Should I forgive my friends?

I can understand why you would be a little upset,
I dont really know what to suggest you do. I take it you want to find out why you were not invited, but then you must be prepared to accept what ever reason is given
Maybe its best just to try and forget it,

Have you had a tiff with any of them recently? If not (since that could be a reason) then I would ask them casually, without tone, why they didnt ask..or better yet say something like "wow I would have liked to have gone too", again say it without tone....Maybe they have a valid reason...who knows...But I would try to get to the bottom of it before deciding whether or not they even NEED to be forgiven ya know..

Well i reckon it could be time to have a break of your own, go on your own trip and forget about them doing that. A clear frame of mind will help you make the right decision on what to do here. There are more opportunities out there for better more loving friends.

hi soleya I think if it were me I would ask quietly why
they did not ask you to come along. Once you get the
reason then you will know how to proceed. If they just
waffle around, tell them that you have better things to
do than to mess around with them. you will find a new
group of friends that will include you in everything.

If I were in your situation, I would try to find out what happened and first of all I would make sure that it wasn't some kind of misunderstanding (maybe I didn't receive a message they sent me or something like that) If I discovered that they didn't invite me, because they didn't want me to come or didn't care if I came, I would become quite upset.

It is possible that they didn't care about you, but there could be other reasons, too. Maybe they didn't ask you because you have said no a couple of times, or because you have been too busy spend time with them. There can be a lot of reasons, and you can only find out why if you talk to them about it.

I know it's hurtful that they did this but they have no obligation to invite you. Talk to them about it and tell them how you feel. Maybe they thought you wouldn't be interested in where they were going or maybe thought you were busy. Regardless, little things like this should not jeopardize your friendship. I'm sure they do care about you.

The best thing to do would not be to confront them but to talk to them and see exactly what happened. You never know why you werent invited so its best to take it easy and not be mad or confrontational, i hope i helped a bit.

Hi soleya,




Just forget about it, they are not really your friends to d that to you, just act as if dind,'t know about or forgot about if they mentioned it to you, they are not worth thinking about, move on and be happy.



Tamara

Hi dear!
It sounds really bad that your friends did not take you along with them and neither did they bother to inform you about their Programme. I think, it would be advisable to talk to them so that exact reasons of leaving you could be revealed. Please do not come to any conclusion so soon that your friends do not care about you, there may be some communication gap and till you communicate with them, it is difficult to guess the exact reasons. If you talk to them and come to know that they left you deliberately, then you can make out that they have started caring less about you and whether they still deserved to be your friends. All the best to you.

Soleya, forgive your friends. I think it just a little misunderstanding. Trust me, everything is gonna be alright soon. Never follow your temporary emotion. Better you ask them the reason why they leave you alone. I think it will be more wisely if you solve this problem peacefully. So you could hangout together with them in another chance....