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iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love1 month ago

I have a special friend online. We argued something really confidential that ends up really bad. I hate making him mad at me, but i can't control that. He hates me really bad that he ends up blocking me from his list. We never had a communication until now. He knows that i love him. And I have a feeling that he checks me out if I am going to message him. But I am afraid to do that so. I know in my self that I'm afraid of losing him. I don't know what to do. Something inside me encourages me to message him now. But I don't know how to start.. Can anyone please give me some advice on this?..:(

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 33/100. loganirado (227)   ranked 8,444 out of 11,771 in love   1 month ago

Hey would you like some help? You could give me his contact and I would approach him as your friend from a far place and i would ask him how are you doing and so on, since I saw somewhere you are friends (facebook or whatever the social community you use, or you just called me on phone).

This way, I could get you the information you need, without he suspecting anything:p
I could also try to perform some reconciliation act, but this is not something I'm used too


iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

i've met him in youtube thru his videos. thanks for the offer you ask..^_^.. i'm still afraid..

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 2,245 out of 11,771 in love   1 month ago

Hi ORANGE,

First of all I would like to congratulate you on your
sincere love and also you must have him as a good partner in order
to have the good life . Most of the peoples would love many peoples
on online and also they are liked each other in order to go for the
good friends or good partners or for the marriage. So you have to send
the message to him and also explain the situation why you have got angry
on that argument, finally say that you are so sorry for that happened.
Then he is more happy and would reply immediately in order to have you
as a good partner. So do it right now and don't lose him forever.

Have a nice day.


iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

thanks for the congratulations and for the encouragement.. yeah.. i sincerely love him and accept him for the way he is.. i dont know how did this happened to us.. for now i am planning to create a simple but meaningful message to him.. and send it to him later.. btw... happy mylotting..^_^

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3. Vhe_helua (8)   1 month ago

Oh my,
What i can say girl?
We have same situation!
I knew how hard it is getting sick of think that interesting guy, then feel to much happy whenever you catch him online. Especially if you also feel that he feel same way too..
ohh such a wonderful feeling that hard to explain.
But for my own opinion friend if u really want to work out your relationship with him you have to be brave enough and risk everything! You knew low down your pride and reconcile there nothing lost, you dont knew him personaly so if he still deny to communicate then its his lost not yours...but if he like you that much, then I knew love will see you though...
Just be brave friend and move on...


iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

thanks for the response friend.. I already send him a message last sunday.. and gladly he responded back immediately the same day.. glad we were ok now.. he accepted my apology.. glad I made the right decision..and your suggestion and other mylotters suggestions helps me alot to decide.. happy mylotting friend..^_^

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. weasel81 (1084)   ranked 2,801 out of 11,771 in love   1 month ago

appolgise to him, and explain things, let him tell you why he got cranky as well. have a good d and m. if he likes you enough he'll respond.
take the plunge at least then you know you tried, it might take him a bit to get over it but he may come back.

oxox


iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

I have a good news for you.. I've tried to apologize to him last sunday.. and he responded to me that day too.. We were ok now.. He accepted my apology.. I guess I made the right decision as soon as posible..^_^.. thanks for the response.. happy mylotting..^_^


myLot reputation of 98/100. weasel81 (1084)   ranked 2,801 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

that's good to hear. i had a huge fight with my work mate earlier this yr, we didn't really talk for about a few days after that. but slowly we both got over it.

glad to hear everything is great, have fun.

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5. truckergirl (13)   ranked 8,430 out of 11,771 in love   1 month ago

Hello,
I am sorry about your dilemma. I have learned along time ago to follow my instincts. If your instincts are tell you to message him, go for it. There are so many things I wish I could ask you first. I will have to go by what you wrote. If you make him mad and you can not control that, that's really not good..
You asked for help on what to say. Why don't you say to him what you have said to us my lotter's... That your afraid to lose him, and really let him know your true feelings. But, please be careful. If you do make him mad all the time, that's really not good... if you really care about him, you will find a way not to do this all the time. Thats a sure way of losing someone..No one likes drama all the time..be careful


iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

hello too.. i guess i'll follow my instincts.. no, i don't make him mad all the time.. just this recent situation and october last year.. he's not that mad that time(last year).. he got jealous for my college professor.. coz someone told him a false story about us.. and i'll never forget that..

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6. myLot reputation of 71/100. bird123 (1104)   ranked 3,171 out of 11,771 in love   1 month ago

Do you know that there is a thin line between love and hate. People get emotional and argue but they usually cool off and do some thinking. If this is really your true love, you won't loose him because of this. I bet he is scratching his head wondering where your messages are but too proud to write you himself. Email him a greeting card. Tell him how you feel.

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7. myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (20125)   ranked 2,340 out of 11,771 in love   1 month ago

hi iloveorange Why not go with your gut feeling as I know
'most women who do that cannot go wrong.we all have that
sixth sense. So send him a message now, You have nothing
to lose and he just might want to be hearing from you.
Just start like you always have, be gentle and loving'
and tell him what you have told us.Tell him you love him,if
he truly loves you he will respond. It would be better if you
two could meet as this online has its difficulties in that '
sometimes people play hoaxes on each other. good luck . let
us know how you make out.


iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

hello there.. I already send him a message last sunday..you were right we have sixth sense.. coz surprisingly he responded back immediately.. we were ok now.. glad yours and other mylotters suggestions helps me alot.. wanna say many thanks to you.. happy mylotting..^_^

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8. Chrisdude (69)   ranked 3,731 out of 11,771 in love   1 month ago

Anyone who treats you like that is clearly no worthy of being with you.
If you really care about him you should stop messaging him and see if he really cares about you and he tries to contact you. Because if it true love then it will find a way to bring you two Together no matter what.

Just believe in Fate and that god has a plan for you and he just
wants you to be happy


iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

yeah.. maybe God has plans for me.. We were ok now.. thanks for your response.. happy mylotting..

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. cutepink_13 (454)   ranked 923 out of 11,771 in love   1 month ago

well what you have is just surface feelings because you have not meet personally. try ask him again and whatever will be his reply thats what will happen.


iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

hello there.. thanks for your response.. I already send him a message last sunday.. and he responded back immediately.. glad we're ok now.. happy mylotting..

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10. myLot reputation of 68/100. enigma1987 (217)   1 month ago

I really think you should keep sending him messages of apologies and if he still ignores you then he certainly does not deserve you. If he does not forgive you then you should stop wasting your time on him. If he cares about you he would understand you.


iloveorange05 (80)   ranked 1,180 out of 11,771 in love  1 month ago

hello there.. glad I made the right decision.. and all of yours and other mylotters suggestions helped me alot.. I send him a message last sunday.. and surprisingly he responded back immediately.. he accepted my apology.. really thanks alot.. happy mylotting..

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