why aren't you married yet?!!!?????

I couldn't find for myself because I have much higher expectations about him.

hehehehe thats ok.you will find a boyfriend.

i dont ask self that question cause im very young to be marrying.im still in school.i have 3brothers and sisters to help take care of.i not have a boyfriend this time.=) i had one when in high school but now in college, no one.hehehe

good not to let what other person always say to you get inside your head.if you really want boyfriend,you will find one sooner or later.and get married=)
those other people only need to wait when you are ready and not force you to be marrying.
goodluck=)

I have two kids already and I am 27. I have a long-time parttime and we're not yet married basically because I don't belive that marriage is needed to make a baby, to make a relationship lasting or to make you happy and contended. Love is not a question becuse we've been together for quite sometime now but I don't wanna be pressured with that. We are both eligible but I just don't see and feel the need for marriage.
I don't get annoyed with that question though its always been a asked to me because this is my choice and I am not hurting anyone for staying single. My kids may be tagged as illegitimate but they are much fortunate than others because their parents are together and they see us functioning as one. Even if we are not married, we are and we will always be their parents anyway.

I can honestly say I never wantd to be married nor have I ever wnted to have a baby. I am happily single. I can eat when I want, sleep when I want and most importantly I can go to they gym as often as I feel like it. Maybe you should pray to God that if it is HIS WILL for you to have a boyfriend he will direct you to the right kind of man. Good luck.

People don't realize how this question can sound. Don't let them pressure you into feeling that you are any less of a person simply because you are single. I am divorced and have been single for years...wouldn't change it for the world. I love living on my own. I get bugged all the time about finding a man to live with or getting married again.....Sorry but NO!!! My cousin got married last year for the first time. She was 50. She is beautiful and just chose to take her time....develop her career. Her goal was not to get married....she just stumbled across the right guy for her. I think if you just live your life in a way that you are happy, you will find someone...not to make you happy but to share your happiness with.

Oh I get that all the time. All my friends are married have babies and the like. They always going on about when is it going to be your turn? I'll be 30 next year and I've been single for over six years now and I'm no rush to get married or have babies..

Nobody has said anything like that to me. Everyone knows why I am not married and popping out children; I make it well known, ha ha. This question has been posed to other people I know who are in college, trying to make a way for themselves, and maybe have different expectations and ambitions than settling down.

Hey bhabytart I just have the same problem with you! I'm 27 and don't have a boy friend yet! And people around me keep asking "Why aren't you married yet"...which drives me crazy. In the first few years after I graduated from college, I decided not to marry before 30 since I believed my career was much more important, and I didn't think I could take the responsibility that marriage would bring to me at that time. There were good guys but I missed in last years. And now I'm wondering whether I should insist on the non-marriage-before-30 plan...as it's too difficult to find a mr. right...I'm not sure if I can find him before 30 if I still focus on my career and spend most of my time on my job. Wish we both good luck!

I got married so young I have never heard that question. However I do think that anyone should have the choice to do what they want with their life. The right person will show up someday and then you will have the partner of your dreams.

hi,bhabytart
it seems, we have the same situation.lol...
but i'm only a little younger.haha...my parents will refer to this topic every time when i call back. but i found exercises every time.lol...
now, i enjoy the times of being single. the one i love and who also loves me has not appeared. so, just waiting....but i still have the schedule to get married before 30years old.
i believe every girl having boys pursuing.lol...