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myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   ranked 2,284 out of 14,939 in parenting2 months ago

When you were pregnant did people always ask whether you wanted a girl or a boy? How did you respond?

Some woman say, "Yes" or "I don't care, I just want a healthy baby." But some women know what they want and are happy to say it: a girl that they can dress in cute clothes and bond with over girlie things later in life. Or a son because boys are "easier to raise" and they're supposed to love their moms more than girls do.

How about you? Did you want a boy or a girl? Why? What did you have?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. jndlponti (414)   ranked 8,338 out of 14,939 in parenting   2 months ago

before when I was pregnant I thought that my baby was a boy for the first four months. But my husband said that it is a girl since he had been dreaming for many nights already that he will be having a baby girl. Well actually whether a girl or a boy is okay with us as long as the baby is complete and healthy. But when during the 6months already we have an ultrasound and we found out that it is a girl, we were both happy with it. So much happy... And hoping that next time it will be a baby boy (that will be 6 years from now)...

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. crazydaisy (1264)   ranked 3,950 out of 14,939 in parenting   2 months ago

I was just happy having a baby girl I was hoping into having 2 but I just had a daughter which I very happy about that I didn't have any more because dad said no...

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3. myLot reputation of 54/100. GaryJoule (206)   2 months ago

If I have choice, I prefer boy to girl.
It's just like what you said, boys are easier to raise.
After they grow up, sons are more easier to communicate with Dad.
what's more, as a Dad, I have a lot of common topics to talk with my son, that's just what I like the best.
For a daughter, I can't discuss with her which chick is hot, which beauty is sexy, how to date your loved friend... This is really unconvenient.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. Buchi_bulla (2251)   ranked 892 out of 14,939 in parenting   2 months ago

When I was pregnant for the first time, I wanted a boy child because we were five sisters and all three brothers died when they were small. So I wanted a boy baby. But now I feel girl baby comes close to the parents and thinks more about the parents and their requirements, tastes and preferences than a boy.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. jaiho2009 (1386)   ranked 1,347 out of 14,939 in parenting   2 months ago

Hello dear,

When i get pregnant to my first child,i really wish it would be a girl,i always tell my friends about it.And i am very thankful to have my eldest child as a girl.And with my second child,i wish it would be a boy..and it was again granted.
I just wish to have 2 kids...but,my ob-gyne told me try for another one...and,i had another boy.
I am happy with my kids,and now that they are grown ups...i miss their toddler days happy

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. enola1692 (1630)   ranked 1,815 out of 14,939 in parenting   2 months ago

Well I didn't care for my first aslong as the baby was heathly but for my second I wanted a boy but whenI saw her i forgot I wanted a boy an wouldnt trade her for the world

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. yan_blue8 (683)   2 months ago

Hi feodda! I remember when i was pregnant, most of the people asked me what i would want to have and i replied with no hesitations, a BOY. I always wanted to have one. Seen in my friends that have baby boys, they are more behave i guess, compared to girls. Yes, easy to raise and caring too. Never want a baby girl that time. So i conditioned my mind that it would be a boy. Ultrasound said its a boy too. When i gave birth, i remembered the doctor said, "Yan, its a girl!" and i was like, "You say what doc?" And the doctor showed me the baby's organ. lol!I feel sad about it at first cause i expect to much for my baby's gender.Later on, i realized its not with the gender of the baby, but its because you are the mother of that baby. I really love my baby girl and i don't have regrets having her.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. doryvien (947)   ranked 9,060 out of 14,939 in parenting   2 months ago

Hi Feodda,

Yes when I was pregnant people asked me this question many times, and always my answer was, it doesn't matter for as long as the baby is healthy. I never really thought of the gender of my baby when I conceived, but my husband was very vocal that he wanted a boy. Well his wish was granted. On my second child, still I didn't feel it matters, and when we had another baby boy were just as happy. I've always believed children are blessings and they should be accepted and loved no matter what the gender is.

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9. suisuideying (88)   2 months ago

i hope that my children are girls,because girs pretty cute and very intimate.i think the boys very much for his parents to worry about,he would grow up a lot of problems,i perfer girls.

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10. Nurina (11)   2 months ago

I think between men and women is the same, if we have children he will someday she will marry and we'll have a female child. so a man or a woman as well

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