What would you do if your friends don't like your girlfriend/boyfriend?

i really dont know what to say to this but if you truly care about the person that you are dating and this person is good to you then i think that your friends should respect that

Well, if they really are your friends, they would tell you why they don't like the person you're with in the first place. They would be honest and reasonable enough. And they would be decent enough to at least be civil to your special someone.

Woow. I don't know what I'll do if my friends don't like my boyfriend. If I really like and love the person I am going out whit, than I will be confused...
It's a real dilemma, but I think that I must be careful and to think about the reason why my friends do not like my boyfriend... If my friends don't like him just because I spend more time whit him and don't have time to go out whit a friends - I will prefer my boyfriend.
Our friends do not understand us everytime! Sometimes they can be so egoist!
But if they don't like him becouse something wrong that they know abut him - I will try to find what is the reason.
You better ask your friends what is the reason. If they are your real friends and if they care - they must tell you what is the reason.

a true friend will stand by you no matter what, you like someone that is up to you maybe you see something they do not? Ask your friends if you can talk to them and say now true friends are you? then tell me and help me for they should not keep things from you and stand by you. you would them right?

Hello beamsey,

I guess your friends are just playing safe,maybe they know some bad sides of your special someone and they can't tell you about it becoz they know you love that person and they don't want you to think wrong about them.
Or maybe,they just don't like your special someone...simply like that.

It is your duty to know the real reason behind these.
You should know your special someone better,investigate in silence not to hurt your love one and won't make your fiends think that you are feeling bad about them.

. Try to find the reason behind this -- sometimes friends may be right. May be they know something you don't and they are afraid of telling you the truth as you may get annoyed. Go to the friends -- one at a time -- be emotional ( do flashbacks of happy friendly moments or ask for help) -- ask calmly -- don't react suddenly -- listen them fully.

. Talk to your love accordingly -- don't shout on her or don't ask in a manner that you suspect her/him.

.If everything goes well -- Try to arrange a surprise get-together without previous knowledge of both the party or birthday party -- Try to mix them.

.If everything goes wrong -- Be cool,have a deep breath and select with whom your future would be peaceful. Work accordingly.

Best of luck -- everything will be fine

I would insist that IF these friends are real friends that they tell me what the problem is.. IF you were a real friend to me and there was something wrong with my 'girlfriend' I would expect you to tell me if I why'.. That sounds so pre teen!!

Do they care about you really?? They don't want you mad or they dont want you hurt???? How is this helping in either case!! What kind of friends are these really?????

Naah I wouldn't stand for that, give me the reason for pete sake, don't be so ridiculous!

I would defend my boyfriend despite a lot of arguments between friends and they should understand that I am the one who love and i should learn to live with it. As when you love a person you accept all his wholeness including his greatness and defects. Love is undertanding, patience and could be an instrument to make this boring wold feel magical.

Ya know what usually friends are right often times we are blinded by love, we refuse to see flaws not minor flaws but huge ones, sometimes it takes a friend for us to come to our senses.

It is unnecessary to get worried about that. When you have fell in love with your boyfriend, you should have been ready to face such peoblems.

For your friends who don't like your boyfriend, perhaps thay have told you the reason whay they have no interests in your partner. From where I stand, as friends, they should let you know the truth. Of course, if your boyfriend is really an excellent man, I guess there are some misunderstandings between your friends and boyfriend, then you can take some measures to make it clear.

Wish you success!