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myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships3 months ago

It is so easy to see that you are falling inlove. You're happy and excited to see him/her always, you just can't stop thinking about him/her, and you always call him/her up and talk and talk and talk... All of us really like the early phase of relationship, we're all on high and wish that it will last forever.

But when trouble shakens the relationship, only a few face the challenge hand in hand and the rest they choose to do it in separate ways...

If you're in that circumstance, how will you know that is over? How will you know that you're falling out? or vise versa... How will you know that he/she is falling out of love?

 
 
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34momma (4861) response was accepted on 11/1/2009.
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tags:  love, relationship, relationships, falling out of love, evidence
 
1. myLot reputation of 96/100. snowy22315 (8140)   ranked 1,465 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

I think when you lose respect for the person the love is soon to follow. Excitement and the initial attraction phase in a relationship is bound to fade, but you can still love and be in love with the person but when everything they do irritates you
it is a pretty good indication you are no longer in love, or that you are no longer seeing their good qualities.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Yes, respect is the indication that you're still into your loved one. Trust can still be mend but respect, lifetime is not enough...

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2. myLot reputation of 74/100. vincyk (159)   ranked 4,023 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

I think to know you are falling out or not is as easy as you know whether you are falling in love.We all know ourselves feelings though st it will cheat us but most of the times it is telling the truth and especially for the lovers .If one of them feels falling out of this love affair,the other one can must feel about it.So just trust about your feelings and if he is not so often to get touch with you or he is different from the begginnings maybe you'd better to have a sense about...


myLot reputation of 86/100. akotalagato (879)   ranked 13,801 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

yes i agree. you can definitely feel it. it is usually the little things that was usually done but are done no longer. you can feel that the bond between the two of you is slowly fading away. and it will come to a point that you are both indiferent to each other. if you are inlove you usually notice the little things your partner does. and it is these little things are gone once the relationship starts to break.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

I think cheating is a sign that you're already falling out. You never show respect to your partner's feelings anymore. You can trust you feeling but when you're in that relationship, it really is hard to tell... I guess if you already have the hunch, its better that the two of you should talk.

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3. myLot reputation of 79/100. spalladino (9083)   ranked 210 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

When you've tried everything and one or both of you are still unhappy...or the problem(s) still exist, it's over. Many times couples hang on too long, hoping that something will happen to change their circumstances but the wise person looks at the reality of the relationship and knows when to move on.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

I admit that I'm one of those who "hanging on too long", maybe because I still hopeful that everything will work out. I still believe that there is still a little love that needs to be showered. But if my partner no longer cooperate or no longer willing to work things out... then so be it.. There's nothing more I can do... Usually it takes me 3 months before I start dating and jump into new relationship...

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4. marcelinka (84)   3 months ago

I think it`s easy to know when love is not there anymore... but not easy to accept!!! inside of u there is a voice that tells u when love is gone, it`s up to u to listen to it, I never do, and probably that`s the reason i`m always hurt at the end.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

I totally agree with acceptance. Maybe the reason behind why we hang on a little longer is that we still wish that everything will work out...

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. buping (574)   ranked 6,830 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

hi sexyposh, i think love can be lasted forever as you cherish each other. i was with my ex for 5 years. and every with him was very happy, it did not show that we were with 5 years. i think you can do something that made your boyfriend realize that you are still in love. romance never out of days. you can do something for him, such as making him a dilicious dinner and tell him how much you love him.:)


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Well I think it really takes two to tango. It has to be the two of you who will work the relationship out, since the two of you are part of it. Not only one who will make realize the other...

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. ybong007 (1064)   ranked 1,998 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

There are usually signs everywhere and you'll know that it's over when you accept it, first there will be rejection and then denial and finally acceptance. Cheers!

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7. myLot reputation of 85/100. rhan04 (183)   ranked 2,764 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

Sometimes relationships end not because you fall out of love. Based on my own experience, there was a time in the relationship that I felt like love was not enough to continue fighting for it. There are other factors that make a relationship work and love, although it is very important, is not the only basis that we should consider. For example, in a relationship, once the trust is broken, it's hard to regain it again. This causes arguments and in the long run, people just get tired of it and decide to separate. And then they just wait until the time comes that they don't feel anything anymore. You'll know it once you are already there.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

I know someone who broke the trust of his girlfriend. But still the girl accept him a million times. Weird huh?? lols! Anyway, my point is TRUST can still be mend but respect-never. Once you lose ones respect, there is no reason for the two of you to be together again...

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8. myLot reputation of 86/100. triplejazzm51 (276)   ranked 13,433 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

Well i am falling out of love when, i dont think of him anymore, i am not excited to see him, i can see his flaws, i dont miss him, i dont care about him, im not happy being with him, i am not inspired anymore, i dont want to talk to him and i stopped dreaming of us anymore.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

okey... Well, may I ask how do you deal with it? How do you tell your partner on how you feel? And if your partner insist to work things out how do you react or how do you tell them??


myLot reputation of 86/100. triplejazzm51 (276)   ranked 13,433 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Well, that is the saddest and most difficult thing to do. Actually it happened only once in my life. What i did was, i avoided seeing him first for a few days to gather my strength. I did'nt have the courage to tell him. After few days i could not avoid him anymore so i told him that i had to focus on my studies first (that was during college days) and having a boyfriend will distruct me from my studies. I told him i might not have time for the relationship and i offered friendship. Good he understood and told me that he can wait but i told him that he is free to start a relationship with other girls if he found someone better than me.

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. 34momma (4861)   ranked 45 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

this is what i know works. if you really love that person, you will do everything you can to make it work. and if you have to walk away because it didn't. then at least you can walk away knowing that you tried everything you can. you know when it's over when what you have done is not working. when you don't see that look in that persons eye when they look at you. when he/she touches you and that spark is gone. that's how you know.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Wow! like I can't agree more on your comment. I love it. I think this should every person do when they're in a crumbling down relationship. Thanks for sharing your views...

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10. myLot reputation of 45/100. Hvaniday1 (251)   ranked 5,518 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

Hi, you will know when all the bad guys were being capture and the end credit starts to roll up. lol Just kidding.

You'll know what will happen next because you can sense...


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (130)   ranked 2,816 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Well most of us can sense it but in denial. I think that is the most difficult part...


myLot reputation of 45/100. Hvaniday1 (251)   ranked 5,518 out of 23,403 in relationships  2 months ago

Don't worry, take it slow and let it develop naturally...

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