Should I let go or not?!

The ability to text people is actually one of the best ways for a partner to hide an affair.

Now, the interesting thing is he let you use and handle his cell phone. That doesn't sound like someone who is hiding something but the fact that he thinks the texts are harmless fun is actually inconsiderate of your feelings. He's not empathizing with you.

You're going to have to tell him, Marie. Make sure you approach the subject when things are okay in the evening and you are just sharing thoughts with each other.

Regards,

Libby

A textmate? Hmm... This is weird to me. It is just up to you whether or not he is worth trusting or not. You could ask him how he would feel if you had a boy textmate. Kinda give him a taste of his own medicine.

Let me share with you what I have read from Kuya Rene's book on Spiritual Reality (Rene Mariano is a well-known psychic in the Philippines - www.renemariano.net Philippine tel. no. 632-8436346. He said "Be like little children in your relationship. Talk jokingly once in a while, this is for you two to have laughing moments together. When hot tempers arise, give space to one another or become silent together to feel the presence of God. Never argue with your mate. What is the use of winning an argument, if this would unconsciously create an enemy of your loved one? Being silent and just to caress afterwards, or being calm and be a part awhile is a lot better than being with each other, and having an angry discussion." I hope this will help you. Good day!

Many relationship has been destroyed because of texting.
Some people enter in to a relationship by means of texting.
Let it go for the time being. If I were you I will call those
girls and ask them the real score.