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myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single2 months ago

I'm single and very much available at the moment, but I'm not so worried about it. Well, I must admit that I get envy sometimes, especially when my friends are so busy with their partners. But, basically, I can find many things to do, which can spare me from thinking about my being single. Hehehe

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7434)   2 months ago

I don't think you should be. If you are happy with your being a single then enjoy it to the fullest. I myself was happy with my being single before and did not hurry up finding a romantic partner but then after a while it did sink in to my system that I am not getting any younger and I need to find one and soon I found my wife and right now I am happy with my state of being married. I cannot say which one is better because both have advantages as well as disadvantages but I am happy with both states before and now.


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

WOW, well congratulations for that. At some stage, I expect that I will find someone-ofcourse. But then, I'm not in a hurry. You're right...on both counts, there are disavantages and advantages. It's a matter of being contented, I guess.


myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7434)  2 months ago

Yes, that's true, although if you would ask me if i want to go back to being single I would say no since I feel that I have passed that stage of being alone in life. I guess I have moved one with my life already and is used to being where I am.


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

hey, you know, my father told me once that a man is getting married because he's lonely of being alone...?is that true?for you, i mean?


myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7434)  2 months ago

Maybe afraid of being alone. I cannot say it is really true because when I was about in my twenties marriage was not in my mind even getting involve in an intimate relationship at all. Then when I was about in my late 20's I got into a relationship but did not work so well maybe because that was my first serious relationship and in my last years of my twenties about 29 IO just felt that I am not happy being single anymore and I was actually looking for a stable and reliable and caring person. Luckily, I got one and before I got in my thirties I was already married. lol

Most men are like afraid of commitment I think. That is why they tend to choose to be single too. They just like to play around and when they feel they are being forced into a committed relationship they would back out of it. in my case, I did not go into that phased. I chose to be single because I was happy being in that space and nothing more.


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

that is a funny, yet ahm... good story, i guess. well, at least you don't have to force yourself on something that you're not happy about. and there, you met someone when you are in stage of wanting to have someone. well, i hope it will go that well to me. i haven't had good intimate relationships with men. mostly because, i don't get too close with them. gee!

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2. hart08 (2)   2 months ago

there's nothing wrong on being single... we can still enjoy our life in being single... we can do everything that nobody can blame us... right?


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

yeah... and really, it's also like being free from the responsibilities of being committed. unless you're ready, you will never enjoy having a stable relationship with someone.:)

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3. elrener (96)   2 months ago

Well no i'm not just got out from a very very serious relationship so now i just want to be alone. To much drama when u have ur not singel. But i guess when the times comes it comes. http://elrener.blogspot.com/:D

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4. wj1133 (6)   2 months ago

just like you,i am single.too.but now i am busy with my study,you know,in college,there is a debate on whether there is a need to find a GF or BF.personly i perfer to be alone.be alone is not to be lonely,there are books,friends,parents,relatives,etc who can be accompanied with me .in fact i am not alone.however, i plan to find my GF in the near future after i graduate.


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

well.. i wish you good luck in your studies. i believe that at the right time we will find someone special. there's no rush in falling in love, right?


wj1133 (6)  2 months ago

thay's quite right,i bellieve i will mee with my beloved one in the near future unexpectedly

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. ybong007 (1064)   2 months ago

Speaking from the point of view from a married man I suggest that you stay single and enjoy it. Don't ever go into a relationship just because most of your friends are, I'm sure that they make look happy now but chances are they will need a shoulder to cry on sooner or later. You can not find love, it will find you and when that time comes then grab it. There's just so much you can do when you're single, enjoy your freedom. Cheers!


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

Cheers! haha. Yeah, right... thanks for the advice. I'll keep that in mind.

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6. NecrosDk (37)   2 months ago

I hate being single... but maybe thats just me:)


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

oh, don't.. please don't...

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. palonghorn (3741)   ranked 765 out of 798 in single   2 months ago

I just recently called off an engagement, reason: realized I was not ready to be married again. I've been through 3 marriages, 3 divorces and had an almost 4 year live-in relationship break up at the first of this year. And as I told him, I'm not ready to go down that path again, I'm fine being on my own and single. I don't worry about what anyone else thinks, I have hobbies, I also have friends to get together with and go do things with from time to time. If you are fine with being single, then it isn't a problem.


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

oh, i'm sorry to hear all of those breakups. but i wish you well... we can't force ourselves into a relationship if we're not yet ready. it's a good thing you realized that before it's too late. i salute you for that! GOD bless

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8. myLot reputation of 37/100. jasmeena (115)   2 months ago

I am female,will be 33 next month and still single..if i am asked whether i worry about being single the answer maybe yes.yes, i am worried, especially i see most (maybe all )of my friends are already married. people will make judgemental statement there must be something wrong with me..is it right?But i try to enjoy my single life..single doesn`t mean you`re not worthy..some of friends have decided to end their marriage..they used to think that women will worthy because they are married..and after they realized that they have married wrong husband,they give me different advice:don`t get married because of your age,because you`re afraid you can`t get a better man and so on.
What does it mean?it means that marriage doesn`t guarantee happiness..of course, i want to get married,but i don`t wanna have mindset that i can be happier after i get married,who can guarantee that?i wanna get married because i feel comfortable with someone,he loves me and i love him too..not because of family`s or friend`s pressure..
Just enjoy yourself..explore your potential,make friends,join hobby community or any positive activities..you don`t know where and when you find your soulmate..i am single and very happy.be GRATEFUL for what you have now


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

WOW! that is an awesome advice indeed and it is so true. i have always believed in that..marrying is not an easy thing to get yourself involve in.. so, enjoy being single while it last.. coz time will come for us to find true love.

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9. A_Stockholm (1)   2 months ago

I just broke up with my girlfriend. I think it is a good idea, mostly because the she didn't think very much of me


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

that's sad.. hope everything will be fine:)

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. ladysurvivor (3552)   2 months ago

Before I got married, I never think that I would be afraid being single. I was happy with my life even though I have strict parents because I have friends whom I can refer to and go out when I want to. But after I got married, I became too dependant on my husband, and he on the other hand likes to pamper me. Until I become spoilt I guess, because now I am almost always worried if I have to go single again one day.

This dilemma is frequent and normal among women because before we have someone whom we can hang on to and depend to, we are brave and can do everything we want. But once we have someone to hang to and rely on, we tend to rest our head to his shoulder and let him do all the hard things (at least that's what I think).

I know this is not good because if something happened to my husband I know I will have to depend on myself again and this is a very terrifying thought. I know I have to collect the same spirit again, like what I feel when I was a virgin. To you, I hope you don't lose your good spirit and maintain what you are feeling right now.


myLot reputation of 95/100. invisiblelady (185)   ranked 41 out of 798 in single  2 months ago

Honestly, I have my personal ups and downs when it comes to dealing with boys but it never gets that serious. Or maybe I wasn't ready for depending myself on someone yet. I hope you will be strong if your fears will come. But as of now, I wish you will have a happy life with your husband. GODbless:)

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