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myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,814 out of 32,950 in life 2 years ago

Lets suppose that you are a very normal, natural young woman between 20 and 40. You have grown up, and lived your life in a middle class society. You have had enough money to live comfortably, but have never experienced any perks that money can bring. You are flying out to visit relatives, and seated on the plane next to a wealthy, good looking man who has a proposition for you. He has just offered you $500.00 to spend the night with him.
Well, you are married with a couple of kids, but the money, is tempting, and so is the situation!
You smile and say "No," and he doubles the money. How high must he go before you accept his offer?
In other words, at what dollar amount do you place your moral values?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. kedralynn (568)   2 years ago

I think my husband would leave me if I did that, no matter how much money I got! And it's not worth losing him over. Now maybe if I was in desperate need for money, I might accept such an offer... But if I'm getting by ok with my current income, I wouldn't consider it.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,814 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Some people would be tempted more than others, depends on finances at Home. Glad you are one of the lucky ones!


myLot reputation of 93/100. kedralynn (568)  2 years ago

I hope and pray I just never find myself in a broke position where I might consider such an offer. I know it could happen. Just gotta try my best not to get there :)


senjakelana (1)  2 years ago

waw. . .

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. saphrina (7511)   ranked 289 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

happyHe can offer me everything he owns and throw in his soul as well, sweetie. I am not for sale. TATA.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,814 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Well its good to know that you are well fed, and your home is not mortgaged to the hilt. I wouldn't sell my car for peanuts either!


myLot reputation of 96/100. saphrina (7511)   ranked 289 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

happyStrange, but so true. TATA.

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

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myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,814 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

This question was posed sans Religion! Its a known, that every person at some time in their life, has a price!
perhaps I didn't make this sufficiently clear in my Post.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

I am financially sound so that offer would be flatly refused.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. savypat (13311)   ranked 43 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

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myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,814 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

A Great Imagination, and a head for figures! Always be careful of a woman on the straight and narrow! I'm sure he would give you time to get your Swiss account opened. Dream on Fair Lady!


MythRiddler (40)  1 year ago

'be careful of a woman on the straight and narrow,' yep; because--the second you show any sign of 'stuff beyond the straight and narrow'--she'll a) push you into going ahead & doing the stuff, but b) rat you out and leave you ENTIRELY TO BLAME for the inappropriate fun you thought you were both having!

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. EvrWonder (1930)   ranked 1,886 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Married? No price would be enough.
Although the proposition is an attractive one, especially if one continued to play the guys hand until he reached into the four or five digits, I think for anyone even to consider accepting such a proposition, especially if married, is immoral. Bottom Line.
Since I am not married, this day and age I would likely just laugh and say Thanks anyway.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,814 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

But the Question was - yes I'm sure your being Honest. Everyone has a price!


myLot reputation of 98/100. EvrWonder (1930)   ranked 1,886 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Right. Well how much would be too much? That is probably the angle that I would go on.

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. mommyboo (4304)   ranked 869 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I think I would tell him no initially, and if his offer kept climbing, I would say 'excuse me, would you like me to call my husband so you can arrange a deal with him? If he wants to arrange a deal, then we'll talk' lol! I really don't think that my husband would be interested in such a deal but since a situation like this hasn't dropped in our lap, I can't assume he wouldn't either. I think it would actually have to be quite high before it would pique my interest, because that would determine the value placed on the whole encounter. Morally, this is a strange situation, but that's why I would call my husband lol. There are people who have multiple spouses and partners and people who have open marriages, and really with something like that, it's open communication and trust that allows them to work. This would be the same thing, I'm guessing. I'd have to add some strings though - such as it would be one night and nothing else, no phone calls, no emails, no texts, no interfering in our lives, having us followed by a PI, etc etc. I really would wonder what would cause someone to offer something like that, I'm too cynical to think there wouldn't be ulterior motives.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,814 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

More people than you can imagine, are filthy rich and cannot count their money. You cannot get in touch with Hubby, so you must make a deal taking your husband into consideration. No strings attached, one night , no follow up, no nothing! How would $50,000 sound?


myLot reputation of 93/100. mommyboo (4304)   ranked 869 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Hmmm.. I don't think so. I would not do it unless he wanted me to and the price was attractive enough to both of us to make him want it lol. If I couldn't talk it over with him, I wouldn't. As you can tell, I am not one of those open relationship people.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48771)   ranked 956 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

barehugs when I was in that age bracket my father offered me a million dollars not to marry the man I loved, I turned him down as at thirty I had a right to marry the man I loved. now if I was married with children I still would have turned down the wealthy good looking man no matter how much he offered me. I think too much of my self and my morals to let money buy me out. I would smile very sweetly and say, Satan be gone you cannot tempt me to destroy my self for money . as I would feel he had a link with the Satan creature.After all I have to face myself in the mirror every morning when I put on my make up.

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. kfrisk (2822)   ranked 195 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I don't really thing that I would lower myself to that level unless I was completely desperate for money. I don't think that cheating on your spouse just to get some extra spending money is worth the heartache that you would cause your husband, the upheaval you could cost your children, and the guilt you would have to live with. I would not do well in a situation like that. In this situation, you say that I have always had enough money to live comfortably and that's really all a person needs anyways. What would happen if at some point you ran into this same man again? That would be incredibly awkward. I believe in the sanctity of marriage and when I marry, there is no room for going outside the marriage, money or no money.


myLot reputation of 99/100. kfrisk (2822)   ranked 195 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

I guess I forgot to actually answer the question...there isn't any amount of money that would be worth the possible loss of my marriage.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,814 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Personally I wouldn't want to take a chance on you refusing "Any Amount!" For instance there is an amount (way up there maybe) That your husband would want you to accept. Would your hubby turn down half a million for instance? Oh My I'd hate to risk a half mil on that!


myLot reputation of 93/100. mommyboo (4304)   ranked 869 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

See, that is why I said I'd tell the guy I had to talk it over with hubby. If he was all FOR that, I would let that be up to him. Half a mil? Maybe. A mil? Maybe. I don't know what his price would be. Mine would begin where his started lol. I am still not sure it's a great idea but it would be tempting if hubby were on board.

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9. myLot reputation of 35/100. urbandekay (6793)   ranked 17,091 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

A great question, it shows that people do not admit to being tempted but as we all know everyone is subject to temptation.

all the best urban

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10. dingdangdoodle (98)   ranked 7,755 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

It might have changed these days ofc, but i remember hearing a quote that everybody have their price, EVERYBODY. Besides 20-30 is the real party time, crazyness etc. So it might not be that hard for that wealthy man to get what he wants. Hey, if hes is really that good looking and a nice guy you might even do it w/o the money involved.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,814 out of 32,950 in life  1 year ago

It's a known fact that Everyone has a Price!

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