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myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken 3 years ago

A fourth grader in San Diego said this about how he liked to relax: “I like to play indoors better, ’cause that’s where all the electrical outlets are.” Apparently more and more US children and no doubt their counterparts in Europe and the rest of the world where there is easy and relatively cheap access to computers, TVs etc; are spending their time cooped up indoors. When I was a boy my mother liked us out of the house from breakfast to lunch and then on until tea time. Do we molly coddle our children? Are we terrified by media stories of crimes against children to the point that we'd sooner have them "plugged in" at home, than running free in the garden or fields? Of course we adults are just as wired to our electronic toys. But I do find it interesting that the Wii Fit game is taken seriously by some as a means of exercise.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (10631)   ranked 109 out of 1,107 in chicken   3 years ago

Yes I think we do coddle the kids too much now a day. People are so scared of leaving there children to play outside away from their home now. there are people out there that DO want to take our children more so Now than when I was a kid, I think anyway, or maybe we just hear about it more these days.
My sister has the WII system, with certain games for exercise, & she has lot many inches & 75 lbs. so far from doing WII every day for 2 hours. I want the system too for that reason, why not? exercise while playing a game/ heck yeah I want it...Lori


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

I don't know what it is Lori. My daughter was well into her teens before she stopped playing by appointment. I find it interesting that in only 20 or so years our society has become quite frightened of itself.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (10631)   ranked 109 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

P1ke sometimes I think it could just be laziness on the parents part also, they find it easier to keep track of teir kids if they are inthere room....Lori

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2. myLot reputation of 57/100. Improbability (128)   ranked 559 out of 1,107 in chicken   3 years ago

Wii Fit IS a means of exercise. How and why exactly wouldn't it be? Increased heart rate, energy expediature and muscle training and usage. That's exercise. What does it matter that it's done inside? You may value the outdoors greatly, but others don't. What is so wrong with wanting to be and play inside? It has nothing to do with parenting and "molly coddleing". Some of us just happen to value technology and computers, and have no need to be outside. As long as the kid is still developing socially and mentally, what does it matter?


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

So why be so defensive about being inside? I don't care whether you are inside or out, I am simply interested that our society has reached a point where we don't go outside unless we have to. What happens in a power cut?


myLot reputation of 57/100. Improbability (128)   ranked 559 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

Well not everyone is THAT obsessed with staying inside. I much rather be at a computer and I still take walks when it's nice out. And when the power is out my husband and I play board games, by candle light if needed, or read. I'm sorry for sounding defensive, I've had this arguement many times with my family. My sisters don't understand that my brother enjoys spending his time on his laptop. He still goes out with friends but they still give him grief for the time he spends on his laptop. That's where I was coming from. Defending my brother (and me, to a degree) again.

I think it's just a natural progression with technology that will increase as more and more kids are basically born knowing how to use Facebook. It's a part of their identity now.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

Interestingly (and erroneously I believe) the Head of the RC church in the UK has said that social network sites like Facebook, Myspace etc cause real harm to children and young people as they lose any sense of real friendship having cyber friends only. I am no expert, but almost all my own daughter's 600 odd friends are people that she has known in real life. I am 30 years older than her and have more cyber friends than she has. I was damaged long before such things were even thought about!

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. Irishfrndly65 (8534)   3 years ago

LOL, I'm laughing because of how my son came back in the house this morning. We live rurally, as you well know. He didn't want to put any clothes on this morning. He wanted to go out back, with his dog, in his underwear. I told him, "I don't care if you go out there naked, just go play". He started giggling when I said, "naked". So...in a couple of hours of in and out, he comes back in pretty much looking like PigPen from the Peanuts. Needless to say he had dirt IN his hair and all over his legs and arms. Funny his torso was clean......

He had to get a bath before he ate his lunch. La la la, he played in there for another 30 min. "Momma bring me more legos". "uh....NO, there are enough legos in my bathtub" pppffftttttt


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

LOL. When you come you'd better bring a mountain of Lego cos there's gonna be TWO small boys in the bathtub!

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (24280)   ranked 296 out of 1,107 in chicken   3 years ago

I molly coddle mine to a point. But there are certain things they have to do, no argument. I'm seriously thinking about limiting their computer time some. They are all hooked on this thing called Wizard 101 (think Dungeons and Dragons with graphics) and they would rather do that than go swimming even...


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

It's all about balance Dawn. And parental dictatorship!


myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (24280)   ranked 296 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

yep it does...

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. thebohemianheart (2780)   ranked 595 out of 1,107 in chicken   3 years ago

When we were kids, we would get on our bikes and ride from one end of town to the other, or walk the entire town, not thinking twice about where we were or where we were going. And, I seriously doubt that our parents were that worried about it when we were gone from our own yards for most of the day.
When my kids were younger, they were allowed in the backyard, or at a neighbor's house, and some times, they were allowed to go to the park alone...it's just at the end of our road, and I could see them from the front yard.
Today, things are a little scarier, I think. If my kids were small now, I would have them within my site at all times. I think a big part of the problem is that most households have both parents working, and there is no adult supervision, so the tv and the games are the safest thing for them.
Now don't get me wrong, it's not good for kids to be cooped up inside all the time. They need sunshine, and room to run, and jump. They need the outdoors to just let loose and yell at the top of their lungs.
I honestly don't know how kids develop the social skills they need to function in the outside world, these days with all the electronic devices that are available to them.


myLot reputation of 94/100. thebohemianheart (2780)   ranked 595 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

And why is this discussion under chicken?*L*


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

Thank heavens for school I think Bo. That seems to be how many of them achieve social skills - such as they are!


myLot reputation of 93/100. Irishfrndly65 (8534)  3 years ago

bawk bawk bawk......hee chicken.........heeee..pppftttttt

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6. myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 400 out of 1,107 in chicken   3 years ago

My boys are 7 and 8. I have lived where I do now for the past 5 years. I know just about everyone on this street. The speed limit down my street is 25 MPH and there is a basket ball court about 40 Yards from my front porch. For the first time last week I allowed my boys to go to the basketball court without me or an adult with them.

Yeah I'm overprotective. But I'm the first person to turn off all things electric and force my children outside to play WITH ME! lol

And Dance Dance Revolution can be classified as exercise. I burn a minimum of 500 calories and sweat my rear end off every time I play. Don't know about the Wii Fit but DDR is brutal.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

No you're not overprotective Cyn. You've just got a realistic approach to parenting. I remember the first time we let P1kelet go to her friend's round the corner alone - let's just say that I had to be restrained from following her down the road! I always thought that the DDR was what the Germans called East Germany. Sounds a Spartan regime anyway!

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. merlinsorca (681)   ranked 663 out of 1,107 in chicken   3 years ago

I agree, we really do need to go outside more and get some fresh air and sunshine. It's healthy. And about the Wii thing... You don't need a video game to motivate you to exercise; it's possible to work out indoors, isn't it?


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

Yep. I agree with all of that.

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. cher913 (21936)   ranked 488 out of 1,107 in chicken   3 years ago

well since our canadian winters are so long, if the weather is nice, i try and get my kids outside to have some fun, but i think wii is a good way to at least move your body a little. at our daughters school, they have physical activity every day (even on the days she doesnt have gym), so that gets them moving too.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (7539)   ranked 19 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

I don't have a problem with techno stuff; but I do agree that we should encourage children to be outside and mving as much as possible. Helps them, and us, sleep!

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48826)   ranked 174 out of 1,107 in chicken   3 years ago

six times here goes again pikey I have done this six times used to be bookds with me, I would hear my mom yell get your nose out of that book, and go play outside. I lived on a farm so I climbed trees, rollerskated and took the book with me. now here I am on the computer and three people have come to ask if I was okay.
I would rather be mylotting than sitting downstairs alone reading a book .

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. ShellyB (3093)   ranked 151 out of 1,107 in chicken   3 years ago

I believe it is a combination of too many things, there more two income families than ever before, there are too many kid abductions, and too much media coverage. So between that and parents not wanting to take their kids to friends you got kids who spend too much time at home.


sanjayrapper (74)   ranked 1,053 out of 1,107 in chicken  3 years ago

ya u r right...that was the case with me when I was...my both the parents would be working and would put a lot of restrictions for my safety and so on. But as the result I became a very frustrated child and would sneak out and do exactly opposite of what my parents wanted me to do.. and ended up doing things which gave my parents nightmares. Of course I'm older now but still what I'd say is to give the kids more freedom but at the same time limit it to certain level cos anything in excess is always bad.

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