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myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life4 weeks ago

Mine is such a piece of crap, even i dont understand why did god created me . I mean i am of no use to any body and this feeling kills me everyday . I always keep fighting with mum and bro, smoke occasionally, hate my dad, lost my love and stuffs and stuffs of unsuccessful stories, . .
i hope yours is not complicated and explain it please if you can!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. rg0205 (1718)   ranked 1,248 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

It's all about mindset, my friend. Don't need to question God about your existence.

My life is complicated by things that I have no control over but that doesnt mean I have a crappy existence. I make the best of things and I try to be good to others because I believe in the saying: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."

I get into disagreements with family members, too, but we don't get into heated arguments because we respect eachother at the end of the day. I don't like my Dad very much, too, but my issue with him doesn't take over or control my very existence.

Again, this all goes back to your mindset, whether you choose to have a positive or negative outlook on life.


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Yeah i guess you are right about the fightings with people . I will try to be calm there, but its really very hard sometimes . Anyways thanks a lot for responding and have a great day!


myLot reputation of 94/100. rg0205 (1718)   ranked 1,248 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

You suffer more when you lose your temper, my friend. I hope you do feel "calmer" so that you don't have a hard time. Thanks and happy mylotting.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. thezone (1914)   ranked 1,932 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

Hi mdaazam,

Don't put yourself down like that, everyone at some point in their life will have a down period but it passes. Everyone has a use and a purpose in life and so do you. Be thankful for what you do have in your life and focus on the positives. I know this is easy to say but life is just complicated if you make it complicated. As my Grandfather always told me "life is what you make it" and he was right.


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

You are right about the saying that you just mentioned . I think i should avoid thinking all that stuff and i will try to have confidence in me, i was pretty depressed last night actually so stuff just came in mind . Anyways thanks a lot for responding and happy mylotting!

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. mielshare (125)   ranked 4,192 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

As a read your post, I don't think that your life is a crap there's still time for you to make things right. You can still have a good relatinship with your family members though it requires sacrifice in some cases. Forgive those people who hurt you and forgive yourself too. Ask God's guidance for you to do that.. Gudluck! I know you can do it just have faith..

My life isn't perfect too I also experience difficulties and trials but the best and only thing that I can do is trust God and He will do the rest.

I hope I was able to help you..

Have a great day!


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Yeah mate to make things good at my place requires a lot of sacrifices in many ways and no one else compromises . I guess i will have to sacrifice always then but its ok and thanks a lot responding and have a lovely day!
Cheerz

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (20403)   ranked 1,360 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

mdaazam why is it a piece of crap? Are you ill,homeless,in a wheelchair, have a fatal disease, in danger of going to prison?
Probably not so see how wonderful you life is,you are healthy you are well, you have a home. So it is the interaction in your family, why are you fighting? is there any way you could just sit day and talk the problems out? I know smoking is sure not the answer.Maybe you could get some family members to go to family counseling with you and get some outside help.why do you hate your dad, did he do something to you he should not have done?I hated mine because he betrayed my innocence in my childhood but hatred does not hurt him it only hurts you.


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

I have hated him for his ill behaviour with me and he thinks were enemies as well so he always avoids me like im a beggar on the street or something and thats what makes me hate him more!

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5. myLot reputation of 79/100. spalladino (8988)   ranked 412 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

Life is a series of lessons so you can either learn from them or continue to run in circles beating yourself up. Have you ever heard the phrase, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger? Next question, do you have a plan for your life...is there anything that interests you? Ok, that was two questions. lol

If you're unhappy look at why and change what you can, accept what you can't change. If you're unhappy fighting with your mum and your bro, look at what triggers the fights and avoid them. Try being nice and see what happens. Smoking doesn't make you a bad person...you will meet new loves, etc. You are in charge of your destiny to take control and uncomplicate your life...one step at a time.


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Hello there mate, you dont how much did you really motivated me by your response . You are so right about what doesnt kills us makes us stronger .
And im going to complete my bachelors from bba in one year and after that i think i will be pursuing hotel management from a bigger city than indore!
Anyway i greatly appreciate your response and it did make a lot difference and i am gonna try your step by step procedure and it sounds good too .
thanks again and stay in touch!


myLot reputation of 79/100. spalladino (8988)   ranked 412 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

It looks like you have a good plan that will lead you to many adventures and satisfaction in the future. I'm glad that I could help. PM me anytime you're feeling down or frustrated and I'll give you a push. happy

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. mods196621 (1099)   ranked 5,094 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

Of course you created by God with purpose and have use friend. As of now you could not see the light in front of you because it was blocked by your sentiments or something like that you're the only one knows. Fighting with your mom is not good as well as your brother with no good reasons why you need to fight them? for what? Complicated life begins to complicated things. Try to avoid those things so that you will not be in that way. I know boy that you are old enough to understand what is positive and negative, and to think that you are a bright boy.. Have a happhappyy day!


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Yeah i think you are right here mate and i should try avoiding such complicating things like the fights we always have . That was very wise of you for knowing that im a bright boy, thanks a lot, its like a boost to me now . I promise to try to change things!


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Yeah i think you are right here mate and i should try avoiding such complicating things like the fights we always have . That was very wise of you for knowing that im a bright boy, thanks a lot, its like a boost to me now . I promise to try to change things!


myLot reputation of 94/100. mods196621 (1099)   ranked 5,094 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Good boy! try to do your promise and i will know when you break it!happy

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. EARLZHAN (348)   ranked 2,348 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

Hi there friend.. Like you my life has been very complicated before. My family has a lot of problems, I have a lot of frustrations too. But you know what I thank God because I'm still here. The only thing you have to do is to accept everything that happens to you even if is good or bad. Why don't you try to serve God in spirit and in truth try to draw yourself near to him. He's the only one who can help you in times of troubles. I was like you before.. I'm full of stress and I already lose hope but when I started to be calm and understand that God has a plan for me. Everything became so smooth.. Friend everything happens for a purpose We don't know what's the purpose but bear in mind that all things work together for good. God is to wise to be mistaken, He is so good to be unkind to you. Just wait at the end you'll see that everything will be okay..


Buffalo1 (86)   ranked 32,275 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Why so down on yourself, why so much fighting? Is it accomplishing anything, except create more of the same. Perhaps you are too close to the fire to see a way out. Is there any way you can get away for a few days, that alone may clear your mind. This is the family you will always have, so you need to make a decision. Is there any kind of mental or physical abuse going on. Your rant seems like a longing for attention and acceptance, and you are not finding any. That is what fuels the fire. Sometimes, in order to grow, we have to let people go. Maybe you are just growing up, and that bothers them. Hope this helps.


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Yeah maybe if you are right, then god might have a plan for me . I wish that all this happens for something good!
Thanks a lot for responding and helping me out . I appreciate that!

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8. Joseph_Ryuki (73)   ranked 17,650 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

My life is difficult but not complicated, almost all people have difficulties in life being complicated depends on how we handle our life and how we deal with different situations as well.


myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2108)   ranked 2,781 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

My life is complicated too but I want to move on to have a positive outlook in life despite the failure and depression that I've been through. We also have misunderstanding and disagreements between my Father. I try to accept my life as it is and try to divert my problems to other thinks because if I'm going think it too much I'm going to be insane.


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Yeah maybe i dont have the right measures to handle these problems and thats creating more troubles instead or whatever . Actually i think you are right that im the one creating these problems maybe!

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. Margajoe (2140)   ranked 401 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

I have felt that way many times.
I think a lot of us do.
Everything seems to have a reason. Though like you, I don't much understand it all either.
Better to just make the best of today. Tomorrow is another new day and a new beginning.
Can't change the past. But can make a better tomorrow.

Take care.


pradeeptheone (45)   ranked 30,475 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

xactly,can't get the past,but can change ur future by acting good in present keeping the past worst experiences in mind...


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Yeah when ever im into the part i am all upset mate . Oh my, i am all devastated, theres nothing to be done now its just like breathing till im dead!
Thanks for helping anyway!


myLot reputation of 89/100. Margajoe (2140)   ranked 401 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Oh my, I just looked at your profile. You are only 19 years old.
I used to be very negative like you. But did it help me? No.
If I could be 19 again, I would do so many things different. One being, I would be a positive thinker. I would try to make the best of bad situations.
Because then I would still be healthy, my back would still be strong. Where as now I have to stay a home and cannot work anymore because my back it worn out. I am only 43. I am sometimes feeling worthless because I cannot do the things I used to be able to do.
If I were strong again, I would make life a better place for me and the people around me. You have a whole life in front of you. If you don't want to help yourself, at least help the people around you. Don't be selfish. Life has been given to you free, probably the only gift you will ever get for free...
Take care.


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Yeah you got that right that im 19 and suffering like a one in his dying stage . I feel like i have experienced things i should have when i was a bit more mature . Things like no money, no bike, no love, no good friend and no where to go are what that drives me into tears!


myLot reputation of 89/100. Margajoe (2140)   ranked 401 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Going through this now, makes you stronger for the future.
I know that does not seem like much help at the moment.
But, one day you will understand what I mean.

For now, just take it one step at a time.
Try to make the best of it.

Take care.

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10. myLot reputation of 80/100. Apples24 (211)   ranked 4,067 out of 38,061 in life   4 weeks ago

Yes, not only us my friend, everyone's life is complicated, we should see every problem as a challenge and bot as a problem. every solution we come up for these problems makes us more smarter and more experienced in life, i personally do noy believe in god because God does not help me out with my complicated life. Instead i believe in myself and my confidence which has brought me out of troubles and all the best to you my frined


myLot reputation of 83/100. mdaazam (212)   ranked 2,879 out of 38,061 in life  4 weeks ago

Yeah maybe youre right that you yourself have to sort out the problems and taking them as challenges . Theologically too god doesnt help if you dont help yourself!
Thanks a lot for responding and have a great day!

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