Should I let go or not?!

He might say it is nothing, so why does he not want to stop. If he realy love you he would not flirt with other women. Pack your bags and go. You are waisting your time in a relationship that is bound for disaster. While you are waisting your time, you are missing out on some great time with other peole, and maybe the one that will truly love you will cross your path. Whoie you are still with this guy in this anstable relationship, you might not meet mr. right.

Why do people stay in an unstable relationship? Are relationships not ment to be fun and fulfilling? You are supposed to be happy, not just have times of happiness.

I repeat, pack your bags and GO!!!!!!!!!!
I wish you the best

I think your boyfriend should at least take your feelings into consideration. Since he already knows how uncomfortable you are with this, he should just stop texting the other person. You don't have to be flirty to be textmates. You can be textmates without the flirting. What kind of messages did you see, if you don't mind my asking. Maybe you just misunderstood them as flirty though they really weren't.

I would have a heart to heart with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. If he still refuses to do something about the problem I think as painful as it is you might have to let him go. I am in a simlar type situation with my bf. It's not flirting per se just the number of relatively close female friends that he has. It bothers me quite a bit, plus he does not want to acknowledge our relationship to everyone. I'm not sure what is going to transpire with this, it's not healthy the way it is. It does sound like your bf is trying to reassure you though, it's more than mine would do. I would weigh the pros and cons. You might want to give it some time and see what happens.

Relationships are not just physical, they are emotional as well. I believe a person can commit emotional adultery also. Only you know what this is. Sometimes people are so needy that they smother the other person and imagine things that are going on when they are not. If you are trying to get your happiness from someone else and you are not happy inside, there will always be problems. This weekend, we rented a most amazing DVD from our local video store. It is called "The Secret." It is not a regular movie but a documentary that will help you with all of this. You can go to http://www.thesecret.tv/ to get an idea of what this is. This has really lifted up our whole family and I think it could also help you. We have committed to watching this at least twice a day until we have to return it. My daughter ordered a copy and we should get it in the mail early this coming week. It takes 30 days to turn some of our thinking around. I plan to give it a try.

Is he flirting back with them, or are they just flirting with him?
If he's not flirting back, it's fine.
If he is, then break up with him now.

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Better to let go. If he comes back to you then he's yours. (just a suggestion)

In my opinion if he really cares about you and your feeling he shouldn't have doing the texting, and he probably knew that. What's matter the most that it hurts you and he must take action about that. He should respect your feeling if he loves you.

Cheers.

Take it easy, there are probably other ways to check your bf's love for you. But still, he may love you and he is trying to create an outside chance of having a fling with somebody. Sorry to say this, even though I am a man, still I should say this, some men are like that. He may not leave you, but he would try and have fun outside as well. Now it's up to you on how you view that?

You are so lucky! Your bf is admired by that textmate. She is flirting with him because he is a desirable male. You better get your act together and begin to appreciate him. To him, that textmate is just another envious woman, but if you give him a hard time about it, me might just take the other woman up, because She Appreciates him (and you do not!) Get over it, and start believing in your good luck!

It doesn't sound like he is taking your feelings into consideration. If he really loves you then he would stop texting these women. Why won't he stop? For example, one of my old online friends who I haven't talked to in forever started to IM me again. Of course i told my boyfriend, but when my friend started to show more interest than being just a friend, my boyfriend asked me to stop talking to him because it make him uncomfortable. I warned my friend that if he didn't stop hinting at more than being just friends I will block him. It went well for a week and my bf knew what was happening because I didn't have anything to hide...well then he went back to his old ways and I blocked him because he wasn't going to give up and I wasn't going to let it get between our relationship...why can't your boyfriend do that if he really loves you?