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myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life 2 years ago

Hey friends,
An old lady who is a professor in a university has lodged a complaint against her neighbors. According to her she is scared of her neighbors as they are truck drivers by profession and are UNEDUCATED !!! surrender
These people are actually a group of bachelors who are working hard to earn their daily bread and as they are truck drivers I believe may return home at very odd hours in the night. But that doesn't make them dangerous or a threat to society. They pay their rent on time and behave just like all of us in the society. No one else has any problems with them.
Now the old lady wants the committee to throw these poor guys out and bring new people in. To my surprise many are supporting her considering she is old and also a teacher.
Iam in dilemma as the lady is a good friend of my mother but I find it absolutely wrong the reasons she stated for removing those guys. So tell me friends what would you do if u get into a situation like this?

Cheers,
Tutul

 

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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. Sir_bobby88 (7831)   ranked 3,604 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

You mean if you are a cunning business man who got an degree , means you are a good person ? i doubt so yea .


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hey,
Well it seems that many people in the society thinks and behaves in those lines. It's sad but it's true.

Cheers,
Tutul

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. udayrao2 (429)   ranked 8,341 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

You are right. No, being bad has nothing to do with money or education, it is the background culture, upbringing by family, social environment/surrounding etc There are many people who are rich & highly educated and still bad and crooks or criminal minded and anti-social, and the reverse too; so one cannot generalise.


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hey,
Absolutely people who are rich and educated commit crime as well. And thats definitely not the criteria to differentiate people. But the thing to note here is the mindset of people. Even today people have such low IQ level which is amazing and also shows that how tough it is to be in this mean world if you are poor.
Anyways thanks for responding.

Cheers,
Tutul

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3. myLot reputation of 100/100. astonysh (4492)   2 years ago

Do what I did when I was 19 years old, and stand up for them - politely but vigorously. Working people who do an honest job should be appreciated for the efforts that they put in. Many of my uncles and cousins only had a basic education and worked hard doing "nothing" jobs.

I could easily reverse your question also and ask "are you a good person just because you are rich and literate?". I don't know why Jeffrey Skilling & Bernie Madoff came to mind at that moment, but the answer is often going to be "no".


myLot reputation of 83/100. BlueAngelRS (1142)   ranked 2,681 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

I agree with you that hard working people should be appreciated for their efforts.....


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hey,
Well iam doing whatever i can. But the problem here is that lady is a friend of my mother and its kind of tricky for me. But that cannot be an excuse and some one has to stand for the right cause.
Well these guys work hard or not they earn good money or not is a different issue altogether. The thing is you cannot throw a person out of his home just because someone made a vague complaint.

Cheers,
Tutul


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (7235)   ranked 137 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Very true, a vague complaint isn't grounds for having people leave their home. Anyone could claim they don't like their neighbor and have them thrown out.


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hi writer,
Yes if she gets successful in removing those guys out then i guess we are inviting violence in our society. Anyone having a dispute with the other will simply lodge a complaint and look for the same results.
Very good point to raise.

Cheers,
Tutul

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. ladygator (2180)   ranked 7,738 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

Wow, thats pretty bad. My husband was in the truck driving and he definatly is not a bad person. And these guys cant even be illiterate. You have to know quite a bit to be a truckdriver. It can be a very hard job at times. The fact that this woman is a teacher is even more disturbing. She is acting like the people in the olden says like in the scarlet letter when they wanted to hang and stone people. Our society is in such a deficiet of humanity and kindness it really is sad. I would not under any circumstances go with this plot to get them out. Maybe you could write a letter to your landlord explaining your end, and just stay out of it with the lynchmob.


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hey lady,
In my country ( India ) u can get a driving license even if u cant read and write. So its slightly different here. Regarding that old professor, Yes she is weird. You wont believe she is PH.d in Physics and its amazing to see a person behaving like that who is so qualified.
I wonder what the young generation is going to learn if their role models in life behaves in this fashion.
Well I dont know who is their land lord. Iam living in my own apartment and we all live in the same compound. So i guess the committee members of the compound has to decide whether they should stay or not.

Cheers,
Tutul

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5. myLot reputation of 89/100. nocturn98 (857)   ranked 3,214 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

Being poor and illiterate doesn't mean you are a bad person. It has nothing to do with your character. Think of the meanest, baddest, most evil person you can think of.. I'm sure he/she is someone rich and educated.


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hey,
I agree with you completely.

Cheers,
Tutul

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6. myLot reputation of 75/100. bea_29 (216)   ranked 13,499 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

that is cruelty to fellow humans. absolutely inhumane. being a truck driver does not mean they are illiterate, because if they are illiterate then they can not read the road signs and follow road instructions. profession does not dictate a persons actuations. even professional people are rude as what the professor is doing. she may be an EDUCATED PERSON BUT UNLEARNED.


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hi bea,
Yup true. Really not expected from some one whom i really respect so much. Probably with time she will realize that she is making a mistake and the committee member will take a right decision.

Cheers,
Tutul

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7. myLot reputation of 83/100. BlueAngelRS (1142)   ranked 2,681 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

Who is this older lady to say these men aren't educated they very well could be but they have chosed a profession that they enjoy and pays them decent wages....To have a drivers license of anysort you need to know how to read and study for written parts of an exam.....I would talk to her if you can in a polite member and find out why she is scared of these men....I think sterotyping cuz they are truck drivers could have alot to do with it or maybe I'm wrong just trying to help....HappyMylotting.....


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hi blue,
Well as far as i know of those guys they belong to outskirts and are not from this state. SO this makes it even more difficult for them to defend themselves.
I had a word with the lady and she also gave me the same reasons which i have stated here. Also she fears that these guys may rob her house as she is mostly away in the university to teach.

Cheers,
Tutul

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. jewels49 (1124)   ranked 2,915 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

This professor sounds quite ignorant in my opinion. Being a ruck driver doesn't mean un-educated and it certainly isn't a nothing job. Were all the trucks in our country to quit rolling at once, people would soon find out how much of what we need depends on these guys.

Being a truckdriver also doesn't mean prone to criminal behavior. My husband has moved drilling rigs and heavy equipment around this country and a couple of others for 15 yeasr and has passed military background checks and has to pass a homeland security background check every time he renews his hazardous endorsement on his CDL.

Sounds to me like someone needs to educate the professor.


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hi jewel,
Well u r right in saying that not every truck driver is a criminal. But if u go through the news and all you will find a lot of criminal activites done by these people.
So people are skeptical about them and they have reasons to be like that. I dont know much about their backgrounds either but that is one reason why they are not getting much support from the committee.

Cheers,
Tutul

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. megamatt (7986)   ranked 564 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

Really a person that is uneducated is in a danger to people. Really, this is one thing where it just makes me want to raise my hand to my forehead and slap it over and over again. Educated does not mean harmless. Well, uneducated does not mean harmless either, but that's far from the point. To say these people cause a danger to people just because they are uneducated is quite frankly beyond belief and not to mention ignorant.

A person who is educated should really know better than this. It is not what the person is. It is who the person is. These are just people who are trying to scrap by a living and might be doing the best they can to get by with what life dealt them. Perhaps there is a good reason why these people are uneducated. Of course, some people just seem to look down on people like this but that is society for you.

Moving these people out is going to solve absolutely nothing. In fact, moving someone new in that is educated, you might be trading a harmless person for someone completely diabolical. There are many educated people out there that are quite twisted and even more dangerous. They are competent enough to cause real harm because they know what they are doing and they are smart enough not to get caught in many cases. So it does not seem like too smart of a trade off if you look at it from that angle.


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hi mega,
Look i need to share some thing here. This lady is doing a white collar job. She is well to do and she owns her apartment. Now the thing is the place where we live is kind of expensive. SO she had to shell out a lot of money to buy her apartment.
Naturally she never expected a group of bachelors and that too truck drivers to be her neighbors. Just for a moment think from her mindset and u may find some logic. She is a working old lady, out of her house most of the time and returns home in the evening. And she has a group of young men living next to her and they are definitely not friendly with her and also suspicious.
She is scared that these guys may rob her house and flee . But on the same time u cannot lodge a complaint against someone just because u assume that they can do such criminal activities. SO its a tricky situation really.

Cheers,
Tutul


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

But i agree with you completely that even having a so called educated neighbors will guarantee that they wont do any harm to her.
You have a valid point here.

Cheers,
Tutul

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10. dingdangdoodle (98)   ranked 7,752 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

Maybe its just the old age? I have seen many and know quite a few old ppl, that are just too old to be reasoned with and are just getting childish in their mind.

Ofc you should stand and tell your opinion if you think its the right thing to do.


myLot reputation of 93/100. tutul0045 (1391)   ranked 620 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

Hey ding,
Iam definitely standing for them. And iam sure i will be able to defend them as i have friends in the committee members. Look justice should be done and it may spoil our relationship with that old lady. But may be after some time she will realize she was making a mistake.

Cheers,
Tutul

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