So What Would You Do???

Life is nothing but a game of chance..you have to take them or you will never know! I know you love him, but 7 months isn't a very log time. If this was before you,and he shows no interest in her,stay by his side.It is probably a diffucult time for him also.If it is meant tobe, it will be.Oh!Is he sure it is his child?If so, make sure you encourage him to be in his child's life and not the other way around.His child needs him more than anyone!Good luck to you!

It is really up to. If love is enough reason to with him then let it be. Help your bf find the solution to his problem. Make things workable, it can also be a bonding moment for both of you. Don't focus on "what ifs" stay focus on what should be done on the problem that arise. Being love has risk, it is your turn now to make this risk workable on you.

will of course it will be your loss if you let him go and you just make her happy if you do so. besides its her fault if she become pregnant so let her suffer. as long as your boyfriend loves you and as long as he said that he will stay with you. dont push him out and let that girl be happy. make her miserable. its not bcoz shes pregnant it means they guy can go to her only bcoz of the child.

The paradox of this discussion is that you haven't said whether the girl your bf made pregnant was his girlfriend besides you or not. otherwise, if i were you i would live him since he wasn't faithful to you. but still this remains your personal decision. You can choose to stick to him or leave him. Issues involved here is trust, faithfulness and honesty. considering this issues and others like advantages and disadvantages of living him you can then make a wise decision. Take your time do not rush in making conclusions avoid scuffles and remember that you are not an exemption from such a situation also. wish you best solution

What is he impregnates you and moves on in life? I have a bad feeling that this bf of yours, is playing a sort of game. I may be wrong, but why should he mention her to you in the first place, if he didn't do anything to her. Is it his guilty conscience, or is he trying to pull it on you for something? Just be on the guard till you're sure that your bf is genuine before going headon with a serious relationship.

It is you can answer your question. Since you know already the situation are going to continue your relationship with him. That you will be hurt in then end. But if do realy love him, tell your boyfriend to settle first the problem with the other lady and discuss it with you. If you can understand and accept the settlement then continue your relationship with him. But if you think that you cannot accept it learn to forget him. AS I said its only you and your boyfriend can answer yboth our situation.

Its already late. respond to it as early as possible. my idea is leave him to other lady and try to forget him bcoz the child would be the ultimate sufferer.Think what ever happen till now is good for you only.Dont get deppressed and start new life and marry the person whom your parents show you.Finally its upto you. i think you will take good decision about it.

mizzk1,

I think before you decide what your step will be for this relationship, you will have to seek out some true and honest answers from his end.

To begin with will be whether he will be taking up responsibility for his child at the other end and if he will be going back to this girl who is having his baby.

It would also be sensible to check if the baby is actually his, to begin with. Since the both of you are already 7 months together, getting some facts here should really be able to tell you if your boyfriend here has been two timing and how he handles crisis and controversies.

No offense taken, as I feel that it would only be the right thing for you to do before you decide to risk everything on this other party. I feel that a measured approach on your end and that your boyfriend come clean, before a decision on your part, would be the best advocate for now.

Take care and have a nice day.

i am sorry, if i am hurting you... y to get into more complications... is is difficult for u to get another boyfriend or life partner...? nowadays we cant believe anyone in this world... so y to take risk..... anyway good luck.. my prayers with u....to take a good decision...

The girl must be pregnant for 7-9 months already,if she`s not, then am sure your bf cheated on you. If that`s the case I think you better leave him, let hem face the consequences of his actions. He fooled you once, don't let him fool you again.