Are you irritated by narrow minded people?  |
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| I am so easily frustrated by people who have such a narrow view of the world! I hate people that can't see out of the small world that they live in or open up their mind to other views. I know that I'm fairly opinionated but if someone has an opinion that contradicts mine I will listen and take it on board. I might not necessarily agree but I wll at least give someone else a chance to explain how they feel. I'm also open to trying new ideas or having a go at something I've never done before. The reason I'm so frustrated now is that I went to see a new piece of theatre tonight with a friend. He was cross because it was a dance piece. He didn't even give it a chance! He'd decided he'd hated it before he went in and once we came out he wouldn't say anything but "I hated it" now ok he might not have enjoyed it anyway, but he'd decided he wouldn't like it before he even saw any of it. Do you get annoyed by things like this? | | | | | |
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1. lenamariee (236)
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3 years ago
| | Yes. Honestly someone could be the best looking person and them just being close minded could be a turn off. Im also like you, Im opinionated, but if someone has a different opinion I definately hear them out, and actually a few times hearing it from someone else has made me change my opinion of something. I cannot see the point in being close minded like that, because if your friend had gone in with an open mind, he actually may have liked it and had a good time. | | | | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | That's what I thought but I guess it's too late no, and he will just go on unappreciating it! | | | |
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2. Sandra1952 (3179)
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3 years ago
| | Life is just too short not to open your heart and your mind to new experiences, people and emotions. Don't be irritated with your friend - feel sorry that he feels so insecure that he has to have his opinion ready before it's even asked for! He's missing such a lot in life, but the sorry thing is, he doesn't even realise it. | | | | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | That's a very good point. Thanks for sharing! | | | |
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3. Flirtykumquat (550)
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3 years ago
| | I totally understand where you are coming from. My mom raised me to never discourage anyone or anything. Just because I don't agree with something doesn't mean it is wrong. I think a lot of parents in these small hick towns hide their children from reality and the children aren't exposed to anything and when they finally are exposed it is like a whole new world. | | | | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | This is so true! To wrap kids up in cotton wool when they are yong will mean that they just won't understand how important new experiences are in later life. | | | |
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4. dodo19 (9050)
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3 years ago
| | Yes, I do get easily frustrated by narrow minded people. It's very frustrating and annoying to try to get your ideas, your thoughts, your point of view across, when you're talking to a narrow minded person. They are unwilling to see or hear anything other than their own point of view, and such, especially if sometimes their arguments aren't always backed up by facts. | | | | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | That's even worse when they haven't got facts to back up what they are saying but still won't listen to your point of view. Makes me very angry! | | | |
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robert67 (1340)
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3 years ago
| | oh i forgot to add that racists and people who will not tolearte people just because they are foreign really irritate me, they need to be educated and they need to travel, basically just get a life! | | | |
marcyyyy (284)
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3 years ago
| | I'm with you Robert...I've travelled to other countries, states, and it really does open your mind...it makes you realize everybody doesn't think like we do! I also hate it when you tell someone about a food, or book, or something you really enjoyed...and they look at you like you're wrong...there's no right or wrong, we're just all different. It would be so boring to be the same! I feel the same way about guys that you feel about narrow-minded women. No matter how great a guy looks, his whole attitude could change that look to ugly. Keep travelling, reading and learning about other people in this world!! | | | |
robert67 (1340)
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3 years ago
| | i totally agree, very well said. | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | Thank you for sharing and I completely agree. I love being different, I dye my hair pink, I wear colours that don't go together, I wear odd shoes and people will come up to me in the street and tell me I look stupid. All I can think is, open your mind and be comfortable in something! Wearing the latest fashions make you look like everyone else. Accept being an individual and enjoy it! | | | |
robert67 (1340)
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3 years ago
| | you are absolutely right. too many people like to blend in or agree with everyone just to be popular. i always like to do what makes me happy and i always give an honest opinion. | | | |
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6. monkeywriter (1950)
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3 years ago
| | I have always thought I had a more open mind then say my parents. All kinds of things from peoples choices in life, to movies and such. My parents dont think tattoos are great, but I want and will get one this year. They are against most people who arent "straight" but I am okay with them. Stuff like that. They hate "R" rated most movies I am okay if its not that bad in the area of just being about language and violence (not bad) and not other areas. So I always hate people who think they are all that and only go with what others think and in the end are truly narrow minded. Narrow minded people suck. Be more open, you might find you like it. Sorry you didnt get to see that dance piece :( | | | | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | I think that's a good point, often younger generations are more open minded on certain topics. With me and my parents it's piercings, they hate them and I have 12 of them. But on the other hand I think a younger generation can be very narrow minded about topics their parents might be more open about, younger people seem to feel the need nowadays to use violence as a solution to everything when older people might at least discuss issues with each other. | | | |
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7. bing28 (2525)
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3 years ago
| | Yes we can't help getting irritated by narrow minded people but sometimes we can't do anything but understand them in order for us not to get upset. We're able to know them at least of being narrow minded so next time we won't avail ourselves to them, so our time won't be wasted and just spend it with others. | | | | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | That is true. I wouldn't bother having a deep conversation with someone I knew was narrow minded as they wouldn't bother listening to what I thought. | | | |
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8. tracydee (116)
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3 years ago
| | Yes I am irritated with narrow minded people. I always encounter a narrow minded person at home because my younger brother is one of them. He is so picky with food that even if he didn't taste it yet, he would immediately conclude that it doesn't taste good and he will not eat at all. Narrow minded people fail to understand. My brother and I sometimes end up with a conflict and I really find it difficult for him to understand. He is already turning fifteen so I guess he is at the right age of realizing things. | | | | | | |
marcyyyy (284)
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3 years ago
| | Hi! Your brother reminded me of when I was little...I wouldn't try new food if you paid me! But now, many many years later, I'll try a new food just to give it a chance. I always hated fish as a kid, but now I really love it! Some people still say, yuk, how can you even try to eat that, but how do you know unless you do try? He'll grow up and learn...however, I still hate vegetables! But I eat them cos our bodies need them. lol | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | Food is one of the big things I hate people being narrow minded about. Why can't people just try it before forming an opinion. I hate it when I'm about to eat something and someone goes "eurgh that looks disgusting" Don't put me off my food just because you wouldn't eat it! | | | |
robert67 (1340)
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3 years ago
| | good piont. i hate when people wont try something different in a restaurant. they ask for your advice, when you recommend something they screw their face up and say "i wont touch foreign food" or "i might not like that." grrrrrrrrrrr! why ask someone for advice if you're going to just criticise it? | | | |
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9. CRIVAS (1625)
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3 years ago
| | I can't stand it when someone is close minded. It just means that they will miss out on all the great things that life has to offer. My grandmother once told me that it is important to try everything once or you'll regret it. She used to tell me that the worst thing that would happen would be that I wouldn't like it, in which case I didn't have to do it again. I think that when a person closes themselves off that way, the miss out on some many new, intersting and inspiring things. Personally I love trying new things and never say no. Besides I would much rather try something and say that I didn't like it, then to never try it and always wonder what it would be like. I guess some people just can't handle it though and that they are content to wallow in the boring routine of their day to day lives. Personally I love fun and adventure, that is why when my husband suggested that we try 4x4ing I went and I loved it. Now I have a quad and I can't wait to get out on the trail with it again. I never would have know what it was like if I hadn't tried and I would have missed out on so much. It is good to know that you feel the same. | | | | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | I feel the same way. If you don't try something you don't know how big an impact it could have on your life! I remember being petrified of joining the local youth theatre on my first day but now I'm doing a drama degree. If I hadn't tried that I definately wouldn't be doing this degree now! | | | |
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10. JDy116 (1718)
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3 years ago
| | Yeah, but I'm not too sure of myself if I am being narrow minded too. Maybe he has reasons for hating the show. Things like that may or may not annoy me depending how I'm feeling about situation, or depending state of my mind. Things that really annoy me are narrow minded people that are losers. Those that put others down because of the things they don't know, they gave up, or just can't do. | | | | | | |
beachstarz (908)
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3 years ago
| | I try to stay away from people who are narrow minded . Those who are negetive , judgemental, or snobbish are frustrating and just drain me . I don't feel good being around those type of people . Id much rather be around people who are upbeat , up lifting, positive, and open minded. | | | |
beki710 (570)
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3 years ago
| | I agree, a lot of narrowminded people are that way because they don't know or they are scared and for me personallty that's not the kind of person I really wanna hang around with. | | | |
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