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How do you feel when someone is late or you you are the one late? Punctuality email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers5 months ago

Being late to attend in a meeting, schools, offices, parties and other activities you are suppose to be present. What do you feel if your co-workers, classmates, friends or the people you invited comes late? In my own personal opinion I feel really annoy especially if other people comes late. For examples, you have a parties and you invite people with a notes, including the time and places where you are going to hold your parties. Then, the other guests or the main celebrant wait for the parties to be filled in by people whom she invited..How would you feel if guests come late. Another scene in offices, your co-worker comes late it is a sign of being not professional, then at schools, some students come late..What will be your reactions if you are the teacher or students..If we are going to reverse the situation; do you hate being late or you hate waiting for late companion? Are you punctual or you are late to come, because of others valid reasons which could be an excuses or others really comes late, because they already acquire the habits of being late?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. virusxtreme24 (715)   ranked 823 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

I've been told that i'm right on the dot when it comes to meetings with friends, and I'm really glad that I have that reputation with my friends. I don't hate waiting for people who are late (hate is a strong word), I'm rather just cross and annoyed, but I don't show my feelings. I just joke about one's lateness with others, but it's not in a hurtful way, I say it in a playful, friendly way.


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

Being late in any appointment is very irritating to the person who make the invitation. Sometimes being late is excusable when the late person have no intention of doing it. Such as when their is an accident along the roads that it is impossible to arrive on the exact times, and creates tremendous traffic or other valid reason. You could easily detect if this person are always making an alibi when he always do it not few times but almost frequently. Then, it is no longer tolerable as this person acquired this habit which only makes him infamous.

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. 0811mg (488)   ranked 1,023 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

I admit that I am late sometimes when I have meeting, parties to attend, lunch or dinner with friends or my boyfriend. Sometimes, my boyfriend would get annoyed because I am not on time or always late. But I am managing it now. But when I am attending class and seminars,I make sure that I wake up early so that I would be early for school or would be just on time. When I was the one organizing a meeting, lunch or dinner with friends, I get annoyed especially when my friends will tell me that they're be at our meeting place in few minutes but then it took them several minutes to an hour before they arrived.


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

No one really likes to wait and the feeling for being late is also not a good feeling. If you are the one waiting and the person never ever call or send text massaging you may be worry as something bad happen to this person or else he got involve in accident or squeeze b traffic along the road. And, if you are the one who are late it is also very ashamed to make an apologize when you really have no intention to be late. Sometimes when you arrive at your appointment you find out the meeting is already finish and much worse you come to an empty room. Also, when the person you are about to meet already left and you wait for him but not also bother to call you, which is really a waste of times on your part and vice versa..

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. versio9 (302)   ranked 1,626 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

the only excuses i will accept or will give are: when someone or myself meet an accident. otherwise, lateness on my part or the other violates one's commitment to the other. do this three times and trust will disappear. punctuality means respecting the other person's time and effort. it builds trust because you value the other person's time.


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

yeah, it is really a matter of respect, if you think of yourself as the latecomers, then it is best to learn to adjust your time and you still arrive at the place ahead of the time given to you by the person who invites. This is the way being late is avoided as constant lateness have effect on every transaction whether for business or for personal use.

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4. myLot reputation of 77/100. jazzbabe (101)   ranked 4,372 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

I am guilty of being a late-comer in a lot of times. In school before and at work,
but I'm never late for parties or some social events. lol. I know that it's never a professional way, and I am still working on changing this since it sure did become a very bad habit..


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

Maybe you never really feel excited in going to your others appointment and you feel bored. Whereas in going to social events you feel more excited as it makes you happy and by seeing a lot of friends..Good things you will learn to changes your behavior and may reap the good benefits after the changes..

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. mickly08 (523)   ranked 4,765 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

Sometimes I would be very angry with someone who are late .Because sometimes my schedule are full. I have something to do in next given time .I think someone always late is not responsible for others .They don't respect others .They bring a lot problems to each other . Punctuality is important for everyone .


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

It is better if they cancel their meeting with you they will says so in advanced that you will no longer wait for them to come and you could cancel it both. Transactions gets affected and your precious times is wasted.

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6. myLot reputation of 76/100. Fennelfoot (135)   ranked 5,134 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

I hate being late for anything. I'd much rather get to let's say the movies, for example, 30 minutes early and just wait instead of getting there when they've already dimmed the lights. If it's for an appointment or something important, I get really upset if something happens to make me late and usually try to phone ahead to explain the situation.

I get furious when people are late for appointments with me and don't even have the courtesy to call me and let me know. As long as they give me that one little bit of respect, a phone call, I'm completely cool with them being late, but just not showing up or being incredibly late really, really irks me.

If I don't get a call, they better have a dang good excuse for showing up late/not at all. And I mean really good excuse.


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

It is alright to tell to the person you are going to be late or rather cancel the appointment in advanced that the person will no longer expect you to proceed with the plan. Me too, I really feel ashamed every time I am late and becomes the center of attention of other people who are already seated keep looking or stop what they are doing to look at you..The important things to remind always the feeling of waiting and the feeling of being late is not a good things and should be avoided at all cost. It is really disappointing to wait and then find out the person you are going to meet have no desire to come. Anybody who experience the things you mention will really feel bad as you do a lot of preparation while the other person involve do not mind being late is not a good habit to maintain.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. Sreekala (1759)   ranked 31 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

Hi neelianoscet,

I admit that I am a late comer in office presently. But that facility is provided for me because I have a small kid at home. I was famous with my punctuality before my kids born and I think that is why I am getting this facility now. In other cases I try to be punctual. Yes I may get annoyed if other people not reach at time. I can’t tolerate if students came late at school. I will always make a point to reach in time for parents meeting etc.


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

i like your company is very sensitive to the needs of employees and they allow you too make your own schedules. If that is the cases it is better than keeping late and always narrate your every reason many times to your boss may sometimes takes her patience out. If others could do to arrive in time, you could do so and if you are really low, as some people really acts like this, it is better to adjust your watch at least more than 30 minutes. So that you will never arrive late and instead arrive ahead of the scheduled time.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. stephcjh (22813)   ranked 141 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

I hate being late for anything because it makes me nervous to try to rush to make it on time and it ruins my day in most cases. I hate it when someone else is late also and does not even take the time to tell me they are going to be late or if they make a habit of it.


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

It is better to think of being the one to arrive first at the appointment time rather than arriving late. Yeah, it is really a good attitude to inform your contacts before hand to cancel the appointment than making an alibi which could easily be detect as lies.

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. koalapenguin (1358)   ranked 988 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

Hi neelian, Long time no see here in mylot. How's it been? lol Sorry to say friend but i am a certified late comer. When i was in high school, we get punished by running back and forth in our basketball court for about a hundred times. I remember myself going to the bathroom first to wash my face all over again because of the sweat. I come in the classroom exhausted with my teacher getting my attention asking why i was late. Now that i am 20 years old, i am still having the habit of being late for about an hour. I know it's bad and i hope i won't do it when i have my job. I know what it feels like waiting for someone like what we have always experienced during college. One or i would say, two of them would always go to our meeting late. As in 2 hours late, then they'll make up some pretty good but annoying excuses. glare That's annoying, i hope i could change my habit *i know i could* but sometimes i can't fight the urge of coming late because of some tradition i have grew up on. By the way, nice to see you again. thumbup


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

hi koalapenguin, me too, I am always late during high school because I live very far from schools and the penalty for being late is to pick up grasses on the groundsad before i am allow to get to the classroom. Then, I get tired of doing it and decide to wake up early and never stay long in the bathroom. Others reasons for me for being late, aside from traffic, staying late up at night..I really like to bath for more than one hours and also take me longer to move fast when I am facing the mirror and putting some powder or combing my hair..very vain..indeed...About what happen to you..it is good you got a lot of exerciseslol by the way being late really is a big offenses when you are working and sometimes being late for almost more than 3 times is subject to suspension and in some companies they are very strict about tardiness and worse may even lead to termination..Hopefully, i wish you good luck and as you make you try to changes, you will benefit from it at the end.. happy

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. chapcity (1274)   ranked 2,263 out of 19,336 in questions & answers   5 months ago

I had my son's first birthday party recently and one of my good friends turned up late and was the first to go home not even waiting for the cake to be cut. I turned up on time to her daughters first birthday and stayed until after the cake was cut.


myLot reputation of 82/100. neelianoscet (2038)   ranked 589 out of 19,336 in questions & answers  5 months ago

It is really very disappointing to see a friend late, then also the first ones to leave. The celebrant may feel or even the one who invites may think this person you invite never get the feel of the joyous occasion or maybe got other reasons, but it is polite if she stays for a moderate time as to see more of the events and chat with friends before she leave..

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