Am i the only one that has fusses w/my kids?  

Thanks for responding. He is 28 w/a wife & 5 year old son. It breaks my heart when this happens. I'm not suppose to have an opinion on anything especially if it's different than his. Happy easter to u.

I know it is hard to not say much. I know he gets angry at me but usually he just turns colors and goes about his way. Tomorrow's another day and it is less important.

We have three grandchildren (girl 5yr., boy 2yr & girl 7 weeks).

Although my husband comes home from his mother's house fit to be tied. She drives him up a wall. He seldom talks back to her but holds it in to take out on someone else.

I tried not to fuss w/mine yesterday because my grandson was here & i didn't want him to hear us fussing but my son wouldn't leave it be. Why does your mil drive your son crazy. Guess sons forget what all u did for them when they were little. Tell him from me to have more compassion for his mom. Bet she had alot for him when he was depending on her for everything.Thanks for responding. Happy easter to u.

Thanks for your response. I certainly don't want to do his thinking for him , he's grown. I raised him to be independant but not ugly to his mother. Happy easter to u.

Thanks marg, u are a sweetie for sharing w/me.I never get to take ryan anywhere . When iask to i'm turned down which hurts my feelings big time. ryan & i were invited to an easter egg hunt & cookout late afternoon at a cousin's & my son said no.When i told ryan about it he seemed excited . I thought it would be a fun thing to do just he &i for a change. I have seen very little of him lately. I just got my feelings hurt then son decided to run his mouth & we both ended up mad. I'm still mad & hurt over it.
glad u & your daughters made up. I'm sure they understood u were up tight about having surgery. Anybody would have been.
thanks for listening to me. U are a good friend. love & hugs.

Good for y'all. doesn't seem like we can do that. He hurts my feelongs over something then before it's over we are both p.o.I think we are too much alike.I just wish he was a more sensitive person toward me. Neither one of my sons have ever been that way toward me. I try to never make waves but when i do it's all my fault, u can't explain to them how u feel w/out alot of cussing & screaming. That's not a good thing.Thanks for responding. happy easter to u.

tHANK U kATHY, U ARE VERY KIND. i TO HATE TO BE IN A FUSS BUT SOMETIMES SEEMS AS IF I'M IN ALOT OF THEM. gUESS THAT HAS TO BE MY FAULT. i TOLD A FRIEND THE OTHER DAY I CAN sit in this house & think i'm not bothering a soul & get in more crap. i don't try to tell my sons what to do they are grown & unless they ask for my opinion i don't give it. Seems like i'm not allowed to say anything unless it's what they want to hear. I'm not turned that way. Right or wrong, i say what i think, always have & always will. I just hate it when people try to turn it into something else if u know what i mean.

Happy easter morning Bon, It makes me feel better knowing i'm not the only one that has fusses w/their children but am sorry u do. I know how hurtful it can be. they may think they can boss me but they can't. They may have to someday but i'm not ready for that yet. Thanks for your response. hugs.

I'm glad they aren't anything serious w/your daughter & it's wonderful u & your son never argue. I don't like to argue w/anyone but have never backed down from one either[not bragging].What gets my goat w/my son is that he's hurt my feelings & he can't tell the difference between feelings & being p.o. I usually end up being p.o. before it's over with because i don't like him going off on me.I'm afraid we are too much alike. Thanks for responding.

Thanks for your response & happy easter to u. I'm glad your mom & u have come to a good way to solve your arguments. That's a good thing. I'm afraid my son & i are too much alike.He hurt my feelings, he didn't make me mad till later when he was running his mouth. Thanks for your advice.

I hope you had a great time on Easter with your family, miss. Yes, my mom and I came to a solution. I simply started staying away from my parents and now we don't quarrel. Well, it is not the perfect solution, but I had to move out, because it had become too much for me in the end.

Have a conversation with your kid and I am sure all will be well soon...

Have a great time!

Thanks for your response. I did not see one person yesterday or talk to a soul. It sure wasn't a good easter but hopefully there will be another one. I'm glad your mom & u worked it out but that's a sad way to do it. I bet she misses u. Have a great night.

Sure there will be another one and trust me it will be the happiest one... I know my Mom misses me and I miss her too, especially the food that she cooked for me. And yet, I was and I still am, helpless..

Hope things become bright at your home, very very soon... Have a good time!

Thanks so much , u are very kind. Happy days to u.

It feels great to receive a compliment from a Mother... You can't imagine how happy I have felt to read your response... I am lonely, always; and yet, some good and kind souls like you, give me so much courage...

Have a great time, Madam!

I am sorry u are lonesome, i'm always handy to mylot if u need to talk. hugs.

Thank you Madam, for so much kindness.. I have already started feeling that I am not lonely anymore... Thanks to you! have a nice time!

I hope u have a happy weekend.

Good for u , Jen. That's the way it should be. Kids are suppose to be ruling the roost. My sons have been gone from home a long time but it's still my home & they are not going to come in here & act like an azzif u get my drift. Hopw u have a good day today & find the best egg. Thanks for responding as always.

sHOCK THEM BOTH & LET THEM KNOW HOW U FEEL ABOUT THINGS. iT'S YOUR HOUSE TO.Thanks for responding.