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forgetting peole's name. too shy to ask. have u experienced this? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. simonelee (677)   ranked 2,783 out of 35,394 in people1 month ago

This incident happened to me recently. Okay, I went to the mall with my friend to have snack then a lady on the other table wave and smile at me. I smiled back. Then, she asked me few questions about certain people i know and some personal questions. she keep talking but at the back of my mind I'm thinking where did i met this person and what is her name(too afraid to embarrass the person). She looks familiar but i can't remember anything about her. Now, im bothered about this person. I hope i can remember anything about her. sadconfused

Have you experienced this? too shy to ask the persons name? what do you usually do in this kind of situation?


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tags:  forget, name, names, people, memory
 
1. myLot reputation of 69/100. sarwanever (265)   1 month ago

ya ofcourse i have had this problem i really have a bad memory mostly i will start like i like have a bad memory let me guess your name and i will guess some standard names to get his/her name

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2. myLot reputation of 42/100. munchiez117 (203)   ranked 8,013 out of 35,394 in people   1 month ago

yes this happened to me in the 7th grade i did not know my friend's name
which later he became my best friend i didnt want to ask his name too weird
to do so i waited until half a year until i found his name through another
friend it was very relieving. if you dont know their name you can get away by calling then hey if you knew them for a while


myLot reputation of 97/100. simonelee (677)   ranked 2,783 out of 35,394 in people  1 month ago

hello, munchiez. that's a pretty long wait in knowing his name and eventually he turned out to be your best buddy. happy Did your friend(best friend)know about this?

Thank you so much for dropping by. thumbup

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. danrunsfast614 (1079)   ranked 2,561 out of 35,394 in people   1 month ago

I have had this too. It can be so awkward. I always try to stall and look for hints. Sometimes I just avoid using names and try to pretend I do know to save face. I am always to shy to just ask!:-)


myLot reputation of 97/100. simonelee (677)   ranked 2,783 out of 35,394 in people  1 month ago

hello, danrunsfast! yeah, it's too awkward to ask the person's name while he/she is comfortable talking to you. So, hard to interrupt and might offend the person especially when he/she is with someone. I'm avoiding it that he/she might be humiliated.

Thanks.

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4. myLot reputation of 86/100. bluray (324)   ranked 22,854 out of 35,394 in people   1 month ago

This has happened lots of time and it is very embarrassing situation.yaa i felt shy to ask for the name.
But i apologies for my bad memory and ask for a name with a promise that i wont forget again. and really i remember it always.


myLot reputation of 97/100. simonelee (677)   ranked 2,783 out of 35,394 in people  1 month ago

a very embarrassing situation!lol Good thing you have this guts to ask the person's name and apologize for forgetting his/her name. In my case, i always end up puzzled and my friends always teased me that i have a "memory gap". rolleyeslol

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. dianagnes (904)   ranked 1,394 out of 35,394 in people   1 month ago

So far its a No..i always do remember people with their face and name..ehhee! Even its not their full name but their nickname i do still remember.


myLot reputation of 97/100. simonelee (677)   ranked 2,783 out of 35,394 in people  1 month ago

wow! you have a really good memory!happy pretty sure when you're still studying memorizing and familiarizing your lessons is not a problem. You can be a good professor also. students will love you. happy

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6. lilyliu (29)   ranked 19,924 out of 35,394 in people   1 month ago

Absolutely,just last sunday i have experienced this awkward thing but fortunately i know the name of this forgetting people.
last sunday when i bought some necessary stuff in the supermarket,a lady patted my shoulder in the back of myself.she smiled to me and begin to talk.i keep thing what she is,but i know nothing about her.so i wanted to learn more about her and asked the question:Hi,look at you,you're brillant.how long have we seen each other since last time?And she said it's about three years after talking in the graduation ceremony.And then i asked:what do you do after graduation? I keep asking questions and finally i remember what exactly she is.
so when we're too awkward to ask the person's name,maybe you can try the way what I do:) and best wishes.


myLot reputation of 42/100. munchiez117 (203)   ranked 8,013 out of 35,394 in people  1 month ago

i think you did a clever thing but i would not be able to pull it
off so good for you


myLot reputation of 97/100. simonelee (677)   ranked 2,783 out of 35,394 in people  1 month ago

hello, lilyliu. you have a nice strategy there. The safest way to gather information to a person. happy Hmmm... maybe i should try that strategy too but it would be hard for me because I've been to many schools. lolso tracing and gathering information would be a little bit harder.

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (9021)   ranked 110 out of 35,394 in people   1 month ago

Rather than act like I completly forgot who they were I sometimes just say "I am sorry, I forgot your first name." I have found that most of th time when I do this they repeat there first and last name. STILL though I would not like the ype of questions she was asking.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. charmz1005 (370)   ranked 7,816 out of 35,394 in people   1 month ago

lol This happens to me a lot of times because I'm really not that good in names, especially if I had only met them a few days or seldom see them. In that case I just talk to them normally without saying their name, continuing the conversation and making him/her comfortable, after that I'll just ask my friends who he/she is. Happy mylotting!

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9087)   ranked 676 out of 35,394 in people   1 month ago

Hi there!
It happens with me also and many a times I forget the name of a person, if I happen to see him/her at a public place. I put pressure on my mind to come out with his/her name so that I could talk to or could great him/her. My memory sometimes fails me because we keep meeting so many people in our day-to-day life and sometimes it really becomes difficult to remember their names.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. KrauseHome (13462)   ranked 57 out of 35,394 in people   1 month ago

I think we all have experienced this one a time or two. Especially when you live in a bigger area like I do, you meet so many people all of the time that it is hard to remember everyone, even if they once told you their name. But I have had people start talking to me, and I have asked them where I know them from, etc. and then try to see if it is worth continuing to talk to them as well. But many times I have just let it go for fear of feeling made a Fool as well, so I can understand your apprehension.

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