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beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life4 months ago

I am attracted to my boss, a 60 year old man, with the sexiest grey hair and One heck of a CHARMER!! U should hear
I cant even concentrate when I talk to him.
At first I thought its because his my boss, but now its Clear, I am ATTRACTED to him. Is it so wrong?
Im 21 years old,his 60 but his so HOTT. 40 Year Age Gap .

Is it wrong? Im not planning on making a move on him...Im Just SO Attracted to him.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. amitksing (1040)   ranked 2,640 out of 38,607 in life   4 months ago

There's nothing wrong in getting attracted to anyone. Absolutely anybody can get attracted to almost anyone, so no issues with that.
Its good that you understand that its a mere attraction and do not think anything further, else it could have been problematic.

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2. LilyGreen123 (43)   4 months ago

are you sure you like him? maybe you respect him, i think that it is different about respect and love.
21, you are so younger, 40year gap, horrible

little girl,maybe you understand the feeling wrongly


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

Trust me, I am Attracted to this man.I know what Like is and Respect is.AT first I also thought I respected him. But I know that feeling of butterlies in my tummy,tight nottes, flushing red checks when I talk about him,and almost cant complete a sentence everytime Im next to him.No, this isnt respect this is something else..its like

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. kling2388 (1513)   ranked 5,623 out of 38,607 in life   4 months ago

Really? Well, love moves in mysterious ways as to what they say. Theres nothing wrong with it. Just make sure you will not be put in a deeper trouble if you and him will make up. We cant avoid it once we are attracted to someone, right? happy
Is he single and have no kids? To the fact that hes your boss, you should stay away from issues especially that you are still young. w00t


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

ya he does have kids and yes he is married, like Dha ..LOL Im not planning on making a move OR anything and his NOT my Permanent Boss, im just temp here from time to time ...So I dont think work issues should be a problem.I dont know what to do,im bust ducking like a duck -expression- and smiling from ear to as*hole.his Mature,sexy, groomed, FREAK,he Just spoke to me now,now,I cant take it anymo...

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. janebeth (916)   ranked 722 out of 38,607 in life   4 months ago

hi there,

well it's not a problem after all.. it's normal at your age.. and i think that will pass by, and hey is he married/divorce or what?? happy


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

married, thanks for the hope. Hopefully it will pass...

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. Baluyadav (1374)   ranked 5,418 out of 38,607 in life   4 months ago

Hi,i think you are come out of teenage attraction behavior.Generally in teenage they fall in attraction with the people who closely move around. confusedI don't know the mental maturity of you to comment.If you are that much cofidance on you to face further sequences then only proceed.Have a nice time. happy


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

I wont proceed with anything,the man is married and Im not here to break a happy family.I just wanted to know if it was indeed "normal" because I had never experianced something like this before.His older than my dad.YIKES!!!


myLot reputation of 51/100. sajidsageer (197)   ranked 16,766 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

I saw a movie like this, but now i think its true we can attract to anybody. But tell me what will be ur age? he is 60 and u?


myLot reputation of 72/100. LilyLoretta (952)   ranked 2,215 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

She's 21, it's in the original post.

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. OrangJuice (445)   ranked 10,742 out of 38,607 in life   4 months ago

Woo, it sounds amazing! I don't think you are wrong, because age never be the excuse for true love.
But how about him? Does he like you, too?

I don't know where you're from. But in China, a few years ago, an 28-year-old young lady married YANG Zhenning, who once got the Nobel prize in physics and then was 82-year-old. How surprising!

But you see, love with large age-gap, I think, is more harder and dangerous with those between two peers, that's true. But if he is single and attracted by you indeed. Why not? True love can overcome any difficulty, I believe.


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

It is pretty cool.His got the cool swager, and YES I think his also Attracted to me.Sadly his married, and Im not into having affairs and stuff and I dought he'll leave his wife for me ...so Il just stick with my fanatasies .Im in Africa by the way,in my contry its perfectly Normal to date a man that old, and even more perfectly normal to marry him OR even be secound wife.but ..hey who knows lets wait and see..but ur rite love does come in strange ways ..maybe ..who knows...

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7. myLot reputation of 81/100. shellback (232)   ranked 6,887 out of 38,607 in life   4 months ago

silly but there's nothing wrong with it, you like him thats fine, the inportant is dont ever make a move on him, its like a childs play, your'e so young, your feeling is like a flower, day & days after its going dry..think of it.


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

Thanks for the heads up.Possibley rite as well. Thats y Il just lie on it and think of my attracting as omething thats perfectly normal ..its either is shrivells up like a flower and die OR it grows ever more beautiful like a flower and shines...

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,607 in life   4 months ago

No, that's perfectly normal. As long as you know where you stand and know your limits.


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

Wat is my limit? If I like someone my age group, people will say -tell him.but because this man is OLDER than him, should I just keep it a secret and just hide wat I feel,in Fear? What are my limits here?

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. srganesh (3672)   ranked 1,094 out of 38,607 in life   4 months ago

You can get attracted to anybody and it is pure nature.I am glad that you are aware of it and you won't run into trouble by making any silly moves.Just admire him secretly and it will pass by soon.You need not feel guilty about it.Young boys have attraction to mature girls and it happens equally with young girls to mature men.


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

cool, thanks for that dude.I feel pretty normal now .I thought I was messed up for having these feelings towards a 60 year man ..Did I forget to mention a 60 year old "HOT" sexy man ...

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10. myLot reputation of 60/100. turones (187)   ranked 11,422 out of 38,607 in life   4 months ago

wow, i have also experienced the same thing but in my case, we only have a 13-year age gap. he's my boss and i also got attracted to him. good thing he also felt the same thing for me. he is now my husband and we've been married for six years with a 4-yr-old daughter.


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

At last ome positive FEEDBACK-HOPE!!! thanks for that, sre you serious? are you guys actually married now witha kid .WOW .Congrats-your my inspiration ...who knows ...


myLot reputation of 60/100. turones (187)   ranked 11,422 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

yes...we're married with a kid. he is now working abroad and we are only waiting for our papers so we could all be together there. we go online everyday for at least two hours so we could still see each other and our kid.


beautifulll (50)   ranked 6,818 out of 38,607 in life  4 months ago

thats so sweet...

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