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myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people3 months ago

Does your partner [husband] remember your wedding anniversary date every year?How do you react if he forgets? As far as I am concerned I would not allow him to forget it.I would keep making announcements earlier on.I would buy myself a new saree and we would at best go out to eat.Earlier we always used to go out for a film on this day.Nowadays, this does not happen too often because we do not get so many films to our liking these days.There is an underlying assumption in my statement[of course] that the husbands are more likely to forget.Forgive me if I am wrong.
Whether you are the husband or wife you can please share.If you are the husband and you are the forgetful party who is whipped by his wife winkwinktoo you are welcome to share and add fun to the discussion please.If you are the wife and you can add something you are welcome.THanks in advance for your responses.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. realan (369)   ranked 2,304 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

I haven't had the problem. So far in the past 14 years, my husband has never forgotten our anniversary. We try to celebrate by at least having a special dinner. Next year it will be 15 years, so maybe we will do something extra special. Sometimes we get so busy with everyday things, that I do fear that I will forget special days like this. I'm starting to set up reminders on my cell phone for everyone's birthdays, anniversaries and such.


myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

Thanks for the participation. Itis true that with the increase in the mechanical running of life special occsions are likely to be forgotte.It is a good idea to have reminders.I am a middle aed woman who had nothing else to do except stay at home and look after the family [for many years till I went on to my freelancing teaching]So, i used to remember everything.Happy 15th anniversary wishes in advance.


myLot reputation of 99/100. realan (369)   ranked 2,304 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

Thank you very much for the wonderful wishes!!!

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. drannhh (7291)   ranked 4,467 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

We know we are married and celebrate every day, so the exact date of our anniversary is just not a big deal for either one of us. Sometimes I forget and he remembers, sometimes we both forget, but we have been married a long time and still love each other and I think that is what matters. In our marriage, though, I have been the one more likely to forget "important" dates than my husband, although I have never forgotten his birthday, but that is because it is on a really big holiday. Mine is not, but he has never forgotten it anyway. He is just very good that way.


myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

That is admirable.I was under the impression that men would normally forget.I have never had any problem because I would not allow him to forget and even if either of us does,we have been married for a long time to think of this and worry or expect a thing.I will be mentioning it in the course of some conversation or the other by sheer habit.Thanks for sharing.

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. Gorjess (1063)   ranked 1,166 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

I'm not married but I would be surprised if my boyfriend forgot seeing as he has a tattoo with the number 22 on it, which is my birthday date and the date we got together.


myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

Then I am sure he would also never forget it.THanks for the
participation.

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. mrbranan (999)   ranked 8,386 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

I have to be honest I am the one who usually forgets. My husband reminds me when it gets close but if someone just asks for the date I can be sure it is the month of August.


myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

I appreciate what you have written.But I thought normally only women wold remember and men would tend to forget.Obviously, in your case you have too many things in your mind and htta is why you are unable to remember it.THanks for sharing.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. tamarafireheart (12458)   ranked 4,697 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

Hi Kalav56,



We both remember our wedding anniversary but niether of do anything to celebrate it these days as he often works and we don't really bother anymore.


Tamara


myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

When we are young the charm is greater but I still make a sweet delicacy at home to honour the day. We also try and go out that day but some rare days this does not hapPEN.Thanks Tamara for your participation .

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6. myLot reputation of 45/100. visaseetharaman (167)   ranked 10,406 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

I am a persone who plans meticulously any occasion whether it is a birthday or hosting friends and relatives .So I am not sure whether he forgets our anniversary .I keep noting the schedule for the d'day.It is I who decides which temple to go and whom to meet and what to prepare .My children also ask me what is my plan .So no chance for him to forget the day


myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

Like me you also do not allow thsi occasin to be forgotten.I feel that it is better this way than think about it at all.Have a nice day.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. williamjisir (12876)   ranked 1,320 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

Hello kalav. Both my wife and I remember our wedding date, but as we work in a different city, which is so far from each other, we don't have any chance to stay together to celebrate it on that special day. What we can do is to make a phone call to each other to celebrate it. I am sure that we will be able to make it in a couple of years when my son goes to college. By then we will be working in the same city. Take care.


myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

It is sad that you both work in different cities.Has this been due to the venue of your son's education then?Hope it was only for a short time.This is what happens in our places too[though never at my home]thta one person is posted elsewhere and the mother has to hold fort for the children who are about to appear for thEIr board exam.It is simply impossible for the family to be together at such points of time.


myLot reputation of 97/100. williamjisir (12876)   ranked 1,320 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

Yes, it is all because of my son's school. He does not want to move to the city where I am working, so I let him be. But it is good that he is to finish his senior high school next year and will take the college entrance examination. Then we will be together for our work. It is ok for me though it causes some inconvenience. It is for the time being only. We can wait. Thank you for the response, friend.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. daliaj (2745)   ranked 5,445 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

My frist6 wedding anniversary is going to be in the coming January and I think my husband remembers it. We are thiking about planning something for the wedding anniversary. He lives in another country presently as a part of his job. He is coming to spend Christmans and wedding anniversary with me. He is going to book the tickets in a couple of days.


myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

iT IS GREAT THTA HE will be back for Christmas and also for yor anniversary.All the best and advance wishes for your wedding anniversARY.

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9. alona_cm20 (32)   ranked 23,677 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

I never had a problem with that, he never fails to remember our anniversary. I dont think it's a good idea to keep on announcing it for him to remember because he might be too dependent on you. I guess its a mutual responsibility being a couple. It's like a duty to one another to cherish and recall your promise to one another and to still keep it and make your relationship more stronger.

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10. myLot reputation of 90/100. comfort55 (709)   ranked 894 out of 35,110 in people   3 months ago

Hi Kala, I don't remember my partner has ever forgotton our anniversary, but last month it was hubby's birthday which I remembered till night but forgot in the morning. When my son called to wish him, then I remembered. Actually we had some guests the previous night and I was extremely tired, maybe that can be the reason for it.


myLot reputation of 96/100. kalav56 (1876)   ranked 469 out of 35,110 in people  3 months ago

When we are overburdened with work this happens Comfort.We also feel bad about it afterwards. THanks for the participation.

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