Starting My Life Over Again  

Awww Thank you sweetie...but really I am doing fine. Iam staying with my son right now til I can find some work which I should be starting a new job next week. And then I got to find a new place to live. but like I said it might as well be for the best..he was 35 and I am 46 and he was always saying that he was never getting married again and I think that at some point in my life that is left I might want to get married again if I really find the right person to spend the rest of my life with. And as for the bed not a big deal I can get a new one which I think after shareing it with him a new one would be best also...new start, new life, new bed, with a new man...hehe. and if you live closer i would come visit you I can use a vacation..lol.

Your sooooo right hun ... new bed, new man, new life! I really admire your outlook on all of this, and I'm so proud of you for not letting him get you down! That's great that your staying with your son too! Good luck with the new job too hun :)
Luv Ya Lots, PurpleTeddyBear xx

Thank you and yes I will not let it get me down...I learned a long time ago that men are not worth crying over...Poor sap though wont find anyone else to treat him like a king like I did and that is what's so funny.

Absence makes the heart fonder. He might be kicking himself hard right now.

Well I hope he is kicking himself all the way to the curb...Hey Lord how ya been doing.

I agree I dont think I want the bed either it was just the point that he kept it. And yes I learned from my second husband that to never share a bank account with a man ever. I also had some money saved. I did babysit for a girl during the week when I was with him so I did have my own money. I think the hardest part is that I just loved his girls so much and they now act like they dont even know me, heck they even took me off of their MySpace pages and wont even talk to me.

I agree that it wasn't really him keeping the bed ... it was more the principal of why he felt it was "owed" to him! I am so sorry to hear that his girls are ignoring you now and won't talk to you!

Oh heck he quit talking to me about a week before he sat my stuff out...and he got off work at 3:30pm but would not come home til around 5pm when his mommy got off work...he would be right behind her coming home and then he got to where he was not coming home til around 12am when his dad got home from work..it was like he didnt want to be alone with me in the house. He just though I was stupid and didnt know what was going on but I knew it was coming.. just didnt think he would just trun his back on me like he did.

Awww hun I am sorry to hear about you and your husband also...I thank god that I didnt marry this one...It just shocked me that he didnt want to be with me because I didnt have a job but heck I have not worked in two years..Most that know me here know that two years ago I fell and dislocated my elbow really really bad and it put me off work for sometime...and when he said he was leaving me because I didnt have a job it was all I could do to not bust him in the mouth...you know what I mean...lol.

Oh no..when a man makes his mind up to leave me that is it..there is no coming back...sorry about his luck and I hope he rots in He!l..hehe. I am not one to put myself back into the frying pan twice. No take backs here hun. I must be something in the air right now..I have one friend on one of my sites that her husband of 20 years told her a few months back that he was leaving her...20 years..I think I would of just beat that man to peices.

good to hear. you seem like a strong woman. 20 yrs is a long time my aunt just had that happen, I'm just glad shes young enough to start over and now she can have kids.

Well he wont belong with me anymore when he does realize what he done. He can keep on trucking.

Well if he would of just talked to me instead of running like a baby I might of got a job...but he just turned his back on me and said nothing. He was not even going to tell me he was leaving me and that we were done..I had to pry it out of him. And yes he is a jerk.

Oh yea fun it is for me...life is to short not to...hehe. I learned to be strong with my first husband..10 years of being beat on and cheated on you learn real quick to be strong.

Oh hugs to your mom...Wow if my ex boyfriend would of went to work and not come home and then emailed me I think I would of been out on a man hunt for him and give him a good old fashion beat down.

What the hell is your problem? Get a load of yourself you scum bag!! She LOST her job and was trying to find another one!! Besides, money should NEVER and I repeat, NEVER be a reason to kick someone out and keep their belongings!! How dare you come on here and tell her that!! Why don't you go on somewhere else because with that type of comments, you're so NOT welcomed here!

You tell him...For your info Super2Cool..I might not of had a job job but I didnt babysit every morning for a lady and had some money coming in...He only said that he was leaving because I didnt have a job to make him self look good and his mommy...and not only that the whole time I was off work these past two years I had money coming in from my kids dad on back support and was supporting him when he was not working...but he!l if I would of thought to throw him out...He just dont have any money because he pays alot of support on his kids which is not my fault or my problem to pay...I didnt tell him to get married have kids and then get divoriced...so even if I had a job I would be making much more then him anyway because I worked as a C.N.A and here they make great money...So I would of been supporting him.. and he was a I want kind of guy always wanting something but never had the money to get it...So shame on you.

Great job telling him off CatsandDogs...XXOO

Yea blood is thicker then water...and the thing that makes me mad the most is that we lived with his dad for the past year and I cleaned the house and picked up after his dad and did his dad's dishes all the time...the man didnt do anything for himself...and got no thanks for any of it but to be booted out to the streets.

and two weeks before he broke up with me we even went and looked at this one trailer to move into and guess what his mommy went and paid a little over 7,000 dollars for it so that he can move into it and even told the landlords that owned it..that I was not to be at that trailer because she was not paying for a roof over my head...and I never did anything wrong to his mom but been nice to her.

Sounds like you and I, unfortunately, got involved with similar families. I hope, when you put all this behind you, and your life settles down again, you, like me, can say, "well, thank God for that," and live in peace nd happiness. Good luck!

Yep I am not moving anyone in for a long time with me again...XXOO

Good for you. Stay focused and strong, and you will find happiness.