It was Very Bad when my Ex-husband came this morning.. Police were there!

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We had made an arrangement that my ex hubby would come and get all his big furntiture today with a hired truck. The problems started as soon as he arrived. Four members of his family had come to help,plus two kids. A police officer was there too. I asked ex hubby why he didnt me who was coming from his family and that I wouldnt let in people who were feeling negative towards me or who were not friendly. I also asked where the digital camera was? He got aggressive quickly and pushed open the door and stood in an aggressive posture (you know, up close & menacing.) Eventually the police officer had to get one of ex's sisters to come in and talk to me. She was okay, but I let the 4 family members know that they should have let me know they were coming, as I have a right to know who was inside my house. A little later I asked ex about the digital camera which Im claiming is ours, not his before the marriage. He had refused to bring it with him, nor did he return my gardening gear. I had a printed copy of info regarding the camera, kindly supplied by a My Lot member. He threw it away. Items that we agreed on were removed. I gave his family coffee. Then came the bookshelves. I had written to ex suggesting that I have two bookshelves, in return for the $270 he owes me. He hadn't replied, nor had his lawyer. Plus, he kept going on about the Wii I was to buy him. I had one on layby, and had texted him during the week saying I would be able to pay it off and get it next tuesday. He hadn't replied to that. He tried to twist everything. He got angry and picked up the big rug which he had said I could have in exchange for the Wii. I was not strong enougfh to get it off him. By then, I had enough. I told the police that ex and hius family had to leave. At that stage, ex was at the bookshelves, with his nephew throwing books out. I told the nephew to stop and he wasn't exactly cooperative. Ex then started shouting that he doesnt owe me $270. The Police Officer had to ask ex to leave a few times, before he would cooperate. Now that means ex will have to come back and get the rest of his gear. He says he doesn't have to tell me who he is bringing with him, in my house. As if... I think he has a block on text messages from me, hence he may not have got the Wii one... I posted him a letter 10 days ago with my offer for exchange of goods. No reply from him or his lawyer. What a mess...My daughter walked out when it all got agro and went to the shops. I kind of felt sorry for the police officer who was trying hard to settle things.