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Some Mylot member asked me to change my AVATAR. Shoud i? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 96/100. daryljane (1328)   ranked 1,590 out of 19,534 in questions & answers7 months ago

When i opened my page to day, i recieved a msg from another mylot member asking me to change my avatar. The reason is: He doesnt like it. I know the photo is a bit off, but not that OFF... besides thats what picture i like.

Right now, I inverted the colors of the picture but its still same. Its not like im inviting something on the picture. I an making any invitation, i should have posted something like that.

If someone emails you with that, would you change the picture or do things your way. I might bring that old picture back, im just using this one right now and see some of mylotters opinion.

 
 
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tags:  avatar, freedom of expression, expression, mylot, picture
 
1. myLot reputation of 92/100. learn2earn (11086)   ranked 2,945 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Well, we can choose to learn from others or insist on what we want. The best thing is to evaluate why others suggested a change. And if the reason is good enough, as long as it doesn't hurt us, then it's for our own good. Who knows, that member who suggested you to change might respond to all your discussions the moment you changed your avatar. Uuuyyy!lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10900)   ranked 2,555 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

OUr aviators express who we are...right? Do we really want to advice people to change who they really are in order to be accepted? I personally don't find it offensive. It makes a statement I think.


myLot reputation of 96/100. daryljane (1328)   ranked 1,590 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

and indeed it made a statement by itself..ive been getting nice comment about that on my other discussions.

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2. myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

i would tell them, not very nicely, that its my avatar and if they don't like it, they can not look at at.


myLot reputation of 93/100. mike197601 (2867)   ranked 530 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

She means tell them to f**k off!!


myLot reputation of 93/100. mike197601 (2867)   ranked 530 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

DJ forced me to say the f word..sorry!
F Y lol etc.


myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10900)   ranked 2,555 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

lol


myLot reputation of 60/100. darkjedi1 (752)   ranked 4,266 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

lol um no I didnt.


myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

thats because dj's a very bad influence. whistle

oh, hi dj, love you:)


myLot reputation of 60/100. darkjedi1 (752)   ranked 4,266 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Lol.


Oh yeah I can be:D

Love you too:D


myLot reputation of 96/100. daryljane (1328)   ranked 1,590 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

so, how do i realy say it nicely then? lols! thanks guys!

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. mama_bear (599)   ranked 423 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

well until and unless mylot tells you to take that picture down, you have every right to have it there. if it offends their delicate sensibilities then they must look at it or interact with you. what right do they have, last i checked we still are allowed freedom of expression. ignore this tool, they cannot tell you what to do. if it offends then like i said they need to just move on along and stop being a control freak. besides the body is nothing to be ashamed off, nude or not hah!


myLot reputation of 96/100. daryljane (1328)   ranked 1,590 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

exactly! before i put that avatar, i made sure to check on mylot terms and i think im still within the line. thats what im thinking also. beside getting a lot of comment that my avatar is OK, he is the only who really emailed me about it.

Thanks for the shedding some light.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mama_bear (599)   ranked 423 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

he must take his silly prudish self elsewhere pssh

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. clutterbug (821)   ranked 3,307 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Maybe that mylot member wanted the hands removed out of the picture because he\she is a sicko.


myLot reputation of 96/100. daryljane (1328)   ranked 1,590 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

rasp you think so? i wonder what its like to get those hands off..thats way nasty right? but then its still hiding it. not for the world to see. LOLS!lol

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5. myLot reputation of 80/100. Idlewild (4727)   ranked 5,516 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

It's your avatar, so I don't see why you should change it. I'm sure there are plenty of avatars that some people like more than others, but it's odd that someone would actually ask you to change yours.

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6. myLot reputation of 81/100. phifer (333)   ranked 7,685 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

its one of those things that you really don't have to but you can. i could understand if it was some thing bad, but its not. i can understand why some people are asking you to change it, but its not showing any thing. I've seen worst images on here they your avatar. personally i wouldn't change it unless the creator of mylot say that you have to change it. its kind of cool that you turned it into a negative colored image.


myLot reputation of 96/100. daryljane (1328)   ranked 1,590 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Actually, Its been there for couple of weeks now. If mylot disagrees with the photo i should have gotten an email already, but i didnt. and thats what i said, its not even showing anything. It will be way nasty if theres not hands in it. And ive seen a lot here in mylot then my avatar.

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7. myLot reputation of 84/100. dogsnme (598)   ranked 1,536 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Your avatar doesn't bother me. As long as the admins of mylot don't have a problem with it then I say keep it. After all, you can't make everyone happy.

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8. myLot reputation of 79/100. spalladino (9074)   ranked 81 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I don't think anyone has a valid reason for asking you to change your avatar. If they don't like it, they don't have to look at it. The avatar any member chooses is a personal choice and you have as might of a right to express yourself as anyone else here has.

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. eileenleyva (821)   ranked 1,333 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Sometimes criticisms are for the better. If you are up to it, try experimenting with better avatars. Might work magic. But somewhere you must have one distinctly your own. Then let no one make you change it anymore.


myLot reputation of 96/100. daryljane (1328)   ranked 1,590 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Im really open to critisms and suggestions, but the way im told to change it is a bit offensive. besides, i really like that picture, theres some art in it. So i inverted the picture, maybe it will be get diff opinion.


myLot reputation of 93/100. eileenleyva (821)   ranked 1,333 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Difficult to please everyone. Sometimes comments and criticisms hit below the belt. Toughen up a little bit. Don't allow anyone to get under your skin, especially those who bully.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. GardenGerty (20576)   ranked 18 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I do not care for your avatar, there are others I do not like either. This is a family type website. Young people can be on here.That is not appropriate for them to look at. I was not going to say anything, but since you ask, I am telling you that in my opinion it is inappropriate for this site. I would never have put it up in the first place, so I would never have to be asked by someone else to take it down.

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