oh my.. i am pregnant again!

yes its a blessing having again a life that is in your womb its a blessing from our Creator you need to thank God for that. And congratulations you will be a mother again. I hope you are alright, always take care.

You should be happy about it. God has given you a present to take care of. You are going to have so many specail and memorable moments presented by this kid. Be happy. All the best for you.

Congrats jazel.It does not matter that you are having a third child as long as you and your husband can bring up your children comfortably. but as a word of caution sit down and talk over with him whether you want another child or call it quits. In these uncertain times it is better to restrict the family to a manageable size otherwise both of you will have a difficult time.Good luck.

hi jazel,

congratulations first of all. yes you have said it already that it is a blessing no matter what.. love it because it's a gift from GOD.. don't think too much about that tying thing, you are still young so if i were you, i will talk to my husband and plan for everything next time you will do it again..

janebeth.

Every child is a blessing wow at your age you have 3 kids now. I'm 26 but I don't have a kid. I'm afraid for responsibility and now that life is very difficult I think 3 kids are enough. I think you should think about it carefully there are many contraceptives in the market why don't you try injectables it is safe.

It's a blessing.
Nothing to worry about it if you are financially secured. But if not, well it is really a big a problem.
How old are your 2 kids? I hope their age gap is not that close. Cuz according to my Mom, sometimes when age gaps between sibling is so close, it will usually result to sibling rivalry cuz your attention will be divided between the two. I hope you know kids really needed attention.

As for now, dont worry so much. It will do no good for the baby your carrying.

Hi Hazel!

You know it is a great blessing from God, having children is a wonderful and unconditional gift that should be cherished and appreciated. Lots of women who really longed to have children and yet most of them are always unsuccessful, so you are very lucky.

Every time I hear pregnant women I feel very emotional and a little bit envious because I really wanted to have kids of my own, I wanted four children but the problem is I am still single and already 35 years old. I don't know if I still get married and be able to have four children. I am really depressed right now because of this unrealized dreams that's why when I read your discussion I am so happy that you are having a baby again.

That's good and hope you will have a healthy pregnancy. Take care of yourself and the baby, eat healthy foods and God bless you.

Hi jazel. I had this happen to me with my oldest. I had planned to get my tubes tied. Just about everyone, including the nurses and doctor tried to talk me out of it. I wasn't quite 22 at the time and with it being my first child they thought I didn't know what I wanted. I didn't go through with it, though not because of what they said, but rather what my husband said (and right after I had given birth to our son). Had it not been for that conversation I would have gone through with it. What can I say, I had made up my mind up until that point.

I got pregnant again and again I planned on getting my tubes tied. However, no one really gave me a hard time about this time around. I figured it was because I was giving birth for the second time, though now that I look back on it maybe they remembered how determined I was the first time around that they decided to leave me alone. LOL I had just had my 25th birthday a few days before my youngest son's birth. I ended up not going through with it though. I chickened out.

If you are certain that you don't want any more babies after this one then you should put your foot down and let whoever know that you're happy with the size of your family just the way it is.

Good luck, congratulations, and happy mylotting!

Well it is indeed a blessing since there are many like you are that wants to have a child but is not able to get one. you are the prime of your life that is why you are very much fertile and is capable to having child. But, since you said that you have two already, I guess it is practical that you have your tied already fro practical reasons that having to manage the three of them is an effort as a mother. Adding one more to the ones you have would mean an additional exertion from your part. Well you could have it tied when you give birth I think you just need to tell your doctor about it and she could do it after giving birth. There is no need to have done right now since you are still pregnant and there is no possibility for you to become pregnant.

Hi Jazel

Congratulations for that. I think all the friends in this forum has given you valuable suggestions but that they dint gave rather they were unable to give was my wishes which only me myself could have given. So congratulations from my side as well.

Have a beautifull life ahead.
Take care!
Good luck.