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fwabam5000 (1)   ranked 2,387 out of 3,603 in lover2 months ago

Is it bad that I'm in love with a married woman? She's in love with me too. What should we do about this?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. learn2earn (10910)   ranked 13 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

If the woman is married and her husband is still alive, then your love affair is a forbidden love. It is not only bad but it is sinful and wicked. I hope that you realize there are a lot of people that will be hurt if you continue such relationship. I hope too that you realize that its really not good and that you end up that relationship or you will be found out. wub


myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (9011)   ranked 319 out of 3,603 in lover  2 months ago

Hi learn, I could not have said it better. Let me guess here......She probably says her husband doesn't understand her! This relationship should stop right away. There aremany single women for him to date. If she ends up leaving her husband she will probably cheat on this guy too.


myLot reputation of 94/100. free_man (529)   ranked 550 out of 3,603 in lover  2 months ago

I agree with both Muscles4me and Lern2earn. They are right if you continue this forbidden relationship this woman does leave her husband she will most likely cheat on you too in the long run. There are too many single women out there looking for a nice guy to have a relationship with that won't cheat on you. You got to stop this before it goes any further or someone could get hurt. What if she is married to a real mean person and he finds out and comes after you with a weapon? What then? One or both of you could get hurt by this husband and is it all worth it? Tell her if she wants to leave her husband then do so and when they are divorced then you will see her but not until she does that. But this woman could be leading you down primrose lane to get you hurt. She may be trying to make her husband jealous. What ever you do know that this relationship is not alright with God. Be very cautious you might be heading into a trap.

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2. oit236 (25)   ranked 1,964 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

It will be difficult for both of you because each could ruin a relationship. No one like to do that in either way. Think of it several times before you decide. The one you love should end first her current relationship if he really loves you.

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3. beautifulBrooke (76)   ranked 1,956 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

As long as she is married, there is no future with her. I'm assuming by your post that she is still with her husband and not seperated from him, yet still "legally" married.
There are too many woman in this world to choose from, and you deserve more than to be #2 in anyone's life. And that's what you are. She can't take you to holiday parties, family get-togethers, childrens functions, anything. You are a secret in her closet. I'm sorry to be so blunt but it's true.
And...if she's cheating on him, she would cheat on you. No matter what the situation is, cheaters have a way of justifying their actions.
Go out in this big ole' world and find a single woman you can love and who will also appreciate you. She's out there, just be patient, you will find her, and she won't hide you in the closet! Best wishes!

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. itzmee1009 (184)   ranked 1,955 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

Please try to ignore each other,this kind of relationship is not good for each others life

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. EARLZHAN (412)   ranked 1,949 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

Hi there friend it's better to stop your relationship it's not good. You're making a very bad mistake. this verse might help you.. Exodus 20:14 your already violating this commandment..

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. jugsjugs (3221)   ranked 693 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

Do you think that she will ever leave her husband for you?Have you ever seen her out with her husband,if you did see her with her husband how would you feel inside.If you have a place where she can move into then why has she not moved in with you if she loves you that much.Ask yourself these questions and you will have the answers to your question.

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. syankee525 (3502)   ranked 646 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

well a real man wouldnt mess around with her, because for one it could turn bad, two you wouldnt want your wife to do that too. you should tell her if she wants you as you want her then she should break it off with her husband.
but most guys wouldnt care,

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. fjaril (4519)   ranked 629 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

I am sorry this has happened to you both. It should never have gotten this far. Never mind what religions say .. the worst thing is that it is a betrayal and that has consequences..You didn't say if YOU were married, but the same goes for YOUR situation. There is incredible anger, hurt, and guilt when you pursue and is she also a mother?? and what about the reactions to her by her husband, her children, her parents, her friends..if it is discovered... It will be a living hell for her.. is that what you wish for the woman you say you love?? AND what about the anger that will be directed to YOU as well. Can this also be dangerous??

No,, be a man and walk away from this situation.. as far as you have to go to get away from this mistake. The heart is easily led astray but the mind must be clear and sound to know where to STOP!

I wish, for your sake, that you do the best thing now as soon as possible.. for the both of you and everyone else's sake too.. before it is too late! I KNOW IT WILL BE VERY HARD!!
We learn from our mistakes, because we never forget them.

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. jwfarrimond (2404)   ranked 1,952 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

That rather depends on if she's married to you or not..you don't say. lol

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. ilyzium (436)   ranked 1,960 out of 3,603 in lover   2 months ago

Hi,
Well we don't really know the circumstances behind anything really. What kind of marriage do they have or what is lacking in it for her, that she's interested in you? Also does she have kids in this marriage? Are you two thinking in terms of long term or a shorter temporary situation? I don't know fwabam, but these things rarely work out and usually just lead to a illicit type of affair really. You need to consider all the parties involved that would be hurt by your "affair". You have to consider though that if she's cheating on her husband with you, than who's to say that she wouldn't cheat on you with some other guy? There are a lot of married slimey people out there that are just bored or just want a "booty call". I don't know her so I won't assume anything, but I think you deserve to be with someone who is foremost, single and unattached with no baggage. Also what about holidays like Christmas for example, do you really just want to be the other guy? I'm sure she'll likely be with her husband and kids eating XMAS dinner in the dining room, together as a family, while you pine for her to be with you. That sounds really sad fwabam, and I'd like to see you get together with someone other than this woman, someone that will make you happy and is above all else, available. A lot of married people swear that they'll leave their spouses to be with a love interest, but from what I've seen in my social circle, it rarely ever seems to happen. Think twice before you do anything. Good luck to you though, I do wish you well and I wouldn't want to see you hurt.

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