I have a big Task this week

i am so sorry to hear about what is happening to your daughter gabs... i think what the person does to your daughter can be considered as verbal abuse and she can report it to her superior in her workplace... i know how i will feel too if i am the mother even though i am not a mum yet... i wish you all the best... hope your daughter will feel better soon... i'm sure she will with the love she has around her... good luck... take care and have a nice day...

Hey gabs, I'm so sorry that your daughter is feeling so badly.
I have been hurt like that by someone before out of nowhere
too! People are sometimes so cruel and for no real reason!
They will be nice to you as long as it suits them and that's
it! This happened to me twice that I can remember, but I
don't actually remember the whole stories because it was a
very long time ago and I obviously put it out of my mind because
it was painful. I have learned as I go older that you have to
just not let people get to you and allow them to take up that
much space in your head or heart. I know that your daughter is
really hurt now, but hopefully you can convince her that this
person isn't worth the time or her feeling so bad about! If
she doesn't want to be her friend, then she doesn't need her
and she will find other people to make friends with who are
better then this person! No one should be allowed to hurt
someone and get away with it so your daughter needs to show
this person that she doesn't need her friendship. She has to
go back there and be strong and ignore this miserable beotch!
Hugs to you gabs, I know as a Mum you will make it all better!

my girl have a big challenge and have a bad experience on making a lover,i think such this thing like this is not put this thing on your soul, let the thing come and let the thing go,all thing should be done by your daughter herself to do. only thorough this process, your daughter can be dependence by her own power. whatever difficulties she meet with, she must solve out with her own ability, working problem or the emotion sides of her own, these sides of her rounds should be dealed with by her own, you can give some advice or some value suggestion on her idea or behavior, and please do not do instead of her doing, let she to make a clear idea that she should answer for her behavior and deeds or languages,later, i think these potential ideas make her into responsibility people.the people some time should face the difficult things and frustration on the emotional things, and the very difficult thing that she have met with ever before. these processdures can make her eyes open all world things,and become a growed-up man.

Thankfully, my kids are still pretty much at the age where I can hold them and make it all better with my love. My oldest has been hurt pretty bad before, and there are times when he stills has issues with it. My exhusbnad came into our lives when my oldest was only a few months old. He was the only real Daddy that my son knew. Well, when it went South in our relationship for good, my son ran to him, crying and said, "sassy, why do you have to leave?" that idiotic soory excuse for a man looked at my son after being his "Daddy" for 6 years and told him, "Boy, don't call me Daddy, I am NOT your Daddy!" What a JERK!! My son has a lot of trust issues even now with my current husband because of that. In his short almost 12 years of life, that is the second hurt that I was not able to take away and the only one ever inflicted by the harsh words of someone else.
I think that you are doing the right thing by trying to reassure your daughter that she is not like that at all. I don't think I could allow that person into my home after something like that, you are a bigger person than I am there.
I think that your daughter will get through this okay in time. It will take a lot of kind words from you and your family and friends to help get her through this, but I am certain you will do it.

I know how hard it is for you to see your daughter hurt. I get very upset when people try to hurt my daughter and the unfortunate thing is the main people who try to hurt her are her family, the ones I would expect to show love toward her. I have been very very surprised by my family when it comes to my daughter and now we just spend as little time with them as possible so as to keep down confusion. We have been meeting some very nice people lately and we spend our time with them and it is good. I don't want my daughter to stay in environment where she keeps getting her feelings hurt. I feel really bay for you and your daughter and i hope she is able to get over this very inconsiderate person.

Awww... poor Mel. She's a big, sensitive softie underneath, like you said, huh? I think I know which friend you're talking about and I can imagine why she's so upset about it all. They seemed to get on so well, and she promised you she'd make sure Mel was ok. Oh well... what with one thing and another, I suppose she's got a moody on, and might come out of it later, but best Mel moves on and tries to forget about what she said. Somebody that can hurt her so badly and not even flinch is not a true friend.

Brightest Blessings, love and hugggggggs, and a big (((((HUGGGGG))))) for Mel. xxx

I am so sorry that Mel has this person in her life. She probably expected someone reasonable and kind like you, and instead gets this kind of hatefulness. Maybe this friend is just in too much trouble of her own and is lashing out. I am glad that Mel has you, and vacation to look forward to. Your son is an excellent brother and you can be proud of him.

It's no excuse for treating your daughter that way, but my guess would be that your daughter was getting on her nerves and this person wasn't saying anything out of politeness and that eventually she just lost it. Which was totally wrong, if she had had a problem with your daughter she should have just said something, politely before it ever got to a blow up. But on the other hand, listening and helping out with problems is what a friend does. Doesn't sound like this person is much of a friend, more like an acquaintance who let things go farther than she was comfortable with. Your daughter didn't do anything wrong. How could she know the other person was bothered when she didn't even communicate it to her.

OK so much for my logical answer. Now for the emotional one. If it were my kid, I'd be wanting to go and give the witch a few pieces of my mind, after dispensing a LOT of hugs and ice cream and whatever it took to the daughter!