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myLot reputation of 68/100. colu41 (234)   ranked 706 out of 6,667 in enjoy life2 months ago

I need some honest opinions out there.

My opinion is simple. I believe that money CAN buy happiness to a certain extent. Giving how you are raised, and many other situations, may change the way you feel of this.

A lot peoples lives are miserable because of their money situation. The rate of divorces caused by money are up like crazy.

It can't buy love, or a family to have, but it could make what you have, a lot better!

My 2 cents....

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. learn2earn (10939)   ranked 1,071 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

In general, money can't buy everything in this world. Money cannot buy heaven, money cannot buy love, but can buy a lover. Money cannot buy long lasting happiness, but can buy instant gratification. Personally, I think that money cannot buy happiness. I observed that most rich people doesn't seem so happy being with a lot of money. They are so scared that they surround themselves with a lot of body guards, their houses with a lot of barriers, and can't seem to enjoy fully the life that money brought them. I think the secret is contentment. What do you think?


myLot reputation of 68/100. colu41 (234)   ranked 706 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

BUT....that instant gratification, can be a permanent gratification. You get something you like, naturally, we sooner or later get bored of it. SO, you have the money, so you fulfill that instant gratification you once lost, and it starts all over again.
Sorry, it's a little hard to explain from my side here...lol


kaushaldalal (5)   ranked 4,543 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

money can buy instant gratifications. A lot of instant gratifications. Buy one after the other and you can have a lifetime of instant gratifications keeping you happy for a lifetime.


grace12bueno (91)   ranked 1,137 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

I love the line "Money can not buy heaven." You're so right. Possibly, money can buy everything nowadays, wether big or small. But it can NEVER BUY HEAVEN. And it can never buy LOVE as well.


myLot reputation of 97/100. rjvb26 (553)   ranked 4,147 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

Hey! Is that your own idea or you just summarized my discussion earlier? What money cant? hmmm.... don't want to argue just want honest answer... Money can buy gifts but not Happiness. Happiness is a word that cannot be touched, and even seen by the naked eye, but can be felt. It's like money can buy fans but not air. Money can buy a house but not a home....

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. irene66 (270)   ranked 505 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

Of course not. Money is maybe powerful but there is no way it can ever buy happiness. Just to illustrate this, In China, most women have to find a man to marry who is wealthy. However there are many cases where women find it miserable to be with a man whom they really do not love and cannot adjust to. They find their life disastrous even if their husband buy them everything they want. In short, money is not everything, you know!!


myLot reputation of 68/100. colu41 (234)   ranked 706 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

It can go both ways I guess. The way I'm coming from, is growing up, not so wealthy, or even poor, and to live the life like that, and all of a sudden fall into money, you have a greater respect for that money, by not taking advantage of it, and fulfilling everything you've ever dreamed of doing for the rest of your life.
And if were raised in a wealthy family, you don't know anything else but riches, and expect everything. So nothing will every progress in your life.


grace12bueno (91)   ranked 1,137 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

Money can't buy love but it can buy happiness. That's the reason why the women in china find their love disastrous marrying men whom they do not love. We can not say that they do not become happy at any point of their marriage life. Of course, they were. It can buy happiness but it can NEVER BUY JOY.


myLot reputation of 97/100. rjvb26 (553)   ranked 4,147 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

What is the difference between happiness and joy?


myLot reputation of 82/100. irene66 (270)   ranked 505 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

hello rjvb. The spelling!! hahaha

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. foisgras (101)   ranked 3,161 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

Hi,

Good question Colu41.

How do you define HAPPINESS?
If one's happiness relies on money then he/she may be satisfied.

You mentioned yourself that LOVE cannot be bought by money right?
So what is HAPPINESS then?

Life is too complicated. But ... it's very simple to be happy.


myLot reputation of 68/100. colu41 (234)   ranked 706 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

Very well put......

I guess there can be many different answers to this question, coming from many different views.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. Kashmeresmycat (1337)   ranked 2,513 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

Well let's see. Right now I'm pretty healthy for my age so that's a good point other than stress. But, at the same time, I'm unemployed, without a tv because I can't pay the cable bill or afford the converter, waiting for my electric and gas to be shut off, my microwave just broke one week ago and my car brakes went, and I'm behind on all my credit cards right now. Soooooooo, can money buy me happiness right now? You betcha! I would pay off everything completely, yea!, help my daughters out as they have helped me through this crisis, buy a new computer so I could work at home (mine is 8 years old and has the shudders when I even mention the word Adobe, haha), buy some good food to eat instead of balogny, fix my car and sell it to get a nice new truck (4 x 4 of course), a whole bunch of fun stuff and I could finally wake up in the morning and smile instead of cry. Yes, it would work for me right now and it's not to go traveling the world or buy the fanciest namebrand clothes or most expensive item I could find. It would bring me peace of mind and most importantly I still have my health.

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5. Lupin3d (81)   ranked 4,531 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

Money has different meaning to every one. Money for a person dying of hunger could be his salvation. (In the physical form). Money for a normal person could be a goal for him to gather. Money for a rich person could be his/her comparison. Money for a very very rich person could be nothing.


Lupin3d (81)   ranked 4,531 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

My ideal is that money is not important. The lack of it is what makes it important.

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6. kaushaldalal (5)   ranked 4,543 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

If you have a lot of money, you can try and better the lot of the people who are miserable because of the lack of it. Just another way to EARN happiness with money.


myLot reputation of 88/100. starsailover (1341)   ranked 3,040 out of 6,667 in enjoy life  2 months ago

Hi kaushaldalal: I didn't mean that you can't be happy with money. In fact i think that it's easier to be happy if you have money, that means that you don't have to deal with some daily problems that poor people actually have to think on them everyday. If you're reach, you find god and you want to be a better person, helps others, be good with you're family you'll be a very happy man. In most cases, at least i think we all can be happy no matter the amount of money we have. Thanks for your answer.

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. danitykane (1177)   ranked 344 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

Money can make us happy but it can never buy our own happiness. Because if it does, I may have gather all the monies of the world! Haha.. Anyway, right now I am so sad and down, lonely, disappointed etc (yes i am!) and...if I have $20 million in my bank account I will be so happy but still it doesn't last long. I will still feel empty because it is not my true happiness. I mean material things doesn't make are lives fulfilled. It may on some areas for it does resolve some financial issues if ever. But money alone cannot make you better as a person. You may be full of money but with an empty heart. So it is useless.

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8. myLot reputation of 88/100. starsailover (1341)   ranked 3,040 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

Hi colu: i always try to be honest and express what i feel on the question and this is not the exception. I really feel that even if it's necessary money can't buy you happiness, you can make that people love you just because you're rich, you can forget your fears with money, you won't have peace just with money. Off course this is a material world, you need money to buy food, you need money for your education and for having a proper job, it's important but you can have it and even with that not being happy. Thanks for your question.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4790)   ranked 837 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

Money can buy things and materialistic things, up to a point. But to buy happiness, I don't think so. Maybe temporary happiness in the form of monetary things. But if you delve into it further, true happiness comes in the form of simplicity in everything in life. Good health, happiness and surrounded by friends and family members.

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10. grace12bueno (91)   ranked 1,137 out of 6,667 in enjoy life   2 months ago

This world revolves around money. We cannot live without it. Like you, I believe that money can buy happiness. Many people takes great pleasure having tons of it. They can buy everything and meet what they need in their lives. It is a necessity in life.

We use money to make someone happy like buying him gifts, dream car and other precious thing. Even a child who accidentally pick a penny on the street will be n such great happiness.

See, it can really buy happiness. BUT it can NEVER BUY JOY. For joy is something coming from within. It is coming from priceless things in life.

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