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myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life4 months ago

Guess i shouuld have written this discussion first. Five years ago when i had the inside of my house painted i had more thieves. they stole a bunch of rings from me that had a whole lot of sentimental value to be besides their actual worth. One of them was my grandmother's, one was my great-grandmother's wide wedding band, on was a diamond ring an ol' boyfriend had given me & a ring my nother had given me. I didn't miss them for a few weeks after the painters left because i just wore them on special occasions. I went to get one out to wear & they were all gone. I CHECKED THE PAWN SHOPS IN 3 SURROUNDING TOWNS BUT HAD NO LUcK. I would still recognize my grandmother's ring if i ever saw it because her children had it special made for her. I would definitely say something if i ever saw it on someone's finger. WOULDN'T U??Think i may need to give up having painters in my house, whatcha' think?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. riyasam (10895)   ranked 134 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

now,that is another painful incident,it is a good thing that they didnot do any harm physically,there are a lot of stories like that running loose,please be more cautious.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

It's just sooo sad u can't trust people anymore. Thank u, i will be cautious from now on who i let in the house.

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5851)   ranked 631 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

This is a terrible thing to loose something to people you employ in your house. Not only you are paying for the painting done but you are opening your doors to thieves to explore your house and cart away all the sentimental ornaments which have wiped out all past memories attached to these valuables. It happened to me once when I did a renovation to my kitchen. I left my maid to look after the workers while I went out to work. I did not realize that my precious dinnerware and other cutlery were missing not until the renovation was completed and when I put back all the things in their proper places that I realized my set dinnerware were missing and some other things. They were gifts from my wedding and has great sentimental value to me. It was really an expensive renovation. sad


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

I'm so sorry that happened to u. Things like that can never be repaced just like my rings. it's a lowdown dirty dog that will steal anything.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. AmbiePam (15331)   ranked 494 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

They're lucky you didn't track them down and shoot them.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

They sure are. I would have liked to have for sure. U know who did it but u don't have any proof. What i don't understand is why a person u hire would bring people into your house like that knowing how they are.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4600)   ranked 3 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

Aunty you are way too trusting. What happened, did the police do anything? Insurance company? Of course in a 3 week time scale you can't be sure it was the painters.

I used to follow certain precautions when first needed people to come in and do jobs but now luckily will generally have an offer from someone I know well and trust to come and do the necessary. My precautions were to put everything otef value, such as any money or bank information, well hidden in the bedroom with the door locked whilst strangers were in the house.
The second precaution I took was to listen to the advice of Greeks who knew and never, never, invite a person from a certain country to work inside the house, no matter if he himself had a good reputation and could do the work for half the price. Why, because until workers from that country came here for work there was basically zero crime here in this area, doors could be unlocked whilst out etc. Now whilst one can't target everyone from a certain country as being dishonest they often have little choice as will at some point be lent upon by the organised crime masters who put pressure on them to if nothing else report back on items worth stealing. They have this power as often these illegal immigrants have left family behind. So to this day I never give the benefit of the doubt in this matter as feel need to be particularly cautious as live in a relatively isolated spot, with just myself and child.
So after that digression Aunty, apologies for being long winded, can't you just get your son to do the next painting job for you, or at least someone you know and trust rather than just think the best of. You really need to start being more careful Aunty, seriously. More HUGS on their way and don't make me have to worry about you. Which reminds me you will be mentaly holding my hand in an hour when I'm in the dreaded chair.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

i sure will be holding your hand & don't u forget it. be a good girl & don't bite the dentist & think how pretty u are going to look when he gets through. U need to put a picture on here so i can see u.
back to the rings, i know they took them they were the only people that had been in my house. I found out later that the one who painted the bedroom that my rings were in would still the feathers off a chicken. U always find out these things later. T he guy that i hired should have never brought him into my home because i was told he knew how he was.
my sons don't have time to do anything like that for me.They are too busy w/their own lives it seems.
no, the police again did not do a damn thing.


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4600)   ranked 3 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

Aunty, what exactly is the function of your police? And your sons need a good smacking.

I'm back unscarred Aunty with teeth now sorted, no fear once she agreed to what she considered an unnecessary injection. Thank you for holding my hand through the 40 minute proceedure which she said would take ten minutes. I don't know if it was paying the bill, or fighting off sudden intense sleepiness driving home, or the fact she's now told me not to eat for the next 6 hours and I'm hungry, but the whole thing has left me in an incredibly bad mood for some reason. I'm hoping it will pass quickly which it probably will when the injections wear off. happy


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

I loved your answer about my sons, cracked me up & i definitely agree w/you. T he police like to drive around & be seen. They don't have a good reputation w/me belive me. Neither time did they help me or call either bunch of painters in to talk to them or whatever. I'm sure they thought it would do no good & they are probably right but they could have made an effort.
glad u can smile again & i bet u look 'plumb pretty". I am so glad u have it done now & don't have any more dread. Sometimes the dread is the worse. I would be careful what i ate for awhile. The dentist should explained to u what to do. u take care of yourselg. Have a great weekend. YASSOU, AUNTY

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5. myLot reputation of 79/100. shajerrl (270)   ranked 9,176 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

I am very sorry to hear about that, maybe you can call police to help you, and indeed you should give up current painters in your house and to hire some honest and trustful painters to paint your house. and if you or your family member are free, maybe you can watch these guys all day in your house.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

Thanks for your response. i did go to the police but as usual they were no help. Have a great weekend. Welcome to mylot.

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6. myLot reputation of 91/100. Downwindz (360)   ranked 3,697 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

If that happened to me I would be devestated, especially because when you have inherited them from your close relatives, it just have some value to them which cannot be described.

Somehow I feel confident that if you actually see any of those rings on another person you would be able to recognize them without a big fuss, atleast i believe i would be. But the question would rather be if the new owner of the rings would agree with you and accept the fact that they bought "hot" rings in the past.

The problem is when you invite workers into your house to fix things, and if they show out to be thieves, they would go after items which is not used daily, so once the items seems to be missing, they will be over all mountains.

I hope you one day will be able to find the rings again, who knows if the luck smiles upon you.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

I was devastated, the sentimental value to me could never be replaced, it has been so long ago i have no hopes of ever geting them back. thanks so much for your kind words & response.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. Thoroughrob (7936)   ranked 213 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

I think I would be really careful on who I was letting do jobs for me. It is a shame that you cannot trust anyone anymore.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

Good friends reccomended them to me. They are really upset about it to. It is a sahme u can't trust people anymore. Thanks for your response.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. pergammano (2002)   ranked 2,267 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

Jo...as you already know...I am appalled at the intregrity of the trades people in your area...and in this time of recession you would think that they would be so happy to have work, they would be exemplary! I am so sorry for you, for there is nothing that makes one feel more naked...and vulnerable than being stolen from! Leaves and bad taste in your mouth..and for humans,too!

What the police told me, when my tenant robbed me of my only 3 pieces of good jewellery, is that more than likely I would never, ever find them, just be visual appearance, because mostly, they are melted down & re-configured...or the gold sold seperately from the jewels!

In BC we have the Better Business Bureau, where you can research the reputation of the companies, businesses..tradespeople!

I truly feel sorry for you, my dear, as it always seems such a personal thing, and we learn mistrust the hard way. Please take care, hugs & luv.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

i DO NO KNOW THAT & I FEEL THE SAME WAY. iT'S UNBELIEVABLE THAT THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME TWICE.Seems as if u can trust noone anymore & to me that's very sad. They both needed the work that is what is so strange to me. I had plenty i wanted them to do. There is just so much i can't do that i was thrilled to have someone to help me. Oh well, so much for that.
i'M SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR JEWELRY TO. i CAN CERTAINLY RELATE TO HOW U FELT. LOVEU, JO

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. stephcjh (22851)   ranked 113 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

I am sorry to hear that. We have been burglarised before also and it is not a pleasant feeling. We had some sentimental things stolen also. It invades your privacy of your home too. We searched pawn shops also and got nothing back. I would say something too if we ever seen any of our things with someone else.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

i AM SORRY U HAD THE SAME PROBLEM, sTEPH. iT IS A REALLY BAD FEELING TO KNOW SOMEONE WILL DO U LIKE THAT. Did u ever find out who did it? I think not knowing might be better in a way. I really hate to be disappointed in people. Have a good one.

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. hotsummer (2750)   ranked 17 out of 38,384 in life   4 months ago

definitely i don't think it is a good idea to have someone do the painting job. for the reason you mentioned. when we pay any one to have something done at home, i usually do make sure that they will not touch my things. i will stay with them in the room if that is where they are asked to do the job. but i don't just look for someone i don't know. i usually do hire someone that i personally know . like i have known inside the church as my church mate, though not a friend of mine at least i know his house and the whole congregation know about him and even his relatives are members of that congregation. but still i lost something but not an expensive thing only one tool which i just didn't insist that was missing after they did their work. i still hired him after that.

i hate hiring people i don't know cause mostly they will ask for advanced payment and they will not do that job or will just not going to get back . they will pressure with so many reason to pay and to do so many stupid things they would ask. so many times we don't hire people by looking at news papers. if i can't find a honest one i just do it myself. paint it myself. though it does not look that good.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

I was right here in the house. I was busy myself trying to do as much as i could do, going in behind them & getting things back where they went. I am not able to paint & when i was i was a horrible painter, lol.I knew the guys, their mother, grandmother & other family members. I really don't think u can trust anyone anymore. U have a great weekend.


myLot reputation of 99/100. hotsummer (2750)   ranked 17 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

yes that is much so true today. we can't really trust anyone now. like what we think as good person will turn up not a nice guy as we all thought. like this another church mate of mine whom i thought will be different. he would always say that he just going to go out to buy some needed material. he would go out in the morning and would come in after noon. and not much time to do his job and so i was paying him for almost doing nothing. actually was the one paying i was the only one staying at home and checking on his work.


myLot reputation of 99/100. hotsummer (2750)   ranked 17 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

my family was the one paying. mom and brother are working abroad and they just send remittances which i use to pay for repairs at home and for medicine expenses of my father who is with me at home and also for daily expenses and monthly bills.

it was just a bad experience for me to be disappointed with my two church mate.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11396)   ranked 618 out of 38,384 in life  4 months ago

I know that was very disappointing to u, i know how u feel.It's really sad to be disappointed in people u like.

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