why some girls so confident about their beauty?

being beautiful is nice, you don't have to be ashame nor hide to a lot of people around.. but being over-used it is not good anymore, it's ok to love you own but being pver confident in it is not nice to look at.. i have also a friend like that, she is pretty, a lot of guys like her, and she boasts it to us always and we hate it a lot.. i just frankly tell her that we don't care, and just please stop boasting to us that a lot of boys goes after you.. and you now, she was totally changed after that.. now she knows how to handle it again.!!

Really clorissa, you've got to start working on your self esteem, I'm sure a pretty young thing like you is just as beautiful as this other girl at work, is it the one you called Tom before. I hope you were able to have a bit of fun together with the make up. But now it sounds like you might have helped Tom to much with her makeup, you said before she doesn't know how to dress like a girl so you could probably improve your own self esteem if you chose some really horrible clothes for her and told her they were girly, after all she's already trusted you about the make up tip I suggested.

Sorry to say, but it sounds like your friend is into something more than you want to know about, from the way, that you have described, as the way that she acts. You may want to steer clear of that one. Trouble may be finding her.

I dont think it is wrong to be confident about once beauty. It is a positive symptom and they are not having the inferiority complex. I agree with your opinion that people should not be over congfident about their beauty and the capability. The guys and men behind her is depend upon her body language and nothing to do with her beauty or over confidence. I feel such characters will be in danger becuase of the misleading signal of their body language

There's nothing wrong with a girl being confident about her beauty, but not in an arrogant way. Its just ilke the fact that girls don't like guys who think that they think they look good. Its good for a girl to be confident about her beauty, it shows that she has good self-esteem.

Hi clorissa well, I find this kind of people are really annoying to be around !! and the poor one who thinks him or her self who has the best look in the world, coz the important thing is the personality which is behind that face not what the way we look , and what if she looks good but she has bad bad habit or personality !!then people wouldn't look at her face ,if course its important to be confident but not that much coz it would turned a paranoia in the end the bottom line is " be beautiful from in and out ,then stay humble "

Hello, I think my friend's co worker is just like that. Beauty is not last long though and if someone gets to know her more, I mean deep inside then they know what kind of girl she is. Then no matter how much she is pretty, she still look bad in deep inside. too bad for those guys that pay almost everything for the girl that is not even his gf. If I am a guy, I will not go near with these woman... you know all she wants is money and everything she says have to be right.

Hello Clorissa, I guess you had a pic of yours uploaded here till some time back,right? Anyways,coming to your topic, yeah, I have come across such girls a lot of times. I think what really adds to their pride is the manner in which desperate guys keep hitting on them one after the other. That makes them feel wanted and popular hence they start throwing tantrums all around. Just ignore such a girl for a day or two and she'll be all right.

I don't think confidence is a bad thing! Confidence is a REALLY GOOD THING! I think too much confidence leads to arrogance, as you said, which isn't good. But confidence & arrogance are two very very different things. Confidence is healthy, arrogance is just..annoying. lol.

I don't see anything wrong with one having confidence in their beauty. However, if they use this as a form of demeaning another person there lies the problem. Although your friend sounds more like an attention seeker but if she's got the beauty she is allowed to flaunt it. Sounds also to me like you need to raise your esteem and confidence level. Everybody is beautiful, in my opinion, in their own way.

Yes girls love to express an air of arrogance when it comes to beauty. Physical appearance does instill confidence, but to over do it is needless. But giving undue importance to physical appearance while ignoring intelligence and other inherent qualities is meaningless. Real beauty is mostly hidden than apparent.thx

clorissa, As long as she brags about her beauty its ok, but when this goes beyond a certain limit, it could be harmful. She may brag and go out with guys, but remind her that she could get herself into trouble if she went overboard. It has happened to girls like her, and I don't think that will be ast time either. Somehow, I feel being normal has a lot of charm, and I as a man, feel that having a normal-looking woman is better than having an absolutely stunning beauty.

Surely we don't like this kind of girls at all no matter how beautiful she is . She acts just like a fool by doing all these things in front of the men who would be interested in her. I don't know whether men like this type of girls or not. Some might only care for the beauty and love her but i believe most of smart men would step away from her as possible as they can.

I also know woman who acts like that. It's a good thing to be confidence. Over confidence, however, is not. The sad thing is the more he talks about herself in that way to people, the less people admire her. I hope he would change. Nothing last forever. She can't expect to get everything she wants just by her looks only.