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Mine is such a piece of crap, even i dont understand why did god created me . I mean i am of no use to any body and this feeling kills me everyday . I always keep fighting with mum and bro, smoke occasionally, hate my dad, lost my love and stuffs and stuffs of unsuccessful stories, . . i hope yours is not complicated and explain it please if you can!
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1. rg0205 (1718) | 4 weeks ago | It's all about mindset, my friend. Don't need to question God about your existence.
My life is complicated by things that I have no control over but that doesnt mean I have a crappy existence. I make the best of things and I try to be good to others because I believe in the saying: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
I get into disagreements with family members, too, but we don't get into heated arguments because we respect eachother at the end of the day. I don't like my Dad very much, too, but my issue with him doesn't take over or control my very existence.
Again, this all goes back to your mindset, whether you choose to have a positive or negative outlook on life.
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah i guess you are right about the fightings with people . I will try to be calm there, but its really very hard sometimes . Anyways thanks a lot for responding and have a great day!
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rg0205 (1718) | 4 weeks ago | You suffer more when you lose your temper, my friend. I hope you do feel "calmer" so that you don't have a hard time. Thanks and happy mylotting.
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2. thezone (1914) | 4 weeks ago | Hi mdaazam,
Don't put yourself down like that, everyone at some point in their life will have a down period but it passes. Everyone has a use and a purpose in life and so do you. Be thankful for what you do have in your life and focus on the positives. I know this is easy to say but life is just complicated if you make it complicated. As my Grandfather always told me "life is what you make it" and he was right.
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | You are right about the saying that you just mentioned . I think i should avoid thinking all that stuff and i will try to have confidence in me, i was pretty depressed last night actually so stuff just came in mind . Anyways thanks a lot for responding and happy mylotting!
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3. mielshare (125) | 4 weeks ago | As a read your post, I don't think that your life is a crap there's still time for you to make things right. You can still have a good relatinship with your family members though it requires sacrifice in some cases. Forgive those people who hurt you and forgive yourself too. Ask God's guidance for you to do that.. Gudluck! I know you can do it just have faith..
My life isn't perfect too I also experience difficulties and trials but the best and only thing that I can do is trust God and He will do the rest.
I hope I was able to help you..
Have a great day!
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah mate to make things good at my place requires a lot of sacrifices in many ways and no one else compromises . I guess i will have to sacrifice always then but its ok and thanks a lot responding and have a lovely day! Cheerz
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4. Hatley (20403) | 4 weeks ago | mdaazam why is it a piece of crap? Are you ill,homeless,in a wheelchair, have a fatal disease, in danger of going to prison? Probably not so see how wonderful you life is,you are healthy you are well, you have a home. So it is the interaction in your family, why are you fighting? is there any way you could just sit day and talk the problems out? I know smoking is sure not the answer.Maybe you could get some family members to go to family counseling with you and get some outside help.why do you hate your dad, did he do something to you he should not have done?I hated mine because he betrayed my innocence in my childhood but hatred does not hurt him it only hurts you.
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | I have hated him for his ill behaviour with me and he thinks were enemies as well so he always avoids me like im a beggar on the street or something and thats what makes me hate him more!
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Hello there mate, you dont how much did you really motivated me by your response . You are so right about what doesnt kills us makes us stronger . And im going to complete my bachelors from bba in one year and after that i think i will be pursuing hotel management from a bigger city than indore! Anyway i greatly appreciate your response and it did make a lot difference and i am gonna try your step by step procedure and it sounds good too . thanks again and stay in touch!
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah i think you are right here mate and i should try avoiding such complicating things like the fights we always have . That was very wise of you for knowing that im a bright boy, thanks a lot, its like a boost to me now . I promise to try to change things!
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah i think you are right here mate and i should try avoiding such complicating things like the fights we always have . That was very wise of you for knowing that im a bright boy, thanks a lot, its like a boost to me now . I promise to try to change things!
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7. EARLZHAN (348) | 4 weeks ago | Hi there friend.. Like you my life has been very complicated before. My family has a lot of problems, I have a lot of frustrations too. But you know what I thank God because I'm still here. The only thing you have to do is to accept everything that happens to you even if is good or bad. Why don't you try to serve God in spirit and in truth try to draw yourself near to him. He's the only one who can help you in times of troubles. I was like you before.. I'm full of stress and I already lose hope but when I started to be calm and understand that God has a plan for me. Everything became so smooth.. Friend everything happens for a purpose We don't know what's the purpose but bear in mind that all things work together for good. God is to wise to be mistaken, He is so good to be unkind to you. Just wait at the end you'll see that everything will be okay..
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| Buffalo1 (86) | 4 weeks ago | Why so down on yourself, why so much fighting? Is it accomplishing anything, except create more of the same. Perhaps you are too close to the fire to see a way out. Is there any way you can get away for a few days, that alone may clear your mind. This is the family you will always have, so you need to make a decision. Is there any kind of mental or physical abuse going on. Your rant seems like a longing for attention and acceptance, and you are not finding any. That is what fuels the fire. Sometimes, in order to grow, we have to let people go. Maybe you are just growing up, and that bothers them. Hope this helps.
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah maybe if you are right, then god might have a plan for me . I wish that all this happens for something good! Thanks a lot for responding and helping me out . I appreciate that!
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| 8. Joseph_Ryuki (73) | 4 weeks ago | My life is difficult but not complicated, almost all people have difficulties in life being complicated depends on how we handle our life and how we deal with different situations as well.
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agv0419 (2108) | 4 weeks ago | My life is complicated too but I want to move on to have a positive outlook in life despite the failure and depression that I've been through. We also have misunderstanding and disagreements between my Father. I try to accept my life as it is and try to divert my problems to other thinks because if I'm going think it too much I'm going to be insane.
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah maybe i dont have the right measures to handle these problems and thats creating more troubles instead or whatever . Actually i think you are right that im the one creating these problems maybe!
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9. Margajoe (2140) | 4 weeks ago | I have felt that way many times. I think a lot of us do. Everything seems to have a reason. Though like you, I don't much understand it all either. Better to just make the best of today. Tomorrow is another new day and a new beginning. Can't change the past. But can make a better tomorrow.
Take care.
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| pradeeptheone (45) | 4 weeks ago | xactly,can't get the past,but can change ur future by acting good in present keeping the past worst experiences in mind...
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah when ever im into the part i am all upset mate . Oh my, i am all devastated, theres nothing to be done now its just like breathing till im dead! Thanks for helping anyway!
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Margajoe (2140) | 4 weeks ago | Oh my, I just looked at your profile. You are only 19 years old. I used to be very negative like you. But did it help me? No. If I could be 19 again, I would do so many things different. One being, I would be a positive thinker. I would try to make the best of bad situations. Because then I would still be healthy, my back would still be strong. Where as now I have to stay a home and cannot work anymore because my back it worn out. I am only 43. I am sometimes feeling worthless because I cannot do the things I used to be able to do. If I were strong again, I would make life a better place for me and the people around me. You have a whole life in front of you. If you don't want to help yourself, at least help the people around you. Don't be selfish. Life has been given to you free, probably the only gift you will ever get for free... Take care.
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah you got that right that im 19 and suffering like a one in his dying stage . I feel like i have experienced things i should have when i was a bit more mature . Things like no money, no bike, no love, no good friend and no where to go are what that drives me into tears!
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Margajoe (2140) | 4 weeks ago | Going through this now, makes you stronger for the future. I know that does not seem like much help at the moment. But, one day you will understand what I mean.
For now, just take it one step at a time. Try to make the best of it.
Take care.
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10. Apples24 (211) | 4 weeks ago | Yes, not only us my friend, everyone's life is complicated, we should see every problem as a challenge and bot as a problem. every solution we come up for these problems makes us more smarter and more experienced in life, i personally do noy believe in god because God does not help me out with my complicated life. Instead i believe in myself and my confidence which has brought me out of troubles and all the best to you my frined
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mdaazam (212) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah maybe youre right that you yourself have to sort out the problems and taking them as challenges . Theologically too god doesnt help if you dont help yourself! Thanks a lot for responding and have a great day!
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