Some ladies are not able to get pregnant

Right now, I have three kids and I don't want something that is not of natural occurrence. I have known many women who didn't have children and they adopted them a baby as their own. Although it is not a bad idea, I think that there might be a possibility of God opening the womb of the woman just like He did to Hannah in the Bible. She prayed so hard, year by year, and God answered her prayer and gave her many children.

i have no idea what is IVF but if the women can't conceive, i suggest to adopt a baby... because there are lots of side effects and should not be pressure for some women who cannot conceive... just accept what happens and it will go away... sometimes some IVF treatments really harm not only for women but also the newborn babies...

All I can say Maximax is that your postcode area is very generous. I don't know how they can call it a 'National' health service when different postcodes implement different rules, the whole thing is a complete nonsense.

If came down to it and i needed to IVF would be my first option, i would consider adoption but would try other things first.

I think the postcode lottery is ridiculous, we all pay our fair and equal share of your taxes so i dont see why some people should get preferntial treatment just because of where they live. Imagine how devastating that is to people who have been trying for a baby for many years to find out they live in the "wrong are"

Around here IVF would not be free, although I'm not familiar with all of the requirements for the procedure. Unless I'm in the situation I don't know exactly what I would do. However, I think I would adopt a child rather than do IVF. Both are rather expensive. But I think it would make me feel better to know I'm taking care of a child that had no home, if I could not get pregnant myself.

Unfortunately, I'm one of those unlucky ladies. I got pregnant once but my only child died 4 years ago. Before I got pregnant with her, me and my partner had done several procedures to get me pregnant. It took us 4 and half years before I finally got pregnant. After her death, I didn't have the chance to get pregnant again. I had been visiting my OB for some regular check ups.

I tried IVF already, I dunno if it will do me some miracle if I will take one again.

I might give in vitro a try. Hopefully it would work, but adoption would always be a good choice for me. There are many children in need of good parents and love.
Maybe I'm biased because I was adopted, but I see no difference in being raised by birth parents or adoptive parents that love us as much.
Actually even though I have my own children, if my life changed a bit and I could commit myself financially I would still like to adopt.
Personally I think it doesn't really matter all that much if we carried that child inside us or not, we can love both equally.

Nature has its own funny ways of balancing the population. For those unable to conceive, adoption makes common sense and helps out those poor unwanted orphans. On the other hand, the feeling of being able to get pregnant through IVF and actually give birth as a mother brings sheer joy which only a mother knows. I am not a woman but after working as a male nurse for a number of years in sevral UK General Hospitals, I too feel with joy whenever I see a new baby being born and the twinkle in both the mother and baby's eyes is undiscribeable. Life is forever wonderful.

I don't even know what IVF is and I've never heard of it. I know I'd never want it, though. I don't even want kids and consider those that are "unable" to have them very lucky. I'd love to get myself sterilized to decrease my chances of getting pregnant. If it were up to me, I'd just have my ovaries removed. They're pretty useless anyway, right? Plus, they only cause me pain and trouble.

maximax8 hj hatley here. I think if you hAve lots of money
and cant get pregnant the ordinary its okay tohave IVF.
As for me I couldnt afford it and anyway i got socked
with a necessary historectomy after mysecond child
so adoption was the only way and my husband refused
to Adopt a child.