Why are married men more attractive than single guys?  

I think the problem is, married guys away from home act like single guys, so you see the sanitised version, not the real McCoy. Naturally you're attracted, because he's making an effort. If you met him on his home ground, you probably wouldn't even like him. Nothing wrong with being attracted, but this guy could be bad news if it goes any further than looking and flirting. There's someone waiting for you somewhere, and he won't be sporting a gold band. Have patience, but carry on having fun as well.

I guess its all about experience. A married guy already proven that he can make a girl in-loved with him once. And want to prove that he can do it again. Other explanation from our counsellings shows that all couple are not 100% perfect. Lets say a married guy fells that her wife is only 90% of what he has expected (and vice-versa), so he tries to find that lacking 10% to another woman. My advise, for Christ sake, don't get in-love to a married man. Wake-up, wake-up before its too late.

Could it be because you know there won't be any commitment? I don't know...I'm grasping at straws here...

You say not just looks but everything else. But you keep coming back tom his looks. Now, before I go on, guys are really guilty of this too. In fact I believe you mention his looks more times than the other things. OK, remember, he's asking you out to lunch, even though he's married. Is that what you want? Why are looks that important? Do you believe if he was single and the two of you started dating that he wouldn't do that to you too? I guarantee you he would. Now, you get to marry this guy. What kind of annoying habits does he have that drive you crazy. But he's so good looking! Those good looks can disappear. I'm not saying he is definitly like that, but he sounds like it. So why are married men more attractive? For that reason. Everybody is so concerned about looks, they see someone and they say "I'm in love." Now, the single guy that is intersted in you. Why are you not intersted in him? What is it about him that you don't like? his looks? no sexy lips? The girlfriend I'm with now was not interested in getting into a relationship at all when she met me. She said I didn't know there were guys like you around. I can tell you, I'm not unattractive, but I don't turn heads either. But I treat her good. And we love each other. But partly because I'm more plain than good looking, and probably because I'm shy, until now, it's been a little hard finding girlfriends.But I sure know a lot of women who have married or gone out with guys and are unhappy.

You know this can lead to no good. You have been through it before and you know it is only going to cause you heart break, and his wife heartbreak, and possibly his children if he has any. It is hard for men to resist us ladies even the married ones so we need to be the voice of reason in these situations. Men like it when they know a woman is interested. I don't mean to sound like an old mother hen here but if you take it further there is no doubt that someone is going to get hurt and maybe a lot of people. Sorry to be the party pooper. When you go out to dinner with him find a couple of flaws about him and concentrate on them al night. That should help.

Think on the terms as well that he may be flirting as well as sleeping with other women.How would you feel if you were the wife as well.If the wife finds out do you know if he has children and how would you feel if he left her for you?How would you feel if that was your husband?

maybe because it is like a challenge or a conquest or a prize that u want to win. Who wants to lose?

maybe because it is like a challenge or a conquest or a prize that u want to win. Who wants to lose?

It's easy: they look hot because there's a warning sign on them, there's something good in doing bad things lol, and a mature look, experience, etc of a married man would make it more attractive. But in general i think it souldn't make any difference in front of a single guy but the sensation of doing something wrong

hi jellymonty The married guys are so hot because they are also'
safe, they are already committed so you do not have to worry about committing yourself to this man, you can enjoy forbidden fruits and not have to actually committ yourself to a single man. safe safe safe. ask any mental health person.With a single man you may get hurt,but let me clue you in with a married man you are more likely to really get hurt. Why not think about the women they are married to, would you really want to break up someone else's marriage because a guy is hot?Also that kind of heat is just lust if you want love look further.