How to react with your girlfriend?

Hi there Elie,
What sort of things does she get mad at you at? And how often does this happen?
Well, I think communication is very very important in a relationship. I understand that it can be healthy when angry to walk away and cool off. Not talking to your partner for 2 days at a time is the silent treatment which can be very painful and not good at all for the relationship. It doesn't help anything. I think that you need to talk to your girl at a time when you are not arguing and tell her how you feel about this. It sounds as if you really care deeply about her. Hopefully she will care enough about you to with you on this problem.

hahaha i'm kinda like your girlfriend. i also quarrel my boyfriend for no reason at all. that is because sometimes something gets me irritated and i release my irritation to him.

I would suggest talking to your girlfriend about this. If it bothers you so much and if you want to stay with her, then this is something that you guys will have to figure out. Believe it or not, silent treatment is a form of abuse, and should not be used in any types of relationship. Encourage openness in your communication, and for your part, listen to what she has to say without interruption, don't get overly defensive, keep your calm, and then figure out a way that you both can do something or change something to avoid another dispute.

Is this a constant behavior of your girlfriend? Or is this the only time that she has done this to you? Either way, I think the best possible solution for this is to give her some time off and let her emotions cool down a little bit. After a little while, try getting in touch with her and you both talk things over. It's always best to talk things after a period of hiatus so both of you could resolve such issues and you can prevent those from happening again, it's like she talks and opens up what she really felt and you too and after talking you come up and compromise each other. Communication is integral in any relationship, especially for a romantic relationship. Many relationships failed because of lack or poor communication. It's normal for people to act that way especially when they feel bad about something but such feeling won't last long and sooner or later, as soon as such negative feelings are gone, she'll be good to you.

Just a give away tip: Don't fall into the trap of just letting things go and pass when everything is ok already. As I said earlier, even though things are ok (any negative feelings are gone), both of you should talk about the issue and go to the root, why did she feel that way. Many couples failed to do that and in the end the fight over the same things over and over again.

dang you must really make her upset.. but you need to first of all stop getting her that upset and say sorry. but sound like you both need to learn to talk and listen to each other

Do not keep asking her"what is wrong with you?". Obviously she is mad.You can get in touch with her after two days and at that moment she will not be mad.