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myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20758)   ranked 9 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues 2 years ago

I have noticed I do very silly things to make sure I'm clear on things that are extremely insignificant. I have an SUV (used). So to demonstrate what I'm talking about... My dad wasn't sure last night if he wanted to drive his car. So I said, you can take my vehicle. Vehicle. Why vehicle? Because it isn't a car, it sounds odd to say SUV, so I have noticed I say vehicle.

Another silly one? Every time I say kid, I immediately stop myself and remember that a kid is a goat, a young goat. So sometimes I just feel compelled to say child. It doesn't matter if I put kid! But I'm silly enough to write child. Another one is when I say I'm mad. Mad means insane or crazy. So I try to use angry instead of mad. Ridiculous isn't it? I never ever think anything of other people using mad or kid, never. It's just my own little weird thing.

Any of you have anything you get technical about that it just really doesn't matter? There is a phrase that drives my sister up the wall. It is incorrect English, but people say it all the time. I won't even type it. But if you're watching TV with her, and someone says it, she immediately points it out! She never misses that phrase when people say it. It's funny.

Anyone identify with me at all?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (24270)   ranked 349 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues   2 years ago

Very much so, I'm very uncomfortable with certain types of slangy expressions. I don't call San Francisco Frisco and once I learn a person's name one way, I have trouble learning it another way (nickname, name change, whatever). And I even if I understand another person who uses an incorrect word, I will make sure that I use the correct word myself.


myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20758)   ranked 9 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

The last one you said, I've had trouble with that. I don't want them to feel like I'm looking down on them, but if someone says something incorrectly, and the word happens to come out of my own mouth out of conversational necessity, I will say it correctly. I just always hope they don't think I'm speaking down to them. I know I've mispronounced words before.


myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (24270)   ranked 349 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

I have had a really hard time with that. I have one online friend who has the most atrocious English I have ever seen and yet from talking to her, she's a pretty smart woman (native speaker). Sometimes I have to sort of choke back the impulse to correct her, but yet talking to her is worth the effort.

My husband isn't a native speaker and he has some pretty weird expressions and sometimes I'll correct him and my daughter will go, "oh mom you know what he meant"...


myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20758)   ranked 9 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

lol

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. jerzgirl (3245)   ranked 124 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues   2 years ago

I am like that when talking about citizens of the US. I won't call us Americans because I learned when living in Venezuela that South Americans are Americans, too. We're North Americans who live in the US. Canadians are North Americans who live in Canada. Mexicans are North Americans who live in Mexico. But, we're ALL Americans because we live in the Americas. I was just 10 when a Venezuelan neighbor boy I was playing with brought that to my attention and I've never forgotten it. So I am careful to call us US Citizens, NOT Americans.


myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20758)   ranked 9 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

That's definitely not something most people think about.


myLot reputation of 94/100. jerzgirl (3245)   ranked 124 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

I've never wanted to be like anyone else, either! I rather like being unique. wink

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48775)   ranked 487 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues   2 years ago

hi ambie pam I do the same thing, children not kids, angry not made, vehicle, and television instead of TV those are things I have always
done, as children are not baby goats, and I may look a little looney when I am angry but I am not mad. So I guess we are stuck with it, and I had teachers when I was little that always corrected me too so the lessons really stuck. Oh and as my dad was a d octor I will not say Doc when I mean doctor as I think its disrespectful, I like my doctor very much , he is kind and takes good care of me, he always shakes my hand when I leave but I would never think of calling him Doc Schreiman at all, probably would shock him if I did.he he. I do however call the television the boob tube as I think it does sort of make boobs of us
at times.thumbupthumbupthumbup


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48775)   ranked 487 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

typo alert mad not made, oh my even spelling checker didn;t save me there.


myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20758)   ranked 9 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

I hate when people say Doc!


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 524 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

The boob tube!lol I haven't heard that one in a long time although I like your explanation ... as I think it does sort of make boobs of us at times.lol True enough!


myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35334)   ranked 2 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

I thought of the one I did not like--Cop. I never referred to policemen as cops or pigs. I also never threatened children that the police would "get" them if they were naughty, that is generally not true. I wanted them to know I would "get" them if they were naughty, though.


myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20758)   ranked 9 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

It burns me when people call police officers, pigs. When my father was fifteen, he lost his older brother Danny. Danny was a police officer in , and was killed in the line of duty.

When someone is trying to rob one's home, is the homeowner going to shrug in disdain and not call the police because they have labeled the police pigs? No, they'll be yelling at the 911 operator to send the calvary. The best way for someone to get me going, is to call a police officer a pig.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 524 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues   2 years ago

Well actually AmbiePam I think I'm pretty relaxed and laid back about things like that, but I too have an SUV and I call it a truck I guess because I always drove cars before!lol Some words in the English language I can't stand like if someone says I took out the chicken to un-thaw for supper tonight! Wouldn't un-thawing in fact be freezing? I say kids all the time and it doesn't bother me any and as far as I know the people I say it in front of!

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. cloudwatcher (4168)   ranked 758 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues   2 years ago

I'm also uncomfortable using some incorrect expressions, such as butter for margarine, but the SUV/car one wouldn't bother me.

I am even more particular when it comes to the English language. It really grates on me to hear people compare TO instead of compare WITH, or to say something is different TO instead of different FROM - and apologies to my American friends, but how can something be different THAN? I constantly corrected my sons when they used used the wrong words, but with other people, I just ignore it - but it does grate.

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35334)   ranked 2 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues   2 years ago

I have things I am particular and precise about, and so do my children. I do prefer children to kids, or even better, adult children are nice. I am more likely to SAY kids than to type kids. I thought of something while reading what was written by others, but it has slipped my mind, perhaps it will come back. I am particular about describing person's emotions. Oh, I just thought of one that gets to me--people from Scotland are not Scotch, that is something you drink and from Finland they are not Finnish that is the surface of flooring or wood.They are Scots and Fins and can be Finlanders. I always have to clarify if I say some one is Indian whether they are East Indian or Native Americans. I do not like the term alien for two reasons. The first is that it conjures up pictures of little green men with one eye and funky skin. The second is that at one time we were all aliens. My daughter, in particular, has always been very precise.


myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20758)   ranked 9 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues  2 years ago

You've actually heard people say those from Scotland are Scotch? Oh my word, that is horrible!

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7. myLot reputation of 100/100. jillhill (17702)   ranked 6 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues   2 years ago

Well I can't stand it when you are sitting at a table in a restaurant and they call you "guys"....the slang is so accepted but I am a woman....not a man!

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8. myLot reputation of 83/100. Carpathian (482)   ranked 4,006 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues   2 years ago

Yes, I have a few of those that I have to bite my lip on. My new hubby is wonderful and I would not trade him for the world. And, His family is the best group of ppl you would want to ever meet. They are nice and helpful when you need it but not pushy or over baring. With that said, there is this one thing that they all do I can't stand. They kill the English Language! I was an Interpreter for two years. I had to listen to kids speak English and correct them if they where wrong. I am not staying I am perfect on it. But, I can't stand when ppl say things like, "I'z got to get me some milk from the stor." Or, me young'n bee fo termorrow! Uze wont to come by fo a while tu catch-up on the outhers?
Sometimes, my husband has to tell me what some of his family says! I just don't know what some of the words are. It is across of Hilly-billy and Red-Neck with a touch of Dip in the Lip! lol

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This is how some of my hubbies family looks and sounds.lol

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. Opal26 (14496)   ranked 661 out of 4,344 in have discussion on day to day issues   2 years ago

Hey Amber! That's another thing that we both have in common! I
do the same things, and with the same words! I say them and
stop myself, the same exact way for the same words, as if it
really mattered! English was my best subject, but it you heard
me talk you'd never know it! I have a "filthy mouth" as quite
a few of my friends and boyfriend tell me! I do curse a bit
and I don't know why! Even my Mother, who's 80 uses the F word
all the time! She never used it when I was growing up. In fact,
she didn't start using it until she met my Step-Father from Hell!
But, yet when I'm writing or having a conversation where I
have to be civil and watch my language I will change certain
words because of the way I was taught, as in the examples you
gave!

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)   2 years ago

I do Ambie.wub
I watch what I say and how on a constant basis for I inherited my Mother's brogue and also like you, I do not feel it is respectful to call chidren kids..just my crazy sort of way you know?
So yes, I relate entirely to this way of thinking and I see nothing wrong at all with it.
It shows conscience, a thing many do not have!happythumbup

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