 in life   8 months ago

First of all, I want to say that this is a very noteworthy discussion - nice one!

I think the truth hurts the most. Some people tend to lie because they knew that the truth will hurt someone. That's probably one of the main reasons why people lie anyway.

On the other hand, lying is a sin though haha.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mylesnarvaez (1628)   ranked 641 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

well, it's one or the other... as you say... the truth can perhaps hurt someone else more but it's the lie that will eventually hurt us. hehe nice one.:)

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myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

well lets put it that way then but whats the purpose of lying if it would only hurt the person if truth would hurt that person we should be ready to take the consequences of it ..... but in a way you have a point though but still better be silent though..lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. mylesnarvaez (1628)   ranked 641 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

a matter of timing and the tactic of delaying... hehehe

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15. cjmaltby (32)   ranked 16,515 out of 38,443 in life   8 months ago

they say that it's ok to tell a lie if it's for the best of intention's but i don't believe that, i think that a lie lead's to another, then your telling 1 lie after another, so why start, just tell the truth it does help in the long run....


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

yeah I too dont believe that, and saying lie would only means you dont have trust on the other person......

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16. myLot reputation of 95/100. BlueAngelRS (585)   ranked 139 out of 38,443 in life   8 months ago

As much as the truth can hurt sometimes...I honestly believe that lies hurt worse...I just recently found out that my ex husband pretty much lied to me for our entire relationship and still to this day will not tell me the truth...That hurts worse to find out that it ment nothing to him as it did to me! That's just my opinion!


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

yeah it does hurts the most you get hurt first with the lie then after knowing the truth you also get hurt and whats worst is you will feel that that person dont trust you coz he tell you lies ......

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17. iamquitespecial (3)   8 months ago

silence is the best weapon, but if something has to be said, truth would hurt lesser than the lie


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

very concise my friend but thats for a fact.....I totally agree with what you say.

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18. myLot reputation of 81/100. pickoy (593)   ranked 3,218 out of 38,443 in life   8 months ago

Both hurt as much if the are hidden from you. An adopted child gets hurt once he learned that he's adopted(although i can't understand that kind of attitude) and its because it was hidden from him for a very long time. A wife gets hurt when a husband is cheating, he lies about stuff coz he's hiding something.

At some circumstances lies can hurt more, if a guy lies - denying that he loves you when in fact he did but he marries someone else(although this is bizarre occurrence) and then you learn the truth... a person is hurt when he learns the truth that he lies! He is not hurt of the truth but because of the lie.

A person who has about a day to live will be hurt to learn the truth from a doctor. He'll realize its not in the hands of the doctor and somehow it helps not to know those stuff so the person won't be discouraged. For some, they use the new information to change their attitude(although i don't agree that people should only change when they came to know they only have a few hours to live coz the change should be taken every waking hour.)


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

there are lots of circumstances in which truth would hurt as an initial reaction to it,but thats much better than to suffer the long consequences of the lie that one makes....

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19. myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1418)   ranked 822 out of 38,443 in life   8 months ago

The truth hurts all the time but its better than a lie. Lies usually dont hurt as they are a way of getting out of a problem but not the wise choice. I for one cannot stand a person who lies.. I would rather feel pain in truth than feel fine with a lie..


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

lie hurts my friend when you found out about the lie.....

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20. myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 789 out of 38,443 in life   8 months ago

It depends on the situation.
Situation 1: A guy who is a witness of a murder, tells a lie in a court then that hurts.

Situation 2: A guy love a girl but didn't propose her yet. On the other hand girl thinks that the guys is just a friend and loves another guy. One day he propses to her. Now, if that girl tells a truth, then that hurts.

So, situational truth or lie, both hurts and both give pleasure but most of the time please stick to truth becaues most of the time Truth wins over lie!


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

yeah sanu it's still good to stick with the truth.....I would rather be hurt with the truth than to be hurt and a lie......


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 789 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

So,you want to hear a truth or lie from my mouth?


myLot reputation of 97/100. HelScream (709)   ranked 857 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

I always appreciate your honesty sanu and you are good at it thats why I admire your frankness ever since I started here at mylot keep it up w00t


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 789 out of 38,443 in life  8 months ago

Well, this time, I am like feeling really honored my friend. Thatnk you very much

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