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Why do men think that "girls love teddy bears and soft dolls"?  email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 98/100. smilyn (1070)   ranked 304 out of 32,944 in life 3 years ago

I'm not that crazy on teddy bears..But my hubby presented me one when we got married thinking that I may love it..In the same way my sister's fiance had gifted her one in the last week assuming that she loves teddy bears..My friend has also recieved one from her husband..But the fact is teddy bears are not our favourite ones..Why is that many men decide that girls love teddy bears or soft dolls..Do all women love teddy bears?


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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (14489)   ranked 86 out of 32,944 in life   3 years ago

Wouldn't it be nice if women could give men teddy bears! I know it's going off the subject slightly but I wonder how men would respond if their wife or partner gave them a teddy bear? So in that relation it should work both ways, we are in the 21st century and yet stereotyping is still in full force. I think a lot of men either don't have much imagination or they still live in the stoneage LOL! Mind you I guess it makes a change from flowers doesn't it? Do all girls love receiving flowers, or do some girls think that flowers are a man's guilty concious, or maybe teddy bears and soft dolls have taken the place of the flowers as the guilt present. Just my thoughts here my friend.


myLot reputation of 98/100. smilyn (1070)   ranked 304 out of 32,944 in life  3 years ago

ha..ha..I also tried to imagine how men would respond if their wife or partner gave them a teddy bear. lol... Men give teddy bears and flowers to women because may be they feel women are very soft like those ones...happy

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. Torunn (1536)   ranked 2,382 out of 32,944 in life   3 years ago

I would be very annoyed if someone gave me teddy bear or soft doll, I think they're for children. I'd rather have hard packages :-)


myLot reputation of 98/100. smilyn (1070)   ranked 304 out of 32,944 in life  3 years ago

ha..ha..interesting one..

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. dragon54u (15679)   ranked 233 out of 32,944 in life   3 years ago

This is another area of our lives that the media completely controls! This is how we are portrayed and it will stay that way until we either pool our money for a media blitz, make our own tshirts saying "I hate teddy bears" (even if we don't really hate them), or announce to every man we meet that we are not nuts about teddy bears.

Sad to say, this misconception will only increase as Valentine's Day approaches.


myLot reputation of 98/100. smilyn (1070)   ranked 304 out of 32,944 in life  3 years ago

you are right...the sale of teddy bears increases as valentine day approaches..and everything has been designed as such..

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. savypat (13307)   ranked 43 out of 32,944 in life   3 years ago

It's the advertising. Men often have trouble thinking of gifts for their girls so they buy into the ads they see on TV or read in magazines. I would only love a stuffed toy because my love gave it to me not for the toy it's self.


myLot reputation of 98/100. smilyn (1070)   ranked 304 out of 32,944 in life  3 years ago

yes, that is how the media has moulded us..And great to know about your stuffed toy...happy

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5. myLot reputation of 92/100. enola1692 (2228)   ranked 6,581 out of 32,944 in life   3 years ago

No I am not into teddy bears either thats why my hubby got me a a cat knick knack he knows I love cats


myLot reputation of 98/100. smilyn (1070)   ranked 304 out of 32,944 in life  3 years ago

that is nice..It is always a happy one when we recieve something what we love..

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6. myLot reputation of 75/100. crazeMD (161)   ranked 12,472 out of 32,944 in life   3 years ago

i guess teddy bears and soft dolls have been considered "girly stuffs" since time immemorial. Its the safest and no-brainer gift a guy can give. the generic "sweet gift" i may say. maybe they think that we love to hug and imagine that the teddy is them. haha. anyway, i love teddy bears and i love hugging 'em. and anyway, it's the thought that's important.

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