Are you angry if your partner forgot your birthday?

First of all I'm not one that gets crazy about my birthday. I don't like alot of attention thrown on me. I love to do it to others though. I guess I would be upset not angry. However, for a person to forget they have to be not in love with you anymore. I could never forget my boyfriends birthday and he wouldn't forget mine. I don't know if I would remind him. I think if he was to forget I would wait to see how long till he realized he forgot my birthday. If and when he questioned me and said I'm so sorry for forgetting your birthday then I would probably say its no big deal its just another birthday. If he still loved me he would surprise me with dinner out and a beautiful gift. If he didn't do anything after the fact of realizing he forgot then I would begin to think he didn't care. Especially if I went all out for his birthday two months ago.

I wouldn't be mad if my significant other would happen to forget my birthday, or any annual date like that. The way I look at it, I tend to forget every once in a while because I tend to have a rather stressful life. It wouldn't be right for me to get mad at her when I probably have done it to her at some point.

Actually I don't care more about my birthday, I always treat that day as my usual days...so if my partner forget my birthday, I will not feel angry or crazy...but I will remind my wife that why she doesn't remember my birthday or ask her that the day if have some special meaning to us just like a joke...of course, if you all can remember some special day (wedding day, birthday, first date day etc) for each other, I believe this can make your relationship more steady...thanks and happy mylotting

Maybe i will choose conplain but not angry because i treat it as he is too busy or he have sth really important or he will say happy birthday later.If all that haven't come true,i'll try to talk to him what i am thinking about and ask him for replay but not angry.Angry sense too useless and maybe ruining the good mood of myself.

I think it's doesn't matter for my boy friend to forget my birthday.In fact, it won't happen,because i will remind of him,and at the same time he will ask my wish,then he will give me some gift.But i must tell you i know how busy he is,and i know he loves me very much,so i don't worried anything.In my mind,i won't judge anything just base on one thing,so if my boyfriend forget something he has promised i will angry,then if he send me a apologize,i will forgive him.

I prefer to listen to his explanation at first.

If the explanation is acceptable, that's ok, move on.
If it's just a excuse, I might take a second thought about our relationship.

No I do not get angry if people forget my birthday. As a matter of fact my birthdays are sad now because I always celebrated wirh family and most of thm are deceased now. I still have my mom who is 89 but there is nobody else. I also have friends that remember and will take me out to eat.

Yes i get angry sasalove. I expect my partner to know everything about me and remember all the special occasions that is very important to me. If he forgot that means you are not important to him.

This question is not necessary if we have understanding partner. I mean i forgot my parents birthday. I even forgot my own last time. I don't have partner but i think if i get one she needs to know about my forgetting habit. Else there will be lot of misunderstanding. People have lot of expectations in life, they expect more attention. And because of this they expect partner to wish on birthday.

I can understand this but it's not making any sense to me that if my partner forgets my b'day then what's the big deal? It happens. As long as partner understands me and i understand my partner i don't have to make misunderstanding with such expectations.

well it has never happend to me.. my partner always remember my birthday.. i am so lucky lol.. but if she forgets i dont think i will mind. coz ilove her a lot and i know she loves me a lot too. i cant judge her love towards me from one incident can i .. if the same thing happens again and again.. i will have to do something then..lol