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myLot reputation of 100/100. jaiho2009 (1248)   ranked 74 out of 38,017 in life4 weeks ago

Hello friends and dear mylotters,


I wonder how much patient you had.
When things went wrong,do you easily give up,and stop,and say..."i'm fed up"!I had face problems,emotionally and financially.

I always tried my best to give the best solution,to solve each problem the very best i can.
I never thought,i will also come to this point of almost giving up.
yah,i thought i am strong enough...but lately,found myself crying in silence.
I know God is always there to carry all the burdens,maybe,i am just too emotional...or,maybe,i am starting to feel self pity(i wish to have more courage).

How about you dear friends and mylotters,have you ever felt alone when you need someone and found no one to listen to your cries?

Hear me callingsad.
Waiting for your response and comments.


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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. elmiko (1785)   ranked 2,224 out of 38,017 in life   4 weeks ago

no, i'm a conservative,lol.

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. ckyera (2308)   ranked 65 out of 38,017 in life   4 weeks ago

hi jaiho...

i'm sad to hear that you've been through this situation right now, but i guess you are not alone, coz all of us, at one point in our life will feel the same way...
sometimes our patience do have limits, but we need to be strong and have faith in our God. He is always there, just waiting for us to go back to Him & ask for His help & guidance.
there's nothing wrong if you cry it all, it will help you.
you have your children, they can be your inspiration and strength to carry on...

i hope that you will be fine soon. your friends are also here to listen to you...

God bless my friend....


myLot reputation of 100/100. jaiho2009 (1248)   ranked 74 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

Hello dear amiga,

For all the trials that i was been and has been,i never dare to ask "GOD why".
Yes,i had strong belief in HIM,and cast everything to HIM.

When i am alone sometimes at night,as i am lying in bed and talking to God in silence,i don't even realize that i am crying.
I seldom cry,trials made me strong.
But lately,i am feeling too emotional,that,i often find myself crying at night.
Maybe,it's just a normal feeling,when you had no one to talk too.(a mom/dad/brother/sister)they are all living far from me.

Thanks for your response and understanding my dear,that is one consolation,to know that,somewhere out there,there are friends who cares. happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. ckyera (2308)   ranked 65 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

hi amiga...

well its good to hear that you have a strong faith in God...that's a good attitude for it will make us even stronger...
there's nothing wrong in crying..it will help you release all those bad feelings...those sadness & loneliness...
when you have no one to turn to...just remember that you are not alone...you'll never be alone, sa long as God stays in your heart...He's just there listening to you...
so just speak out your feelings and just let it flow...

i hope that you are fine now...and keep your faith in you...

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. peace001 (415)   ranked 1,921 out of 38,017 in life   4 weeks ago

hi,jaiho.in my friends opinion i am a inflexible girl,but in fact iam sensitive and emotional.when i was in trouble my choice is to face it by myself.i don't want to somebody know that i feel down.and i know that everything will be fine and the best is just at the corner .


myLot reputation of 100/100. jaiho2009 (1248)   ranked 74 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. peace001 (415)   ranked 1,921 out of 38,017 in life   4 weeks ago

hi,jaiho.in my friends opinion i am a inflexible girl,but in fact iam sensitive and emotional.when i was in trouble my choice is to face it by myself.i don't want to somebody know that i feel down.and i know that everything will be fine and the best is just at the corner .

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. peace001 (415)   ranked 1,921 out of 38,017 in life   4 weeks ago

hi,jaiho.in my friends opinion i am a inflexible girl,but in fact iam sensitive and emotional.when i was in trouble my choice is to face it by myself.i don't want to somebody know that i feel down.and i know that everything will be fine and the best is just at the corner .

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3185)   ranked 771 out of 38,017 in life   4 weeks ago

I work with young children who are a daily test of patience. I could not do my job without it. They can really exhaust you and drive you crazy!


myLot reputation of 100/100. jaiho2009 (1248)   ranked 74 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

Hello Canellita,

Working with kids really needs perseverance,and i agree with you dear,my kids can drive me nuts wink.

But,it is also fun to bully with kids...i really love playing with kids.

Thanks for your response and have a great day always happy

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (4163)   ranked 634 out of 38,017 in life   4 weeks ago

rasphello sis jaiho, I was and had a lot of patient once, but recently it's kinda been lessened that i end up hurting their feelings but of course, it didn't took me long for me to realize that am being so aggressive, negatively when it comes to reacting to such situations. sadI am doing my best in being more toleranthappy


myLot reputation of 100/100. jaiho2009 (1248)   ranked 74 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

Hello Letran,

How's my kid brother now?...;)

I think,there are times that we can't hold our temper,depending on the situation and weighed of the event,on how it did happens.

I can hold my temper very good,but,if being provoked...i too become aggressive and regretted things after.

Well,you are still young my dear,when you grow a little older,you will learn how to mellowhappy

thanks for your response and have a good day always!

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8. linuzz (12)   ranked 19,750 out of 38,017 in life   4 weeks ago

I think i really easily to give up,but i don't think how bad it is,maybe sometime,giving up is not a bad thing


myLot reputation of 100/100. jaiho2009 (1248)   ranked 74 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

Hello linuzz,

Yah,giving up is not that bad at all,especially when we give up something for the sake of the goodness of the others.
Sometimes,giving up is self-made...to make us more stronger,to sacrifice for the other's happiness.

Thanks for your response and have a good day alwayshappy

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. shibham (1155)   ranked 1,503 out of 38,017 in life   4 weeks ago

hi jaiho. actually i am short tempered person, so i can be patient to a limit after that i give up. but generally it depends on the subject which i am rendering. no emotion at all in my life, i am not so much emotional but yes i am sentimental and sensitive. hahaha....


myLot reputation of 100/100. jaiho2009 (1248)   ranked 74 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

Hello shibham,

How are you dear brother,i never knew you were a short tempered person nah.
Well,i agree with you,that depends on the subject and situation,if being annoyed then,maybe a heated argument would surely arise,that,i too can't hold my temper in times like that(hehehe)

You are not emotional yet sentimental and sensitive...ohhh..now that makes you really short tempered(being sensitive)
But,i like sensitive men,it means,they are of a loving kind(uhmnnwink)

Thanks for your response and have a great day always dear.


myLot reputation of 96/100. shibham (1155)   ranked 1,503 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

hi sister, i am very happy bcoz i have met a sister through online. it has given me immense pleasure. i think the brother sister relation is the closest relation in the world. so thanks for calling me as a brother.thanks dear.


myLot reputation of 100/100. jaiho2009 (1248)   ranked 74 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

I am even more thankful too for accepting me as your sister...yah, brother-sister relationship closest ever,thu we are world apart happy


myLot reputation of 96/100. shibham (1155)   ranked 1,503 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

me a lucky guy.

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10. tariqueahmed89 (41)   4 weeks ago

i never easily give up. fight until succeed.
to give up is not a right decision you have to fight up to last time.
be patience in work not give up.


myLot reputation of 100/100. jaiho2009 (1248)   ranked 74 out of 38,017 in life  4 weeks ago

Hello friend,

I know dear,giving up is like laying our cards as a loser.

But sometimes,it is easier said than done.
We can never tell unless we in such situation,when,we felt all alone and that the whole of the world is against us and,the weighed of the burden is too much to bear.

I know,there is always hope,i always believed in it...as how do i believed in God.

Thanks for your response and have a great day alwayshappy

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