How do you cope up with loss of an expensive item?  |
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I just came to know that I lost my gold bangle which weighed 36gms roughly around 1300$!!! It was a gift from mymother. I have no idea how i lost it.  It has a sentimental value and it is expensive too. the bangle was passed on to me from my mother which she got from her mother. Again, granny got it from her mother!!!..I am very sad about the loss and how much ever I try to distract myself, only it comes to my mind. Not to mention the shocker I am to get when I say about it to my family!!!
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1. firozahmed (128) | 2 months ago | i know how that feels. well i have lost expensive watch and cellphone. it so terrible. but i thought it has fate. think in this way and you will fell beter. god gave it to me for a while and now he took it back. if i am patient and do not blame it on anyone. he will give me something even better
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malpoa (544) | 2 months ago | I have not lost temper. by the way to whom will i scream at. i do not remember where i kept it and when was the last time i wore it. my husband blames me for not keeping jewellery in locker. but why keep in locker to let them hatch!!! i also think that i will get a chance toget something better.
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malpoa (544) | 2 months ago | our neighbour had given a dua and i have pasted it on our door. hope i get it bak.she asked me to not think about it as I have given zakat and allah will take care of it.
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2. Binthu (3440) | 2 months ago | Hi Malpoa,
I am really very sorry for that happen, similarly I have been lost one of most favorable rings which I have got from my mum and also it has more sentimental value, when I have lost that ring really I am so sad and some days I am cried without knowing by others, so still I am thinking about that sorrows. I am really understanding about your feeling and also it is so sad that and also hope that we will get some sorts of supports from our family members. I am wishing you best of luck to have the good life without any more worries.
Have a nice day.
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malpoa (544) | 2 months ago | binthu, i know, but i donot feel like crying i feel helpless and angry for being so careless and my nature of taking everything for granted--i should control it... my mother is visitingme in a week and i do not know how to present it to her...waiting for the shocker...
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3. thea09 (4907) | 2 months ago | Hi Malpoa, maybe it will yet turn up somewhere in the house, if not I'm sorry that you lost it. You should report it to the insurance company but that will only return the monetary value and not the sentimental value. I've never lost anything expensive.
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malpoa (544) | 2 months ago | lucky you thea. and this is the first time i lost something expensive, about sentimental things, there were enough people to steal or take things away from me. the bad thing is that i havent insured it. if it is gone then it is gone for ever. but i wonder why anyone will only take that!!! it wasnt definitely left alone somewhere...it surehad company...i expect to find it atleast some time later...
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4. rameshkumaar57 (1828) | 2 months ago | Really sorry to note that you have lost a valuable bangle. With the prices of gold going up, it is quite difficult to digest this loss. Particularly, since it is an old pieces, the sentimental value will be quite high. I hope you will find the bangle, I do not think it will disappear just like that into thin air.
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malpoa (544) | 2 months ago | It is!!! It sure is!!! to aggravate my worries,I couldnt resist taking up the newspaper to find out today's gold price and calculate my loss!!! It was another shocker!!! when you have soemthing you do not value it, when you lose it...I literally naggg!!! Losing is easy...i cant afford to buy one such piece now!!!
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5. vandana7 (1807) | 2 months ago | Hi malpoa, I am not going to say u deserve to be spanked.:) Nor am I going to tell u that it would over generations get an antique value, or it held some blessings for u. U will hear plenty of that from others. I am just going to say, look carefully, may be u will find it in some unusual place. And I am going to say, look after other family heirlooms. And repeat what one of my dear friend who is no more told me, if u lose any monies, dont grieve. Think god has taken it away from u now for sometime in future when u will genuinely need it. It will come to u, when u need it the most.
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malpoa (544) | 2 months ago | wow vnadana, I felt good reading it...three people I talked to gave me the ame idea to look at most unexpected places...I am too unpeaceful to check all the other places, but I will soon. I am not grieving, I havent shed a tear...when my husband cmae home and saw my glum face he said tto forget about it!!! I thought he would feel bad about losing it!!! And when I asked whether he would buy me more bangles he thought for a while and said, I would get you a lot of kaanch ka choodi...hi hi it did bring a smile on my face hi hi
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malpoa (544) | 2 months ago | I still has the guts to call you pi, if you dont mind that is... ah I have stopped looking. I want a metal detector!!! I really wish I had!!! Tomorrow is saturday and I am going to take a dig into my wardrobe. My hus says that since last weekend we had two parties I might have worn it and kept it folded with sari...Not sure, I am like lost hope...
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7. calai618 (963) | 2 months ago | It really depends upon the way how I lost it. If I was robbed or held up, I would still be thankful because at least it's just the item that was taken and not my life. If it went missing due to my carelessness, then there'd be no excuse for that. I just think that it's a price I have to pay because I became too careless. I will consider it as a learning experience and that item is the amount I paid to learn the lessons. That way, you can turn an unfortunate event into a very meaningful one.:D
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malpoa (544) | 2 months ago | I know, you are blaming me for my carelessness. I admit, I am careless. And this incident has taught me to be very alert and careful while dealing with such things. I am already laert. NEWS!!! Hmm you are right, If I were robbed or held up for it, I would have been more than happy to lose it.
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8. anne25penn (876) | 2 months ago | Oh my, that is such a big loss. I do hope that you will be able to find it, if you have daughters try to ask if they might have borrowed it and forgot to return it. I do this sometimes when I feel that my pieces of jewelry don't look good with what I am wearing for a formal event or affair. You could try to have a copy made, but it will never be equal to the one you lost.
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anne25penn (876) | 2 months ago | Yes I know how gold prices have increased. I bought a pair of earrings six months ago, and now I am being given something smaller than the earring I bought for the same price! It is a good investment though, and if you do have another bracelet made, make sure to keep it in your jewelry box!
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9. andy555 (103) | 2 months ago | Sorry to hear that news. we all don't like to lose something useful and expensive. But i believe that when we lose something, we will gain something. Sometimes it is visible to see what we lose or gain but someimes it is invisible. So i believe that don't feel so sad about it. Maybe you can gain more from it inother ways. Now you haven't know what you have gained, but in future, you'll sure find. I think your family will not put blame on you for that thing.Take it easy. Have a nive day!
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| 10. jessogusto (32) | 2 months ago | I've lost somethings precious. And they sound more precious in ratio to what I make. When I lose stuff, I cry. I give up hope. I try to blaspheme a bit in search to find out what went wrong. But then I give up giving up. Wipe my tears, save up, and this times to stuff in more precious than before and handled with greater care.
It takes a fall to learn some valuable dusting skills.
Take care.
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malpoa (544) | 2 months ago | I easily give up too. But I woke up many times in my sleep. I still feel that I would get it back. how can it go missing alone, right? it cant just fly out from here...Yes i havent given up uyet...felt good after reading your response buddy!
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