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myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (24693)   ranked 25 out of 27,472 in mylot.com 2 years ago

I turned down a friend request today.

Why?

Because when I went to see "who" he was (and I'm just guessing it was a he) what he had as his "saying": "Make money"

He started a discussion that was just a website - and that was taken down because he OBVIOUSLY didn't read the TOS.

He also went to my profile to request my friendship and IGNORED my saying that is: "I don't accept people with lots of banners for making money on line. Don't PM with that stuff!"

I guess I need to add - "Don't even BOTHER asking my friendship - I'll turn you down."

Now, I have had a few people join under me, one is still here, one is now playing poker on facebook and one died.

I was actually over at the one who is still here and while I told her to only pick a FEW interests and get responding and posting - did she listen to me? NOOOOOooooo.

After she had been here a few months she's like - why am I getting all this stuff about - ____________ (fill in the blank.)

Because you listed it as an interest, I told her. I told you to NOT do that - that you can always ADD interests - but you KNEW better.

I also have other "old timers" like myself who TRY to help the newbies when they get started.

Guess what? I don't even BOTHER if they aren't my referrals. If they can't be BOTHERED to read the TOS and they can't be BOTHERED to obey them, then I can't be BOTHERED to help them.

So, are you here to make money? Well, its a nice perk to being here, and I have certainly enjoyed making a few cents while being here, but if I had come here to try and get rich, well, that ain't happening!

So, I'm here to make friends and talk to people, and should I make a few bucks - well, GREAT! I have made some really good friends here over the last few years and I've had some GREAT times here with them. Heck, I have a world wide audience for my silly stories too!

Sure, I have quite a few interests, some are here because I start discussions in them, but most of the time I don't click on them at the top of my page, because I'm not THAT interested in them. But some, Science, Cats, NCIS, History, to name just a few, if I see them, I will click them and often will respond to discussions in them, even if I've never seen the person starting them before. And I've made friends that way. (Oh, look, I've responded to a dozen of this person's discussions in Horses - let's friend her.)

So, I ask - why are YOU here?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 75/100. OConnell87 (967)   ranked 6,890 out of 27,472 in mylot.com   2 years ago

i am only here to make some money coz i can do it while i'm watching tv. I dont accept people anymore because i'm not going to talk to anyone anyway. I dont see this website as a place to socialise just to express my opinions whilst getting paid, basically if i weren't getting paid for this i would not be doing it


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (24693)   ranked 25 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

And see, I was talking to people without getting paid before I got invited here.

And if you DON'T respond to people, you don't get paid as much, so why not make it a DISCUSSION rather than a soap box?


myLot reputation of 83/100. mssunloved (153)   ranked 20,928 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

I agree I think we are all here to make a little extra money. As for chatting with friends, I think that is more of a facebook. LOL I could be wrong though.
Have a good one all.

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. Sandra1952 (3179)   ranked 241 out of 27,472 in mylot.com   2 years ago

Hello, Elic. I'm with you all the way on this. I'm sick of seeing 'discussions' which are just adverts, and others asking basic questions that are answered int the TOS and FAQs. I just can't be bothered with that sort of stuff any more.

I'm also getting lots of FRs from people with only a few posts, and I turn them down, because I'm here for the discussions and my friends. I joined MyLot because it was completely different to any other site on the internet, and I want to keep it that way.

There are plenty of places for dross and scams - we don't want it or need it here.


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20654)   ranked 1,265 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

Hi Sandra! hugs

I was reading your response before posting my own and something hit me:
" ...it was completely different to any other site...". Is that still the same? Is it as 'different' as it used to be or is something changing? doh


myLot reputation of 93/100. Sandra1952 (3179)   ranked 241 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

Hello, Diana. It's still pretty different - it's not the site that's changing, it's the personnel on here. We seem to be a bit topheavy with money makers at the moment, and a lot of our friends are missing. You - and of course Lamb - are just the same as ever - thank goodness. thumbup


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20654)   ranked 1,265 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

It's the users that make the site I guess and if they are changing, or the ratio is changing (more here to earn than for the fun) then that is what I am sensing.

Several new users who were doing so well last month have stopped posting after, Ipresume, reaching their payout - and that's sad doh


myLot reputation of 79/100. _soonernation_ (1358)  2 years ago

why you should join myLot
make money

Did we mention that you get paid (cash!) for your valuable contributions here?

That's the best part of myLot for many users.

Learn about the earnings program and find out how you can earn some extra spending money.

I pulled this from the 'about myLot' page; myLot highlights this aspect of the site.


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20654)   ranked 1,265 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

That last line says it all:
"Learn about the earnings program and find out how you can earn some extra spending money".
The accent is on 'learn and find out how' and nowhere does it say 'we will give you it for doing nothing' whistle

Those that have learnt how are then the same ones that don't think about earning anymore. They know that there is no need to think about it silly


myLot reputation of 93/100. Sandra1952 (3179)   ranked 241 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

Hello, Soonernation and Diana. If only people would read that before they get on here and say 'how do I make money' or 'this site is a scam.' When I joined, I didn't know how either, but I read the guidelines, learned from the veterans and here I am, enjoying the discussions and not thinking about the money, but earning it anyways. thumbup

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3. myLot reputation of 78/100. 3honor (9777)   ranked 3,738 out of 27,472 in mylot.com   2 years ago

Hi ElicBxn you've responded to quite a few of my posts - especially my cat related ones - thank you. Yeh I had a moan the other day about how many posts where about making money GoAskAlice said they remove them as fast as they could but also do not and cannot 'vet' posts. I agreed obviously but it still drives me mad. It's not really up to admin it's up to us. I too have turned down friends requests if 'making money' is the reason they are on the site. My reason for being here is that it is challenging and interesting. It challenges my thinking and may even upset me sometimes and keeps my brain working sorting out my response to a post. I've made $9 so far (about £5 UK) mylot is hardly making me feel rich but yeh it is nice to be earning a bit for expressing my opinion.happy

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4. myLot reputation of 86/100. hiccup (8758)   2 years ago

ElicBxn

Miss Cranky Annie today.
Poor fella just wanted to make a $. Sure he is going to make a fortune from PTC, How bright is that,

When PTC and the like are sent to me from a "friend" I turn them off.
Most are the new ones, very rare an old myLotter will do that.

They learn after some time or just fade away.

HICCUP/

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)   2 years ago

I am here El because I fit here.

I like my friends here online

and I am interested in what they have to say.

I like what I gain from myLotting,

for instance, what I learn here.

Of course I like the pennies but that is only

an added bonus to me.

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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20654)   ranked 1,265 out of 27,472 in mylot.com   2 years ago

If I had answered this question three years ago I would have said that I was here for the earnings and to learn how to earn online.

If you asked me two years ago I would have said that I was here because I had many friends who I was thanjful to for helping me get started.

If you asked me a year ago I would have answered that I have many friends here and the earnings are just a bonus.

But you are asking today whistle Many of my friends are no longer here. Some are missing and will be back. I really don't know what else to add, maybe because I am noticing a change in the 'feel' of the Lot over the past few weeks. Too many new users who are just here to earn (and will be disappointed unless they start typing something) and many others who are busy elsewhere and only just popping in and out nowadays.

I will confess here that I am getting burnt out helping new users, half of which do not really want to learn sad and I have no answer to your question, today. Maybe you can ask me tomorrow? silly


myLot reputation of 93/100. Sandra1952 (3179)   ranked 241 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

Hello Diana. hugs There is a slightly different 'feel' as you say, and that's down to the money makers who won't even take time to read the guidelines first. I just don't bother with them now, and that is right against my nature, as I like to help people.

You say a lot of our friends are missing, and I think the reason they are missing is because of the lack of quality discussions. That's certainly why I don't spend so much time here. I am also busy on Helium, where I am earning quite well with my articles, but I would make more time for MyLot if the quality discussions were there.


myLot reputation of 79/100. _soonernation_ (1358)  2 years ago

mysdianait...it's tomorrow. Why are you here?

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. annierose (1413)   ranked 534 out of 27,472 in mylot.com   2 years ago

hi elicbxn,

Well, I also experienced same with some people under my referrals and it is really makes me upset. And sometimes I got a response also like I am crazy for staying on this page because I cannot earn much here. Well, I am not here for earnings only. I enjoy being here because it provides other opportunities much more important than earning few cents. Being in mylot makes us aware of what is happening around us. It also helps us to gain more knowledge and meet friends. But for some people, they think mylotting is just a waste of time. Anyway, I do not want to argue anymore with that kind of people. I love being here and I consider mylotting more of a relaxation rather than a site which I can depend my monthly income. cool

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8. myLot reputation of 75/100. unstopabble (428)   ranked 11,180 out of 27,472 in mylot.com   2 years ago

im here cause i want to earn extra income for family. aslo after being inlove with mylot i gave up many ptc site. including neobux. there is so much to learn here. and good ideas and suggestions that are applicable in real life

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. mentalward (6159)   ranked 327 out of 27,472 in mylot.com   2 years ago

I'm here for the same reason as you. I love to interact with people and make friends. MyLot is the PERFECT place to do this, in my opinion. The money is purely icing on the cake.

I also turn down friend requests when I see that they only seem to be interested in making money and getting referrals. Sometimes, I'm fooled and do allow them on my friends list but, if they immediately PM me about a referral site, I'll answer them with a 'thanks but no thanks', then delete them from my friends list.

Someone actually asked me if I wanted to buy a house located in the Philippines! Yeah, sure, I want to buy a house halfway around the world that I've never seen and probably doesn't even exist in the first place. Sure. suspicious

Actually, I'm quite surprised that no one has yet approached me here with a scheme to declare me as the "next-of-kin" to inherit a gazillion million bajillion dollars. They seem to be everywhere else! ninja


myLot reputation of 86/100. owlwings (12426)   ranked 654 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

Good heavens! By a very strange coincidence, I had an email a week ago last Thursday asking me for help in tracing the next-of-kin of a gentleman, Mr. Peter Talward, who has won $56,000,000 in a lottery but had, unfortunately, met with an accident before he was able to claim his winnings.

The lottery ticket is held, even now, by my friend in Lagos, Nigeria and, according to him, the winning amount (to be paid by the Microsaft and Yooha, Corp. Inc. of England, I believe) will have to be returned to the National Bank of Monrovia unless an accredited beneficiary can be found.

My friend is, of course, a Justice of the Peace, a Professor at the University, a respected Medical Practitioner and a Minister of the Church of The Holy Succour and of St. Puldeaddawon in Lagos, so his credentials are impeccable. If you happen to be a relative of the Late said Mr Peter Talward, perhaps you would instantly forward me your First Name, Last Name, Address, Phone Number, Bank Account Details and Social Security Number (together with your License Plate number and Library Card) so that we can process the claim for the outstanding amount. Understandably, of course, there will be a small remuneration of $2,500 (which can be sent to my PayPal account) to defray the expenses of conducting this transaction.


myLot reputation of 99/100. mentalward (6159)   ranked 327 out of 27,472 in mylot.com  2 years ago

ONLY $2,500? Wow! Lemme go get my bank details!

Isn't your friend also a former president of Nigeria? Also, didn't Mr Peter Talward's entire family die with him in that horrible accident? confused

Somehow, I now feel complete here at myLot. Thanks for making my day. roflthumbup

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10. myLot reputation of 86/100. owlwings (12426)   ranked 654 out of 27,472 in mylot.com   2 years ago

I think it's a shame that we can't send a short message with an 'add as friend' request - indeed, I think that it should almost be obligatory - saying WHY we ant to add someone as a friend.

Of course that wouldn't really stop the 'spam scouts' from trying to add as many people as possible but it might make them pause for thought (if they are capable of it in the first place, of course).

I'm not here to make money - but that doesn't mean that, if MyLot didn't pay us, I would necessarily still be here. 'Cents' are 'points' and whatever game you are into, it's nice to build up points!

I joined at first, I think, because I had been a contributor to Yahoo! Answers and enjoyed some of the discussions and social things there. It seemed logical to do the same thing here AND get paid a little for it. A little later on I became hooked and now I occasionally find myself thinking up valid reasons for spending so much time here!

One aspect of MyLot which, perhaps, only a few people have tumbled to is that it is a really excellent training ground and source book for writing articles that really do pay in some way. I love writing but have always found it very difficult to write when the topic is open ended and I am left looking for my own subjects. MyLot can help solve this problem by giving one topics to focus on and also (in the responses to discussions) by providing an invaluable insight into how other people see the topic and what specific problems they may have with it. This can be a gold mine for an article writer because it allows him (or her) to address common problems and the questions people frequently ask.

I have noticed, too, that, increasingly (as I read more articles and more about writing articles), my responses here are becoming mini-articles and, in fact, I have used one or two of them (suitably adapted) as blog entries and articles elsewhere.

I don't, personally, find the Interest categories a great deal of use to me. Occasionally I will browse the 'My Interests' section for discussions but generally I find the randomness of the 'New' tab more stimulating (um, well ... and sometimes depressing, if every damned discussion seems to violate a guideline or be on cricket or football. Maybe I should expand my knowledge field a bit or, at least, find something to sell in these interests!).

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