husband does not love anymore

I think you should know why.if he has another woman.i think you should leave your husband .if you don't have any child it's easier to deal.why stick a man who does n't love you? you could find another one who love you and you also love him.

Is it possible to find out why? Well, one may not be always able to reason with everyone of our feelings. This question is because somnetimes it may so happen that the feeling develops from zero, and then maybe we can track that down ad snuff it out. Again it may also be possible that he has develped feelings elsewhere.If he is fully into a new relationship leaving would be the only better alternative. Now, let's say he is unattached[has no other women in his life, but might have been bored to have it with you, then I surely appreciate his sense of responsibility or commitment or respect or fear of social response. To leave him or not depends on how comfortable you are with shouldering the responsibility of bringing upthe children.

I am sorry to hear that but I can understand a little about your situation.
Love isn't always as permanent as women expect. It's much shorter for men, remember this.
one good thing is he is frank to you at this. At least he lets you know his feelings. It's better than hide, don't you think?
If I were you, my first reaction to this would be talk to him, trying to figure out what is going wrong between us.
If it is not my fault or nobody's fault, it's time for me to think over this. I need to find out reasons, good and just reasons to remain beside him. For example, I have to rely on him economically, have children to raise, no place to live in and things like that.
If there are no good reasons, I can either wait for a while to let himself calm down and to return to my arms. If that still doesn't work, then it's time to say goodbye.

A few years ago, a girl friend of mine called me the other day, crying on the phone. She suddenly told me that her husband wanted to divorce her because he was fascinated by someone else and wanted to be with that woman. see? there is no mistake in my friend's side. They had a one-year-old boy at that time. He must have gone mad, I think.
Then, it didn't take long for him to regret. And from then on, they have been happily staying together, buying a bigger house, a private car.

if that is the case,that's good he has the guts to confess you.

If you don't have a kid,that's easier,but if you have had kids,you can ask support.
I know it would be so hard to accept things that easy,but you have to face the reality.
It is harder to live with a person who doesn't love you at all.
What is the reason for keeping him with you when he doesn't exist anymore.

When love fades,it is like living with a person who doesn't exist.
So,you have to made the right decision.

Talk with him,clear everything,and settle everything in a peaceful mind and forgiving heart.

There is nothing much you can do to bring back the love that you once shared. It has met its expiry date prematurely. Make yourself happy and go all out to socialize.

so sad for you.

the foundation of marriage is love. if love doesn't exist anymore between you and your husband, what for? let him choose and tell him you're letting him go. give him time to think..the important is its not your fault. talk to him, ask him what he's reason? whatever his decision, accept it. you're not meant to be.

hi indafath,
although your husband does not love you anymore it is still not clear what his other reasons or he want a divorce from you or not. Some couples remain together after saying they do not love each other anymore and try to rekindle their relationship as it really feel guilty to ask for a divorce when you see a partner have no fault.

You know what your husbands very lucky to have you as his mate . I mean have never confronted a girl like you who believes in true love and values it would hangon while while your mates feeling so ill about you itself . I wish there are more girls where you come from, really i think you should let him engage in any affair so he will know how very less will he find a woman so loving and patient as you . Good luck with you, regards

oh, i know how you're feeling and i pray that you'll patch things up with him again. why don't you ask him for the reason why he believes that he has fallen out of love? as his wife, you have the right to know. maybe in knowing the truth, you'll realize a lot of things about yourself and your relationship and there could still be a room for reconciliation. maybe your husband is just confused because he saw a woman who seems perfect for him and makes him happy but that is not enough reason to judge that he doesn't love you anymore. you are his wife, the one person he has chosen to spend his life with and it takes more than that.

If there is no love anymore than i think one of you should leave as this will just add the the misery of being told that you are not loved anymore.There are lots of people out there who have left their partners to find somebody that they love as well as to be loved by another person.Good luck.