its not easy to be me...

hi tontunan!

yeah, coz other people just see the comfort that we have, the beautiful things that we got...but they fail to see that we are also like them, having those difficulties in one way or another...and they don't know the pressure of being our self...
on my part, when i feel tired, haha i wish i could also be like the others...huh! but you know, even if its not easy to be me, i still like my life the way it is...as a whole & well, contented with what i got...

thanks for sharing...

hello danitykane!

haha..i guess that's really how life is, we wanted to have things that we don't have & sometimes think that what's good for others are also good for us... which i guess is not...
coz all of us have our differences...
well its good that you have learn now how to live your life with less expectation & just be happy & contented with what you have... and yes, by learning those things, our life will be easier & happier...

i think the best for us is to know how to appreciate the things that we have...

thanks!

hello shibham!

good to see you here, how are you?

well, most of the people will find it really nice if you have a stable job...coz it also means security. hmmm, may i ask? what makes you say no? aren't you satisfied with the life you have now? hmmm i know, maybe because there's still something missing... a wife?

have a nice day!

i agree... people who appreciates what they have & contented with what they get are the happier one...

thanks misterwit!

It's OK you don't have to thank me....I am not responding because I am a good guy or your friend....mylot pays me for responding so I will respond whether you thank me or not so next time remember not to thank me........$$$$$

haha...okay misterwit...i'm taking back my thanks!

That's more like it....go girl....

hello deepak!

that's really true... we just tend to see the things that appears to be good in other people's life, thus sometimes brought us to jealousy or even envious...
but what we fail to see is the other side of their life...the struggles that they've going through to be themselves...
i guess, all of us are really a unique individual with our own strength & weaknesses...

happy sunday friend!

Yes, we all have different stories and our lives and many do not know about our inner stories and struggle and vice versa.

true...and its only us who knows our self better...

Yes ck, many secrets are only known to us.

hello anning!

so how are you now? i'm glad to hear that with your efforts you were able to succeed in your life...i hope that continue being well & happy with your own life...
i agree that one must enjoy owns life no matter how difficult life may appear, there's still so many good things about it...just look on the brighter side...

hi daisy...

hehe, sometimes people makes comment without even thinking...huh!
yes its true, money doesn't bring permanent happiness... it does bring happiness but just for a short period of time...

well, we can always try enjoying our own life as well... coz you never know, some people also see your life as a better one...

hi mrsravoon!

great to hear that...that's good for you that being you is easy...

yeah, that's the problem to some, taking things for granted...

hello sonuherenz!

haha, i guess nothing beats our childhood days when it comes to comfort & living life easily, coz during those days, we don't have as much responsibility as today...

and its true, we can't escape the fact, the reality of life that we have to live...
guess at one point of our life, we can still say that our its easy to be us but of course there area also times that we think that its not easy to be us...specially when we are having some problems...

Hi Cyera..

yes...when ever i get into such troubles i feel that way.....but cant help it..only can wish everything will get fine...

Take Care

yeah & well, God is always there to help & guide us...
and i think everything that's happening to us have its reasons and i think, we can handle our problems, just need to have courage to face it...

Hi Cyera

Yes, Very true..You know in India we have a saying " What ever Happens to us, Happens for our good ".. it may be good or Bad what ever...

Take Care

yes...for i guess everything has got its reason...

Hi Cyera...

Hey i think there is northing left now in our conversation..or else will go on with the same lines 'for a reason for a reason'..Ha Ha

Lets change the topic...tell me what you do cyera...? Are you married...?

Take Care

hehe...well, yes i am already married for 5 years now and no kids yet...
and you?

Oh...nice...cyera i have been observing most of the philippianes in mylot are married, that to at a very young age, i dint came across any without getting marriage....is that true people there get married at sooner age...?

Im not married...still looking for someone:)

hi!

well, i think there's also lots of single Filipina here...i have some on my friend's list...
well, there are some who marries at young age & there are also some who don't.
like me, i marry at the age of 23...i already finish schooling then... but i also have a cousin who marries at 19...but its because she got pregnant...

you don't have gf? hehe so, are you going to have an arrange marriage?

Ha Ha...

No yaar...i dont have any...still waiting for my dream girl to come....she dint even come in my dreams yet...i dont know about reality...:(

Lets see i will get an arraged one or the loved one...i dont know...

Take Care

hehe hello yaar!

well, well...maybe she's on her way to you already...haha just preparing herself to meet you in your dreams! anyway, you are still young and you still have more time...

hmmm, but which one you prefer? the arranged or the love marriage? i guess it will be better if the girl that you will marry is the one that you really love...

:) ha ha...really...but yaar she is taking too much time...simple girl will do.. by what ever means she is coming, i dont know, she should catch the fastest one for me...so that she could reach here soon.:)

My parents are really free...they have given me the choice of choosing my own patner..that too of any religion (u know in india we have too many religions)....People who gets this opportunity they dont find any one....and the people who are restricted to this...they find their patners..and face several family problems from both ends...:)

I dont know yaar..if it is a love marriage then i wont have any problem..or if it is arranged one, then before marriage, i would like to spend lots of time with her, to know her...then deside. i dont have problems either ways...

See those above lines...it sees one should face several problems before marriage...:)

How about you...? arranged or love...???

Take Care

:)

hehe...hello friend!

well you'll never know, she will come on the time that you least expected...so be ready!

well its nice to know that your parents gives you freedom with regard to this matter...

so, both ways, there's some pros & cons...huh! but anyway, as long as you are happy with your decision and you feel that you are doing the right thing and you are emotionally ready for marriage then i think that will be fine & lets just hope that everything will turn good...

as for me, i think i will prefer the love marriage. well actually here in my place, arranged marriage is not popular and i think very few are doing that...very few and i don't even know if there's still any...

Yes...you have a very right point...actually im not prepared yet...im still into setting my career...im actually a visual effect desiner...but i want to get into acting....so im taking my own time...that is the reson why i dint allowed anyone into my life yet...im not so desperate in having one, i show as if im but actualy not...but it is also true that i want one...cause lonleyness really sucks...

On the hole...carrer is my first option...then whome ever comes into my life...i dont want my life patner to face any problems because of me....i want to see her happy...:)

get into acting? like in a movie? you want to be a celebrity? hehe well i wish you can be successful on your dream for your career...

well, if you're not ready yet, then just let it be and don't rush yourself so that you can avoid having troubles and ends in hurting the girl...huh!
just enjoy your life being free & single and yes, focus on your career...

yeah, loneliness is terrible... i guess no one would like to be lonely...

well, well, wish you good luck in everything! tell me if you are already in your acting career...okay? hehe so that i can ask for an autograph!

Ha Ha thank you very much....

Yes im already into acting but im not getting the big onces....im working hard to find one...lets see...

Come on yaar....My friends dont need any autographs.....

really? so where are you acting? on movie? tv or stage? let me know! hehe
i willl be proud to have a celebrity friend!
well, i would you could get a bigger roles...

why not? hehe its good at least we can have a souvenir from you...yaar!