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One thing I try to remember is that no matter what, we can not dwell on bad things. We all have or do things we regret. It is very hard to learn forgiveness. I'm still working on that. We have to remember that people often say or do things without thinking how it will affect others. It is natural to want to strike back at someone who hurts us but it is better not to do so. What is that statement...? If you are without sin, you may cast the first stone? Sometimes it's hard to be nice.

I have many regrets, things ive said or done. actions i shouldnt have taken in life.. but its behind me now, and really there is not any reason to be dwelling on them beause i can't change them!! no one can. can't take anything back. but i have learned now, from these mistakes and regrets, to think before i say or do.. that's whats important.. learning a lesson from these.. regrets.

I try to never be careless in life. I just do not have the time for it. It is too risky to be careless these days also. I think we always have to use careful thinking to make it in life also.

That is so true....and it puts your whole life in more of a positive position....and gives you great happiness!

Careless is like my second name... together with tactless... since i often hurt someone unintentionally with my words... and then there are also cases when i don't double check so i end up forgetting something in the apartment or even at the grocery store... i never learn my lessons...

that's the challenge of having our own freedom of will. If were gonna do something, we better think it first, most specially the consequences of our actions. don't worry i also had experienced locking doors with a key inside our house. honestly our bad experiences,, makes us who we are and how we gain strength from it........

LOL. I wonder if you ever think if you have gotten dementia. . I can bet many of us are careless one way or another. It may be God's way of testing us or helping us to overcome our careless habit. As long as one is aware of one's carelessness, one can persevere to be more careful.

Hello Zelmarq. You are right that careful thinking makes life and work much easier. Sometimes I am also very careless, which was not as expected, but indeed it happened. Then I started to blame myself for it. Now I see that the best policy is to have a careful thinking. Thank you for the discussion, my dear friend.