I screwed up big time...HELP

DUDE SLOW DOWN!!!!u havent done absolutely anything wrong.if ur worried about losing a friend, u wont.if u hinted towards it, so what?it is the truth right?
i mean when was the last time u decided to break friendship with some1 just because she hinted liking u.if she hints back,good.if not,still good.ur jackass friend is just probably jelous.u didnt do anything wrong.u just did something u shoudve done a long time ago.

cheers

hey djemba how are you it's been quite some time since I last see you here
well need not worry about a single thing there You have done the right thing of telling her how you feel if she wont answer our call then let it be it's not your loss at all but if she ignores you and avoid you that only means she doesnt share the same feeling as you do and all you could do is accept the fact that she is not meant for you....
If she is mature enough then she would say and try to talk to you in a couple of days just give her time to think what you have told her, thats what she need for now but if she chooses to ignore you permanently then she is not yet ready for the things you have told her the best thing you can do if this things happen is try to bring back the friendship once you have with her.. Good luck..

I think you better give the girl some time and space before you try to start all over again. This time you have to start with friendship. Sometimes, its not very believable for girls to hear that a certain guy, who never asked her out, never really got to know her, would actually have a crush on her. Hope that it will all turn on ok, we all have our "oops!" moments

Sorry mate, you actually did wrong..

Never ever imply such stuff through phone, just be sure to be face to face to see every single reaction of her while you talk.

so this way, you can know what to say, how to continue, because you can observe her attitude.

take your time, let her think about it for a while, do not call back right now.Do not seem like you are hitting really hard on her, let her breathe and after a while ask her out, or at least arrange a group meeting with some other common friends of yours.

I hope you sort yourself out soon. Cheers!!

Maybe you should just call her and be honest about how you feel and ask her out. Tell her you really like her and want to go out sometime. I think honesty is the best way to go on this one.

You've done exactly the same thing I would have done mate.
But you seem to have gone a little awry. Even I am a shy guy, and the girl I had a crush on eventually went away from me, nut that was due to two other reasons:
1. My friend went and told her what I felt for her.
2. She had a boy-friend. (that explained a lot)
Your situation might be different. Just don't do anything in a hurry, cos that could cause a serious problem.
Wait for her response. If she doesn't do anything, then just try to become her friend or something.
Best of luck

yeah slow down, next you talk to her just ask her out to a movie or something.

Yeah i think the above comments state exactly what you should do and i hope everything works out okay for you. Best of luck in your quest!

Hi djemba! The truth will set you free!

Tell her how you feel. Give her time to digest it. Make it clear to her what your intentions are. But you have to be ready, she might like it, she might not... If she does, then good for you! If she wants to remain as "friends", then stay, and be a friend to her. Nothing beats that.=)

Good luck!